0:00 [Music] welcome back to careful boys we have with us the lovely colleen again hey colleen we're about to talk about something where she has a lot of experience aren't we dancing there we go filmmaking no i think ryan has more experience than this during the break it was funny because nick was like man i bet dancers get all the posts that they crush in the world and i was like yeah you know what dancers i think they have this like i don't know they have this kind of like trope of being like romantic dudes and they probably like a lot of girls you know like them and stuff they start backing it up on people oh that's dude that's the good did you see the hip rotation there that's really do a little bit of that is really good with the fanny pack dude
0:50 just look at my number oh my wow the the wow the fanny pack flew as a dancer bro i know i know what it's like you know what i mean and colleen's in a she's like neck deep maybe nose deep in the dance community right careful careful careful so as a lady in the dance community how has your experience been with these sex gods yeah surrounding you anthony do you think you're a sex god no i think he is he is the best that's such a sex god thing to say absolutely no he said like this no he said like that's like a
1:45 who the ████ says yes sex minions yeah people that don't have sex right here you have like god ordained sex yeah like yeah yeah i think that's the best way to say he's not a sex guy he's just got ordained yeah yeah god blesses me to have sex yeah because joe was saying like dude dancer dancers probably get all the push and i was like dude honestly like a lot of them are they they just creep girls out i think people are initially attracted to the talent but this is what i was saying off camera too as soon as they open their mouths it's a little bit of a different story what do you mean i don't know if we can blanket statement dancers on this one but let's keep talking and see what's like the stereotypical dancer creep
2:36 trope or all the suitors that you have well think about all the the people who are being okay that's different okay she was talking about all the cancellations going around hold on a row is there a me too dance movement some of the highest like position dancers were just getting knocked off their pedestals like one after the other slush they're just some creep ████ but you know but then rightfully so though i think that's a thing that has to do with a lot of like art or performance based talents those are all the coaches always have a sex with their student huh well i mean if you especially if you think of dancers before dancers were dancers they weren't always the most popular guy in school so do you think guys they could have also just been ████ weirdos too like do you think they get into dance going like i'm gonna get something i'm gonna get some ████ i'm gonna get something dude honestly there are people that will
3:26 message me like like ████ these young dancers message me for and that is their motivation i'm like what the ████ what makes them think all right this is this is what i don't know that's fair though because like i admittedly so definitely started dancing because i thought i was like oh man maybe girls like this but i didn't know i would like it more than girls like me doing it it turned into a passion you're like well this is a win-win but what okay what that's that's what this is what is going to say i mean if i've ever heard one how is this gonna get your ████ uh wait until you hear that move to the perfect sound and then you're like oh my god what would be the perfect sound wave i only wanna [Laughter] what is the dancer creep trope though yeah what's the i want to know i think when you're in tell us some stories when you're in your industry um you're only you only see your
4:18 industry right so like in the comedian world it's like some dudes like after the show they'll start talking and you can immediately go okay this guy's trying to use the set he just killed to kind of spit game or whatever like what is the dance creep so people out there i guess can recognize it is there like uh find the dance creeps in your locally right [Laughter] what should we be aware of i mean uh the the big me too moving cancellation stuff i think a lot of that comes from like the culture of what they call the grooming so you know when you're uh when you're taking some sort of young prodigy that is already in your ecosystem because maybe you teach at a school you know or a studio that has like uh some sort of tuition program where kids are constantly there or there's some youth team and you happen to be that like you know uh parental guidance kind of head figure you know coach whatever you're taking them to competitions or late night rehearsals or saying like you know
5:09 this is a big competition you can sleep at my house or whatever or you know there's a there's a giant retreat or well conventions that have that issue is where people who are traveling with conventions and they have hotel rooms you're staying in the same hotel that all these other kids going to that convention dude and that's a huge problem so with dance conventions those are like these traveling like uh sometimes week long seminars where there's like classes every day and they usually take place in like a big hotel where like you'll go teach in the ballroom but then your rooms are upstairs there have been times where we were teaching on those s████ and the kids would just go around trying to find the instructors and like we'll just knock on your door at like midnight to do what just to say just to see you just say hi it's an innocent thing but it's like yo you all played oh there's not the ice machines well
5:59 that's what that's what it'd be like so they're just playing like like oh they might be in one of these rooms and they're just like let's go find them but then then creep my open go come on in what's because like if these kids are like fans of you they just want to interact they're not it's like an innocent kid they're trying to like sometimes they're even just pranking you but you know if you're that's true if if i was really looking up to somebody and then like i you know at midnight i'll be like oh maybe they want to play like hide and seek or something you know like i no yeah it's that innocent yeah like they'd be like i would i would want to play with them dude yeah like this 15 year old girl was like knocking on our door and i opened i was like what the ████ and she's like hi like not just super innocent yeah she slammed in her face like dude no way man i tried to jailbait myself it didn't work you know what you got served his own i'm gonna watch that instead but it's always playing in a hotel room you know uh it's it's also like dance is
6:49 such like a um a uh you know passion and physical kind of art as well right so you might be in the room and it might be like you know teaching someone dance like no you got you want to move like this or fix this or your body and it can get into that place show them how it is show them how it heats up where it gets comfortable yeah you know what i mean so there's definitely people especially when you're putting into a position of power or totally take advantage of that where are the parents at you know what i mean like they sometimes are they're so they're attacking the bar getting drunk yeah or they want their kid to interact with choreographers to like gain a leg up in the career or just trusting a manipulative person who like on the outside is very doing everything by the book super responsible super nice right sometimes the actual creeps are the ones that are like super easy to hang out with all the time i never trust they don't they don't necessarily give you ████ up vibes it's more just like oh that person's really nice that's what the definition of creep is to me it's
7:40 not someone who's like going literally it's like creep is literal it's like they're creeping closer and closer to ulterior ultra motive but they're using dances like as the vehicle they're like oh yeah dance me and you blah blah but that has to build a rapport right and they know that you like maybe you didn't show like a physical interest off the bat so then they're like oh now what i do oh okay let me just getting close as a friend through dance and then when the time is right [Music] what a time we're having [Laughter] since it started since time started not having a good time so you think about like larry nassar and uh you know uh if you're a young female gymnast in the olympic team and it's
8:31 like oh like all these gold medalists came through yeah then you get put to that situation like i guess this is what it is and those same kind of things or tropes can kind of also happen in the ecosystem right you're like i'm gonna spend some extra time with this choreographer because they work on like serious industry ████ or have these opportunities obviously they're doing like dope stuff and then maybe you find yourself in an uncomfortable position but you're like uh maybe this is what you got to do because i remember in a different type of situation completely i remember traveling to russia my first time to teach and then the promoter and this is like back in the day so you don't get like a lot of uh experiences or stories but the promoters is alright cool you're just teaching this class all right now you're going to jump on this train and go to st petersburg um the train is going to be 12 hours you're going to be in this bunk uh it's you know i'm talking about russia it's like there's like four beds inside of a compartment and then you're just in there with three other random russian people that are
9:21 also traveling 12 hours and i remember thinking to myself like really like this is what i'm supposed to do and then the organizer who's totally sweet and cool was just like oh yeah this teacher did it this teacher this this teacher did it suddenly i'm kind of like i guess that's what i have to do and i put myself in a position that like nine out of 10 times i wouldn't have done that is that like a hostel on a train is it kind of yeah but i'm just i'm just showing the example of being like oh okay if i like you're just out of your element you just don't know how you can slowly be walked into a situation yeah i see yeah yeah so then sometimes when you see somebody dancing as a coach you don't know if that sweat is from physical or from perversion that's true yes that's true metaphorically [Applause] he's rubbing his mustache all the time i can bring up that clip so you know what i'm referencing it it's not me it's
10:12 not original material editor editor no editor note so like so like the the misconception of like rico suave dance dudes is actually like what what would you say that might be true in latin dance sure because i know that's like that's pretty prevalent like you hear a lot of ████ like that going down but for the dance that we're involved romantic dance man i don't know it doesn't seem to differ very much from just anything else yeah you know like just someone with just a bad motive you know now they're just really i mean like i mean like so let's say okay so i'm i'm pretty sure that the guys of dance might have more chances with romance and dating than maybe the guys of engineering you know anything that you can display some form of like prowess without speaking you're right it's you had a benefit because you could be the dumbest idiot and someone could
11:02 just be in an audience watching you and then going like oh i like him but like based on what you know like it probably depends on the type of dance because if it's like tap versus break dancing or why why you ████ on tap bro like that's way more attractive then well has that ever happened to you where you were working with a dancer and they started making it more about like more than work and you were just they started tapping in front of you no honestly i actually have never ran into that scenario i don't know do you think you have a good spider sense of like man you trying to ████ do something else or you just like you know i mean like like when you run into these situations like i take it for face value until somebody shows me that there is a clear line being drawn like i'll let you be what about any like boom mic operators
11:54 it starts bumping your what are you doing yo god damn it immediately immediately x down which style is the sexiest yeah and then which style is usually you find the lamest guys i think whatever style that you're doing that comes across most authentic no is there something yes because yeah he doesn't like this that's not the right answer because i think if you're doing something that's authentic and it comes across that way it doesn't look like you're trying too hard yeah because like although uh the the the river dancers out there just like my ████ is the ████ real ████ those things that they do in ████ las
12:44 vegas is so fake effortless what about like a so let's say a crumper is like i'm gonna do a poem for you in my face would you take that as oh man that guy's sweet yeah i would think that he has epilepsy so you're not a fan of dance then it sounds like clearly all right in your experience of dating right um if if uh which industry or like kind of hobby or or subculture has the most like romantic kind of suave dudes that sweep you off you guys do this across the gym when we like lock eyes and he has a book
13:44 you just can't get away from this guy the lead extra in my life anybody any any uh any memories of anything like featured extra tantalizing males are always there i guess with the hardest unicyclists there's not like a checklist where you're like this is gonna be the most i know but it's funnier yeah yeah well put it in a box put it in a freaking box it's in a ████ box yeah you got a box yes it says shanghainese oh that's so attractive is it choice is it like uh if uh if this guy knows how to move is there any correlation like if this person knows how to move maybe they know how to move bust it down that's like the common
14:36 thought right process but i also think a guy who doesn't know how to move that's a turn off oh he just doesn't feel out of here he's just like he woke up this way i've not learned yet stupid stupid i've not learned yet in the 35 years of my life colleen will you teach me i also don't know how to move nurse i'm back to hell he's a new robot fresh out of the factory he's a new mover you're canceled that's handicap when uh when did you start dancing colleen when did i start dancing i started dancing late 15 15. that's late and like competition yeah that's like sounds late like so what's the average age of three three three for real it depends on the style all
15:27 three-year-olds dance by the way well i was a studio so like most kids are in ballet and jazz and all that like three starting studio at 15 is late yeah for sure yeah for studio that's late and when you say studio what does that mean i'm not you're receiving proper training oh yeah so most kids that are into dance they start as a toddler like a ████ russian contour a lot of the really good people that you'll see you'll they'll be like like if you go to something really really good dancers instagram they'll be on thursdays there'll be a video of them as a ████ kid like on stage you're like damn oh like like okay when they're wearing the sequins also the dichotomy is oftentimes uh it's not 100 but it's like oftentimes like studio train versus maybe like street styles or something like that so like for example ryan i'm assuming again uh he was probably just learning uh street style dancing but never really went into
16:17 the studio to learn like formal classical training what what what studio what are some classical styles for studio jazz tap ballet contemporary modern and you have to take all of them so it's yeah yeah you have to take there's like a tui uh like an actual um curriculum intuition like algebra algebra two whatever it's like whereas like i started in 18 at 18 at uci so like as as like late as it gets and as cliche as it was i remember like me and mike and victor we would like literally take carbo boxes and put them in the ████ little garage and try to learn ████ i'll be hurting myself all the time but that was like we're like oh this is the street style you know what i'm saying we're streets out too are you in your garage when did you have that moment when you found the clock wait yours your your classical or your studio no no no oh cause i thought you
17:08 found a street man and then he taught you [Laughter] like a bum that teaches you a buddhist bomb he saw anthony's like this guy you got real there's a guy at third street promenade he's like you can you please teach me like get out of here i'm trying to make money i remember for the first few years i never made it into a dance studio yeah i mean like literally never went to a dance to the first few years first time the first couple times that we would like practice at a gym not even a designated dance space but just like a gym that had an open area i remember being like this is luxury when was the first proper class you took as a day at millennium shauna varisto is at focus dance center what age 20 or 21. holy ████ so at that time you only had what three years of training like training my first year at 18 i i
17:58 was too scared to join a choreo team so i went to the uci b-boy club for like a year and just learned like uh breaking and popping and then the next year i'll audition for a team and then the next year i went to my first class did you pick up korea fast i yeah i pick up fast but uh technique still took me just as long as anybody else you know what i mean i mean that's to be expected yeah but i had a fast pick i have a fast pickup because the probably taekwondo like the forms i i always like to think that things like forms in taekwondo and like playing video games like hand-eye coordination and timing were things that helped me be able to piece those things together um but when did you take all of those things you learned and begin to channel it into mackin on the ladies yeah that's the real question when i first started breaking i think it's a lot of people right like the very first thing people like some people be like yo you gotta learn like a little bit of foundation i'm like yo can we learn some windmills i think you see women
18:48 windmills so today we have a woman teaching me how to are there any um dance women creeps yeah sure like late at night you know what i mean and you're like i can't that's like a husband and wife duo yeah oh yeah in florida yeah yeah yeah oh yeah from me what happened yeah this is a group out in florida i'm not going to say the name again but it's a whole girl group and they're all full of creeps no there's there's like for example one girl group one dance team uh that was very very like won a lot of competitions in our american community it's like highly
19:39 prolific yeah specifically led mainly by like one dude and his wife uh they were uh outed in this whole slew of community me too type stuff what do they do orgies no more like uh aggressive and forced you know um stuff with youngins so they're they're the epstein and glenn maxwell of the dance low key it sounded like that again i don't want to say anything um yeah because this stuff didn't actually go to trial it just was like it's a ledge people a bunch of people just did a ton of ig lives talking about but you got like literally like like ladies from you know these dance teams and stuff going on ig lives during this time this coronavirus pandemic time you know people are like all on the phones always and they're they're giving these accounts and they're very detailed there's like tears there's people jumping on to there's corroborators of all their stories yeah and it gets really intense you know what i mean so
20:29 um that kind of stuff for sure happens but i think to answer the the concept of the question i mean if if men can do it for sure women can too but i do will say statistically from everything we see in here seems a lot more uh men are the predators in these situations yeah even the predators of men be man i mean that ████ that ████ happened with breaking a lot like uh with uh because you know breaking so mail driven and then when girls want to learn there's always a guy that's like oh i'll teach you there's always a perverted coach yeah there's always that i teach you moment and it's kind of weird too because you really wear my home studio okay i never why is it on the bench spins faster baby you want to be the best yeah it's like uh even even one of like my personal hero's uh crazy legs
21:20 he had some ████ happen to him where like he had a crazy dick you know it you don't picture that dick doing a sixth it just like goes crazy all the time no he got some ████ he didn't i don't think he actually like i don't know i only don't even know it someone was complaining that uh that he was like hitting on him and ████ when he shouldn't have been i think he was just like you know making girls uncomfortable while he was in a position of like you know because that's a hard thing right like you get put into put on that pedestal yeah the lines are so much more different from any other social interaction you know guys gotta shoot their shot outside of their workplace yeah don't ████ where you eat i mean like well if you're maybe you can shoot your shot to a superior no you can't do that but you have more of an advantage because when i train people i i load up the barbell like crazy right and i have them walk it
22:11 out so they're literally life or death and then i ask them on the date and then if they say no then i just tap the top of the bottle they get crushed personal trainer secrets my what a time we're having we're gonna find that ████ man i'm gonna look like a ████ crazy guy [Music] you
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