0:00 The only thing that you should probably tell your person that you're with is who you had sex with before. I just realized and I learned that I don't want to know that. I don't give a ████ about any of that. But if I know that you had sex with a person that I'm my imagination is just so up it's almost like Tourette's. What if she's like I just gave him the glut look. Please don't tell me that. [Music] Welcome back to Careful Boys. Today we're talking about if you have a new relationship, should you bring up your ex's ever? Wait, what did you say? When I used to eat a didn't smell like yours. Holy sha. Cuz yours is better. See, that's you flip. I thought we were doing the real truth at the end. You do a pregnant pal. Do a parry and then you attack. That's the only time you bring up your ex is to compare how you're so
0:51 much better. Honestly, that is true. You have that. No, that's a good rule. Don't even attempt to talk about it without ending with that. You have to end by how they're better and now it's better now. Yeah. What if it was neutral? You're you're just like my ex. Oh, you remind me just like my ex. You probably shouldn't say that. Spit an image. You look a lot like her. I think I have a type is what I said. You got to be like, "Oh, so like in if they if they make you some breakfast and you're like, oh, my ex used to make eggs like this, but they're not as good as yours." Long paws. Long paws. get her pissed and then you go, "But yours is so much better." Did Nina ever get mad at you for talking about X? Which time? That was the which time look into this. Uh let me go back through my memory of a couple of days ago. The first few days
1:42 or something like that. No, but what does what does come to mind is uh cuz um one of my exes is from like the same kind of space, right? So like they all know who each other is but like you know uh from afar type stuff. And then I had seen her in a long time. I was with Nina and then I saw her I was like oh my god it's been a long time. Good to see you. You know when like they're still your friend. So it's like was like I really haven't seen you in a long time and it's like you you got a boyfriend now now right? I think you posted something and then I think I seen you know off to the corner looking like you know I'm like okay yeah maybe I shouldn't inquire about that topic. Okay. That's like a life update. You know what I mean? It's like asking you got over me yet? You good? Hope you're happy cuz you know I'm pretty h I'm pretty happy. I don't know if you know Maui. Yeah. Like
2:33 if I wasn't with Nina like normally you would ask about the things that you saw in their life updates that they've recently shared like oh you moved here or you got this new job or you bought a house or whatever. And like I think I just saw that she had like moved in with her boyfriend this other state. So, I was inquiring about that and then I saw a look and I was like, I'm over that topic. She didn't talk about with you afterwards though, right? She would was like, "Hey, back there. What the ████ Anthony?" Nah, Anthony. No, it was like quick and innocent. But maybe she's still thinking about it to this day like I am. That was just more awkward for you than anything. Well, that's pretty good if that's the worst thing you've ever had happen. I do think the only thing that you should probably tell your person that you're with is who you had sex with before so that like you can kind of navigate it if you're going to ever be around that person. Oh yeah. Yeah. If
3:24 you're going to be around them, she'd be like, "I ████ her. I ████ her. I ████ her." And then so she'd be like, "All right, definitely her." To me, I just realized and I learned that I don't want to know that. I don't care if you tell me how much you were in love with somebody and how how many like this this reminds me. I don't give a ████ about any of that. But if I know that you had sex with a person that I'm my imagination is just so ████ up. It's almost like Tourette's. Like a visualization can just enter my mind. She's like I just gave him the look. Please don't tell me that. Hey just like in the future. Hey next time I I would I just would wish you didn't tell me that. But she's like, "But we didn't call it that then." Yeah, we called them ████ Cuz I think like early early early on I think you know when you're like really getting to
4:14 you know when you're like not in love with somebody, you're like starting to date and then like you know you're you're adult so that you're having different conversations. It's like like you know things like um body count like might come into a conversation. Oh yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But then you realize that the problem is at that st like like I don't mind knowing body count for example. I just don't want to know who it is. That's fair. Dude, I don't you might end up like me. What happened to me? Remember I told you I was already in love. We were already in a thing and then I asked body count at the it went and I didn't think that the number would be so high. And I don't know any of them. So that that wouldn't have been an issue. But what was the number? Do you remember? Was she like 135? No. The hardest part
5:04 was not was not that she ended up by saying 100, which she did. It was the fact that she couldn't calculate it for so long. She had to do a tally. She had never been asked. So she was just like, I don't know. And I'm like, what? Whoa. Don't say you don't know. Sounds like it could be kind of high. Like I was ████ around, you know? And she's like, yeah. And she's like, "What do you mean I don't know? I can't even like She's like, "I don't know." It's like I I'm I'm as old as you are. I've been around a long time. I don't know. And I'm like, "Whoa, whoa. Okay, so make a range." I started like losing patience about it. Then it literally You were asking for it, dude. With her going, I don't know, hundred. Ouchies. All my ouchies. Was a broad sore. Were you like I've only had three. This is Nina. What the ████ This is Nina when stops. This is Nina when
5:54 Anony's telling her um his body count. Three, two, [Laughter] I pictured it. How'd you get that queued up so quick? We have a buddy, dude. Comes off like, "Oh my god, cheeks." The G-force is pretty intense from all the way up here. You laugh, ████ Bravo, man. That was good. Do not like I bet I can find a video of it. But you know what's funny is that like right your legs body
6:44 count's like one thing but all it takes is one person that is in proximity that you know about that you have to see would be also enough to like yeah that's a bar bother you you know. Yeah. So one or 100 if you have to see that person that's just as bad. Yeah. And then the funnier thing too is like it's like if you do happen to know, but like for whatever reason, this is the most base level insecure ████ like beta stuff ever, but like if you look at that dude and that dude's like ████ hot, you're like, "A s███." Oh, yeah. ████ this guy, dude. Yeah. But then chances are like it evens out when you find out how much he abused her. So Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, abuse. We're going to fight. Yeah. Yeah. That's when the Kinjas rally up, dude. They wear the mask. We go like this. Five, six, seven, eight. Pipes. We don't like
7:35 the way you said mean things. We don't like the way you said mean things. Trying to hold on to Joe's choreography. Dude, that's my favorite thing about the bad music video where Wesley Snipes, they're all dancing at Wesley Snipes and he's like, "Which one do I shoot? What am I going to do? This dance is really powerful. You ain't nothing. Yeah, that's the Yeah, that's the same reason why I don't ever since that ex I just don't ask anymore. Don't ask. Don't tell. And the the only thing I do ask is that if we're about to see somebody that you have that history with, I would like to know at that point at least. I have a friend. He's I don't want to have someone over for tea. That's like, you know, I have a friend. He's only had one girlfriend, right? But then he's like always like, man, the women I've been
8:25 with, he's like, I've been the women I've been with. I've been with so many. He's like, "Ah, it's just I feel icky. Like so many one night stands." And I'm like, "One night stands?" And I was like, "You don't even club or pick up girls." And I was like, "You're talking about hookers." And then he was like, "Yeah, man. No strings attached." And I'm like, "That's not a one night stand. Does that count? Do you put that in your body count? Hundreds of girls, but they don't count." I think you put that in the body count. You put in the body. I'm like, "They don't count possibly." So when you're asking your lady, they don't count, dude. They count as two. You put that in the tax receipts. Going like that and and then she comes back and then like now we're going to talk about the hooker. But the way that he tight your tight legs, he was talking about it like he's such a player and he's so ashamed of all
9:16 the women that he slayed. And I'm all like, "Hold the ████ up." I'm like, "What women?" And then I called him up. Like you're just ████ hookers all day long. Sick. You have a message in your inbox. Oh ████ Oh ████ Oh ████ Come on, dude. Come on. I didn't mean it. I didn't mean it. Come on, man. My mother-in-law watches some of these videos. How many hookers? How many hookers? They're all cash transactions, so not really. There's no ledger on. They're all black market. Do we believe this? There's a um a friend of mine who I think he started telling me like pretty uh secret details about like that he's been seeing hookers and ████ Aris, it's not Aris. Yes. Then he started um he started telling me about it and I'm like okay cool. Like I don't care. Why are you telling me? Just telling me. No, no
10:07 big deal. But then like he ends up with this girl and then um since he knows I know he's like hey just wanted to you know I told her everything so I just wanted to let you know. Do we believe that? No, but why setting himself up for fail? I think don't even care to choose to believe it or not, but you should still never bring it up or acknowledge or confirm or deny. Like, hey, let's play never have I ever My question to that person would be like, why the ████ does it matter if I like know or not? Because you told me. You think I'm going to tell her? Well, yeah. It wasn't like it didn't come out of nowhere. It was just kind of like, yeah, we're at the stage right now. It's been pretty rough. like I had to tell her about all the stuff I'd done in the past and we it was a rocky period but we got through like kind of a I I felt like maybe like a 50% chance that it was a
10:58 damage control. Yeah. Yeah. But I can't be too sure. I I don't know the guy so it's hard to hard to but even like what does he have to gain by telling you that he told her the truth versus what he has to gain by telling you like hey like I'm with this girl and uh she's having trust issues. Let's never ever bring up the concept of prostitutes and hookers or something. If you do that to me, I'd be like, "Okay, green light to bring up the cookers and prostitutes when we're all hanging." Yeah. Like it's literally He just added liability. One of those situations is is going to secure it if we stay friends forever. The other one should secure it if we become enemies. That's a good dude. Like saying that saying that you told her everything if me believing that it's just like, "Okay, well then I got nothing to hold over your head if we have beef, right?" But then at the same time, knowing you as a friend, if I'm your friend, like, and you knew that, I still if we have
11:49 beef, I don't think you're going to the girl and being like, "Hey, by the way, he's sleeping with hookers." Yeah. You don't think it's like Elon and Trump and Elon's like, "You're on the Epstein list." But then like the natural order the natural order of how things travel is not me telling her. It's it's me talking about how much I don't like that person and adding that in on the description of their bio and traveling to her. Oh ████ dude. It's that but then still saying that like hey I told her everything is is adding liability. I know. So it doesn't matter. It puts it at a at a heads or tails where like I don't know now. Do you show up at one of his parties with I have never banged a hook on. I'm just wondering if that sounds believable to you guys or if it's completely a damage control. What's your what's your uh gut feel about this? You think my gut feel is that every other time someone has said that I never believed them. M this time I'm 50/50. M
12:39 I have friends who sometimes are like, you know, don't don't tell the girls this or whatever. And I'm like, you make it I mean, you make it sound like I don't know. Like now it's kind of weird. Like don't say that. It's like different when you should have a wife, too. Cuz it's like it's not like she's your girlfriend. This is your ████ wife. Of course, you're going to tell her everything. Wives know everything. I expect that. Like if I tell anybody in this room something, your wife is going to know. Yeah. It's on me to be ████ stupid. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's true. Cuz I'm going to use it to make me look better. [Laughter] I need points, dudes. Trying to rack them up. I'm throwing you guys under the bus constantly. Oh, you know what the guy said today? I'm going to tell Tiff about the ████ the controller thing. I'm like, "Babe, I never I let you eat whatever." It's like live and let live.
13:29 I don't get why Anthony takes it so serious. Yeah. Like like I don't even care about this controller. Look, I throw it across the room and I'm like, "Oh s███." Yeah. I'm playing video games. Be like, "At least I'm not beating your ass over it." Yeah. That's what makes me laugh though when people like I thought you weren't going to say anything. It's like, "Why do you tell people?" Yeah. Everyone got ████ loose lips. That's just the way humans are. Yeah. Just don't say nothing. I guess if you don't want the wives to know, don't tell the husband. Don't tell anybody. Yeah. The ████ is wrong? Once the wives get a hold of it, it's ████ going everywhere. Any like, I'm just learning about this new law. This is very troubling. What the ████ Like there's no bro code like there's no bro code. I might be going to hell, but I swear I'm seeing you guys all there. I'm taking people with me, bro. You guys are all going down. Yeah, right. Nah, I'm going to go Vala. ████ you guys. You won't be accepted with Ace here.
14:20 Nah, I'm going to heaven. I don't know about you guys. You are going to heaven though. No, dude. You're a bad boy. No, I'm You're 90% after this video, dude. 90% now. Yeah, you're up to 90 now. It is very um I didn't pay for hookers. The whole like body count uh dilemma of like talking about it or not talking about It sure is simple when it's like you both kind of don't care that much about it. Does it gross you guys out at this age of like how many she's ████ Hell no. It No, it doesn't. Because is there a is there a number though where you're like, "Holy s███." Yeah. If it was like Yeah. Yeah. Ryan has what happened to me that was because I thought I was pretty liberal at the time. I was like and I I know this is considered sexist to many. When guys have sex, we don't get penetrated. I know gays do. Okay. But I'm talking about like we don't get penetrated. Our bodies don't get
15:10 entered. Yeah. We have an audi. Yeah. When girls get penetrated, they when girls have sex, they get penetrated. So like 30 dudes versus like 30 dudes that my chick is banged or whatever versus me banging 30 chicks just feels a hell of a lot different knowing that I think I think I think it's it's it's psychologically I think it's it's one of those things where there's a little bit of reality to the ████ they're like saying like you know how men are way more like uh physically cheating they're like non-negotiable, right? But women are more like emotional cheating. ████ no. That's what her name was saying yesterday. Yeah. And then a guy broke it down and they said that like there is an actual re reason for it because when guys don't know who's their kid, that
16:01 drives them ████ crazy, right? But for women, it's like I have his heart. That means he's going to take care of me. So it's a survival thing. And I was like, damn. Everything is linked to nature. Yeah. I always felt like the double standard was that as a ████ idiot ████ man, you're just going out in the world trying to sell yourself to not that you're like good enough to have sex with. But then women generally just have to pick yes or no most of the time. Yeah. It's multiple choice. Yeah. So it's it's more of like, oh, how many people did you allow? And for me, how many people did I conquer? Which is like unfair. Which is unfair to say. I know. But that's kind of how it is though. If if Tiff told me when we first started dating, she told me her body count was 100. I think I would have done a spit take on her immediately. Dude, you know what I did? You know what I immediately
16:51 did? I we she told me while I was on the phone with her while I was on a tour bus like going to Canada or some ████ Were you crying already? No, I didn't cry. Tell me right now what your body count is. I didn't I didn't cry. But do your final tallies. You immediately went out. ████ all the fans. Is the final count in? No. I was I was alone on the bus. I was like the only one awake. I woke up the only other girl on the bus and I was like, "Can we go like to the back and just and not like that, but I was like, she was my friend and I'm like, I'm going to tell you something that I just found out right now. Can you like tell me how to feel about this cuz you're another girl?" You know what I mean? And she was just like, "Wo, that's a lot." She's like, "B████, you woke me up from my nap for this s███." She's like, "Oh, that's my home girl." Like, "Dude, is this Am I freaking out? Like, am I weird because I'm a guy and I'm doing that's a lot. I'm still only around 60. Well, cuz she Well, she's not low
17:41 herself, but she's friends with with the girl I was with. So, I'm like, is this like So, you already ratted that girl out. Well, it I don't think on girls that's not that's not even something like a girl will make friends. She was just like, that's a lot for like you. 100 of anything is a lot. 100 is a lot. 100. It's a large number. If it was all in one. Well, here's the double standard, though, because if a girl here's the double standard. If a girl had sex with a 100 dudes, you're like, damn, what a ████ If a dude had sex with 100 girls, you would high-five his ass. Kind of. Well, I think even worse than that, if a guy if a dude announced he had sex with 100 girls, he would still be able to get girls. That's the funny thing about it. All the girls could know that he slept with 100 girls. It doesn't stop them from seeking him. You know what happens sometimes? It's like, oo, he might have something. Well, if you're if you're a loser guy though and you found out a girl has sex with 100 dudes, you'd be like, well, it's not a big difference between 100 101 like
18:32 you are you available right now? You know what I think happens? Too rzy. That's too 99% dude. More jizz, less RZ. I'm trying to bring the jizz. Yeah. Too much RZ, dude. You better chill out. I think it automatically puts them into the ████ zone. So like your mind goes, oh, she's for the streets. Yeah. And then you go, well, for me, I I could I could put myself in that in that mind state and be like, well, she must ████ really good, so I got to try it. And then we'll have sex. And then afterwards I'm like, I don't think I can love this person. Yeah, that's the thing. But then women can always love the high value men that are on that list. Those guys got body counts we can't even ████ imagine. The numbers. You think a guy with a yacht like that's a virgin? Yeah. Sometimes they are the porn stars that end up getting married. Yeah, true.
19:23 There's a cuck out there. Yeah, there's always going to be a cuck out there. That is true. That was that was some advice I gave this one girl who's crying to me about that. that she thought she her body count was too out of control to date anybody. And I said, "Well, that just narrows down that it's probably gonna be a very specific guy, a chill guy, a super chill guy, like a cool guy. I don't mind I don't mind being second." A very confident guy probably. He's like the guy at the strip club in the parking lot crying while his girlfriend's dancing and then and then he's picking her up and then he's like, "Why do you have to do this?" But he's also really broke so he can't ████ take care of her to stop. Make sure you get home safe. Y looks like a serial killer. I don't like how straight your arms are when you drive. Keep like a Mendes brother.
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