0:00 When he was like, "Do I look fat like this?" I'm like, "Not in this angle." >> You can't overplay it cuz they know you're lying. >> What if I say something like that? >> Well, not when I put my thumb cuz I can cover you. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> [laughter] >> Hey, why don't you REMEMBER THAT REMEMBER THAT ESKIMO JACKET you got a couple years ago for Christmas? Why don't you wear that tonight? Wear the Eskimo jacket. >> All right, welcome back to another episode of the ████ Careful Boys. >> Oh, ████ >> Woah. You said a bad word real quick. >> I know. I'm sorry, guys. I'm sorry. Subin is >> He is watching. >> I got to I got to excited. >> Okay, speaking of, when is it and Subin will answer first, when is it completely okay to lie to your partner? >> [laughter] >> I know the easiest one. The easiest one is >> you go first. >> When they go, "Am I fat?" You have to. >> [laughter]
0:51 >> I feel like you've had to explain >> I feel like he got caught. >> [laughter] >> I feel like >> Like I FEEL LIKE >> I FEEL like Bart has had to explain this one sin that he did for like too long. Forgive yourself. >> I I I have finally I have finally I have finally >> Have you actually? I know you and David just talked about it. Can you just let it go? >> I do. I I have let it go. >> No, that ████ was good. >> Right? >> That ████ was fire. >> Because Geo just taught Taika that lesson too, actually. >> What the ████ >> Taika's like, "HEY, YOU FAT ASS ████ GET OUT OF THE KITCHEN, B████." >> [laughter] >> NO, IT'S CUZ UM I FORGOT WE'RE TALKING ABOUT THE >> YOU don't need TO BE IN THE KITCHEN, ████ YOU'RE TOO FAT to be in your kitchen. >> We're talking about the We're talking about a friend and the friend's wife is uh is pregnant right now and um and you know like when wives are pregnant, not only do they have their
1:42 normal dramatic female self, they have the extra hormones from being pregnant. So, they're extra dramatic. >> Don't call them a whale. >> Don't call them anything. >> When they look like a whale? >> Well, so he was just dealing with that. So, I told him, "Hey, don't make the same mistake I did, which was when Geo was pregnant, she was like, "Hey Dúa, >> [laughter] >> do you do I look attractive?" And I was like, "Not as ATTRACTIVE AS BEFORE." >> BRO, I WAS LIKE, "THERE'S This is why you shouldn't be a medic." Yeah, there's got to be a bunch of ways you can get out of this, but you really word-crafted the worst things you could say. >> Terminator 2 robot. >> Because honesty is the best policy. >> Dude, but there's He's like, "Oh, she's going to appreciate my honesty." Yeah. Honesty, but like with like a blunt sandpaper and like I don't know an axe to the back of the head. >> Bro, I ████ up. So, that became our household conversation. And then I think
2:33 Taika comes in and he was like, "Oh, what are you guys talking about?" Cuz Taika's of like conversation age. And then uh I was like, "Don't ask. Don't ████ ask." Cuz this is a This is This is the eternal sin of all men, right? And then she Geo looks at Taika and goes, "Um do I look fat?" And then Taika was like, "No, Mom, you look awesome." And I was like, "Good." And she goes, "No, no, no, like for real. Like, do do I look fat? It's okay." And then Taika was like, "Well, yeah, like over here there's the there's the" AND I WAS LIKE, "NO! [screaming] NO!" AND THEN SO GEO GAVE her being a good mom to prepare him for his future ████ wife. >> You mean being a good mom so cuz she conned him. Yeah, what the ████ This is entrapment. >> No, she was like, "In the future, be honest to your wife about everything. >> Yeah. >> But when they ask about their weight, that's the only thing you can lie I
3:23 didn't have a mom to prepare me for this, so I had to learn the hard way, but she's being a good mom to help set him up for his future. >> You're fake news. You are fake news. That's the only thing to lie to your wife about? What about What do you think of this outfit? >> cheat on her. >> [laughter] >> Oh my god, what the ████ >> No, no, what about she just got dressed up for like an hour and a half and she's like, "What do you think of this outfit?" And you got to ████ go because there's 8 minutes left and you're going to be late. You just go, "F███ yeah, babe. It's ████ Oh, you look hotter than ever. And you know what I mean? >> There's a way to not lie. Oh, man. If I say this right now, I out myself. >> Please dance for us. >> Out myself. >> Please. >> No, you tell you tell the version of the truth that you can die by. And that the most flexible version of the truth that you can die by. >> of us are good gaslighters like you at the knee.
4:13 >> You gaslight every day you wake up. >> It's the truth. Anytime Anytime if if Here's the truth. Professional liar over here. >> She's like, "Do I look fat right now?" >> And if the honest answer relative to your entire existence is yes, and I can't say yes, then I need to default to something that I will die by. >> Like? >> Like I'll throw I'll take off my pants immediately. I'm like, "I will still do you like it was ████ day one." >> But she said yes or no. >> No, no, no. But I'm already But I'm already >> answer is that? >> ass saying her though. I'm already on her. >> Cool. Do me in front of our friends. I'm trying to get a rating on the outfit. >> Literally at the restaurant right now. >> What's wrong with this guy? This guy is so horny. >> Guys want a yes or no. >> work. >> Girls want a yes or no. >> you Am I fat? Why can't you just ████ answer it? Like absolutely not. You're not. >> No, you're like you're like a walrus. >> [laughter] >> No, bro. I'm not trying to have an
5:03 argument. >> like No, you're not like an elephant. You're more like a hippo. You're a smaller. >> I think it's more honest to just lie. >> Yeah, thank you. >> try to bend the truth. >> What if What if you like split it? >> MORE HONEST TO LIE? >> WHAT if I say, "Do I look fat like this?" I'm like, "Not in this angle." >> overplay it cuz they know you're lying. >> What if I say stuff like that? >> Well, not when I put my thumb cuz I can cover you. >> [laughter] >> Yeah. Yeah. Hey, why don't you Remember that Remember that Eskimo jacket you got a couple years ago for Christmas? Why don't you wear that tonight? Wear the Eskimo jacket. >> thumb one's really funny cuz then it's like it's not about my subjectivity. It's an objectivity. Before I used to be able to completely delete you here. Now I have to be here. >> Over here. >> [laughter] >> Imagine. It's ████ science, bro. You know what I mean? Like you can't fight that. >> And your house got smaller. >> Damn. >> Your house got smaller. So you have to
5:53 step You have [clears throat] to be careful about how you step back. Careful boy, you know? >> Careful boy? >> Cheaped out. >> Oh, man. >> What else do you What else is the only other times that are appropriate for lying? >> [laughter] >> I think it's just the weight one. I don't know. >> Well, >> the weight. >> No, outfits is big. Outfits is big. >> Outfits too. Outfits too. >> Outfits is big. >> I can't do that. We're trying to get the ████ out of here. >> Yeah, I won't Yeah, I won't lie on taste. I'll only lie for efficiency. But even then, I think I the lie is worse than just being angry. >> But look, if it was up to me, this ████ would be dressing like she's going to get killed in Scream every night. But that's not up to me. So she's not going to dress like that >> Slow mo Carmela Electra in Scary Movie? Not actual Scream? >> no actual Scream. Like tank top, ████ tight ████ leggings. That's it, bro. Let's go, boys. But like she's not going to dress like that every night. You know, she's going to wear a dress for
6:43 the girls sometimes. And I'll be like, [clears throat] "Fine, baby. Go dress like for the girls." But I want you to look like you're going to get knived in the ████ back and stomach. But I can't control that. >> I'd rather I'd rather have her dress like a ████ >> You know what I do think is is a very interesting psychologically social thing? There was once upon a time that our entire ████ ethos was getting ready was built around the opposite sex. Was it not? >> Oh, yeah. Yeah, of course. >> Like everything about it. >> Like the whole clubbing era. Like >> Why you're flexing. Why you're wearing this thing. Why you work out. Why you're wearing this cologne. Why you're doing your hair like everything was about some sort of ████ peacocking, right? >> You're trying to button your dress like ████ dress shirt and you're like, "I'm going to get my dick sucked." >> Mid mid-20s. >> Sucky sucky time. [laughter] >> Mid-20s, boy. >> Can I admit something? I don't know if that ever stopped for me as a as a man.
7:34 >> We know cuz you're a sex having guy. >> For my wife is what I'm saying. Like trying to always still be a version of something when when it's like going out. Not at home. I understand at home I'm a piece of ████ and I'm I'm apologizing daily. Yeah. But then I don't think I don't know. I don't think it's as reciprocated. You know what I mean? Where it's like oh it's time to go out. I'm going to look good for my man. I feel like it's always I'm looking good for the other girls. And I'm like that's very selfish of you. I hate these ████ when they do that. I ████ hate that. I think that's very ████ selfish. These ████ when they do it. You know how >> Is it really like that? >> Oh yeah. She doesn't do the hair thing anymore. Don't do don't do personal stuff. Don't do don't you ████ ████ I knew you were going to do I ████ knew you were going to do that. >> You laid it out. You put it on the T. You put it on the T. It she she clicked off. >> Should have been a Patreon video.
8:24 >> She clicked off. >> I ████ knew it. >> It's already 8 minutes in. >> Yeah, we're fine. >> All right. >> She clicks off after 4. >> Dan, do you guys do you guys do you guys ever feel that? That ████ is so one-sided. I don't dress up for the boys. I don't. It's gay. >> Girls do that though. It's like a it's like their thing. They have a girl cult thing. >> I accept it. I'm just saying when you rarely get dressed up >> Yeah. >> when it's rare >> Yeah. I'm thinking about >> You got to remember who it's for. You got to ████ remember who it's for. >> Dude, you sound like a >> [laughter] >> an old-timey racist. >> [laughter] >> ████ right now. >> you watch. >> I DON'T KNOW. I FEEL LIKE >> It used to be great. >> When you're together everyone everything changes. You know what I'm saying? So these days it's just dressing for the occasion. >> [laughter] >> What a dream. I'm the old-timey.
9:16 >> No, no. When you dress for the occasion though there's different little bit more like directions you can take. And so like for example, Ryan's wedding, right? Everyone's dressing up for Ryan's wedding. >> Yeah. >> But are you dressing up for Ryan's wedding for the girls or dressing for Ryan's wedding to impress him? Like that's what he's saying. Like >> I'm dressing for Ryan's wedding for my wife. >> I'm I'm going of >> See, >> actually that's a really funny one because I'm actually dressed up for Ryan's wedding for Ryan. >> Yep. >> Well, that's what I >> That's Ryan though. >> But Ryan doesn't have swag. He has like ████ thrift store swag. >> That's his highest version of swag. Why do you think I specifically am only able I literally went to shops and I'm I'm figuring out a thrift store outfit for the wedding because it's Ryan. Because I think if I show up in a nice I think if I show up in a nice suit, that's disrespect to like what he's asking for. >> On the theme.
10:06 >> He literally said on his like he made he made a note to write what to wear. There's a dress code. >> Yeah, no black. >> No black? >> Put a dress code Yeah, it says that. >> You better read that ████ >> read this ████ >> When a when there's a dress code on a thing, you have to like oh ████ I'm a ████ >> vibe. >> A ████ cares. >> like two days to find this ████ >> Well, stay stay You got to stay away from Savers. That's my spot. That's my territory. >> way, you sent me your birthday invite. I didn't read any of this ████ I was looking at the events. >> I know. That was just like the baby shower. I know you don't read my ████ >> this ████ >> you didn't show up. >> When was your baby shower? >> Before the baby came out. >> Yeah, my fault. >> It's all good. No, I didn't >> I think you were in boot camp or whatever. >> Yeah, you were in boot camp. >> Hey, that's that's crazy. So, no black. That's That's what I read too, right? No black. >> Don't wear black, but it's more so about like the flowery vintage floral like pop >> Like wedding singer. >> It's very Ryan Smeg. Like just show up
10:57 Ryan Smeg. That's all it is. >> I figured. I was just wondering like >> And I took that ████ seriously because I was like ████ I don't have anything to wear. And then I And then I And then we were walking around I went to Suit Supply and then they had, you know, really nice suits and stuff and I was like Ryan would actually ████ think this is wack if I went and spent money on a new suit for his wedding. He would He would think that would be >> I got a new shirt for his wedding. >> He He would think that's kind of He'd be like, "Oh, you didn't have to. That's cool." He'd be nice about it cuz he's a nice guy, but in his mind he's like, "You're kind of not tight to like to me." >> I I can handle it. I can take it. >> But But if you show up If you No, if you show up cheap If you show up exactly like you are right now, he's to respect you. >> No, no, no, no, no. I'm not doing that. I'm wearing >> If you wore this to Ryan's wedding, Ryan would respect him mad. >> [laughter] >> Ryan would have been like, "Oh, cool." Ryan would have been like, "Oh, cool." >> not let me go through the door, but that's why he respects her though. That's the That's the difference. But if
11:47 we show up all in thrift store swag and he knows the total ████ retail value of our entire Careful Boys crew was less than $70 total, he would have ████ high-level respect for us. >> I'm going to wear the same suit that I wore during Joe's ex's wedding. >> That's cool. >> Yeah. >> That means you have to also bring the laptop. Cuz that was part of your suit. >> Don't dare me, ████ >> Then he'll respect it. >> All coordinated and gotten the wedding singer ruffle like vintage suit. If we all wore that. >> That's it. >> I have that. I have the Dumb and Dumber suit. >> That's it. >> That's actually what he would probably want. >> You know what we should all do? We should all wear the Dumb and Dumber suit, but alternate it. >> Is? >> Read the ████ flyer and then think about him for 1 second and you'll be like, "Oh, that is what >> about him and Smac as actual friends for 1 minute and you'll be like, "Oh, that is what he would love." >> Put the flyer on screen. >> What What if it shows everything?
12:39 >> I don't know about that. >> But mine's like a Halloween costume version of that. >> Okay. >> He'll He'll like that. >> It's Ryan and Smac. >> Can I show up dressed as a bride? >> But it's also a wedding. >> And what? >> Dude, even if you pulled up in like a 70s, 80s vibes like a outfit. >> No, don't be absolutely ████ >> Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. >> That's hard. >> 50%. >> That's my line. That's my line. Either doing things right or full ████ >> you, he'll respect that. >> [laughter] >> I don't know where the ████ it is, but I feel like >> Just don't show up in a black suit. >> That's I won't do that. >> But that's all I got. What if that's all I got? But will Ryan think it's disrespectful that I spent more money on his wedding? Maybe I only got a black suit. >> I think it's disrespectful because he knows that you you have a lot of Amazon suits Oh, oh, they're called track suits. >> No, no. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. So, I can wear a track suit to this ████ >> He would rather that than you come in a black suit. >> I don't know, Steve. I don't know. I
13:30 don't know about that one. A whole ████ tracksuit? Everyone's going to be like suited and booted and you come in a tracksuit. >> He's going to He's playing chicken. And I think because that's crazy, he would enjoy that more. What the ████ is Ryan wearing? Glimmer suits or some ████ What the ████ is he wearing? >> Ryan's wearing black and white. >> Ryan's ████ fly. >> Dude, I hope he's dressed like a Bollywood guy. I really do. It'd be so funny cuz of the all the Indian ████ we did give him. Ryan's going to look great. Let's not worry about that. The question is Just make sure you don't ████ show up in a black suit. >> No black suit. >> in like that. >> No black suit. >> ████ >> I got 2 days, brother.
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