0:00 Okay, if you guys respect women to get girls, is that scummy behavior? Like this meme is about how a guy says respecting women gets you exactly zero ████ bro. [laughter] And then this cat says, "You're not supposed to do it for the ████ You're supposed to just do it basically, right? >> Just respect women." >> Just respect women like in general. But he's you're he's he's doing this publicly to look a certain way in front of women. >> Yeah. >> You know what I'm saying? Oh, like the performative. I'm a >> performative thing. >> Like the male feminist both doing it. >> Both doing it. They're doing at each other >> and hoping the girls are watching. >> It's so lame. >> I never even thought respecting women was a active choice you had to make. [laughter] >> I know, right? If you're a decent human being, that should be default, >> right? >> It's not effort to do it. >> But it is effort for some cats out there
0:51 who don't know that this that they're scumbags. Well, this guy down here, Bingus, who says respecting women gets you exactly zero ████ I think he sounds like the nice guy that lost and got burnt. And he goes, "I'm ████ tired of being the nice guy, not knowing that by being the the quote unquote nice guy, he's dishonest and uh he friendzoned himself." >> Yeah. >> It does sound funny though. And then the top guy is a nice guy. >> Ex. Yeah. And he's like performatively in the public being like, "Look at me. >> It's not supposed to be for the b██████." >> Yeah. I think he's supposed to be The one guy's like the nice guy and the other guy looks like he's supposed to be like a red pill guy. We're not supposed to do it for the ████ >> Yeah. Exactly. >> Like they're opposite sides of the coin, but they're actually the same coin. >> They're the same guy. They don't even know it, though. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Exactly.
1:42 >> And they both really wish girls were watching their conversation. >> So stupid. >> Are there a bunch of women now commenting? There's seven comments there. Is it all girls going, "F███ yeah, let me suck you off." >> Exactly. >> Well, that's why I think the first guy, he's not lying when he's saying that. >> No. >> You know what I mean? Because all these guys that try to like big up women for the uh I guess like the mission to usurp and be like, "Now you like me, right? Cuz I respect women >> cuz I sneak attacked you." >> Yeah. That's really That doesn't work either. >> Mm- >> And it just gets you less guy friends. >> They can smell the s on you. I think his dating advice is going to be the first one. Yo man, you can't be nice. You just got to treat her like ████ bro. That's how you really get him. >> You got to tell her. Okay, you have to sandwich the compliment. You give her two negatives and one compliment in the middle. >> Well, I think that's why there's a
2:33 reason why dudes have been saying that since the beginning of time, how women love ████ There is a reason because they are you have a higher likelihood of a girl still liking you if you're a dick than if you're just too nice. >> If you're a carpet, then they hate you. Yeah. >> Yeah. >> They don't respect you, right? >> Yeah. cuz he sounds like the guy that's like, "Man, I used to like open the door for this chick all the time and I would like pick her up from school and do all this and then there's this other guy that just came in on a motorcycle and treats her like ████ and just stole away from me >> because they don't understand that being too nice on purpose is being a dick. >> She doesn't need to date you. >> She doesn't need to date you if you're doing all the daty things to her without her even trying. >> Yeah. And they can It's like you look just lame doing that. So, it is being an ████ And by the way, we're only mad about this because we've all done this at some point in our lives. >> I think everyone goes through it at one point. >> You have to learn through going through
3:23 it. >> Yeah. And you have to see a lot of other people go through it. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. [clears throat] That's what helps. >> I feel like I think women can also sense when you're not being authentic and you're just like um when you're [snorts] being too simp. >> Being desperate is so visible. Being desperate, >> it drives them like crazy. What do you guys think about this? When Kate Hudson revealed that she wasn't attracted to the good man and even she broke up with one of her exes because he has morals and he wasn't the feisty wild type. So, she was basically on her on her call her daddy podcast. She was like she left his guy because she said that his morals were sturdy. He's such a lovely person. I'm not so sure I'm attracted to good men. >> Could be. I mean, also I think your attraction is based off of some of your trauma too. So, I think if your trauma
4:15 isn't healed, you're still going to be looking for that toxic type. >> But I think once your trauma is healed, you can probably still find a a good guy that's also sexy to you. >> That makes sense. Cuz wasn't there a time where you were also dating bad girls that you knew were like not good. I was addicted to ABGs. >> Exactly. Yeah. So, everybody has times where they want something different. Not everyone's trying to find the person they want to marry all the time. >> That's very true. Yeah. >> But it's weird to divorce someone and look like like run away from them >> cuz they're a good guy. >> Yeah. >> That's a weird It's a weird statement. >> Yeah. Family member like that. >> Really? >> Yeah. Had a ████ affair and all that. She regrets it like a ████ But it's um it's kind of like what you said, the whole what she finds comfort and trauma, the abuse and all that. >> And she thinks that's love. >> They're not healed. So they're still trying. >> They obviously have trauma.
5:05 >> They say this whole like, "Oh, respect you." It's like it's that's why it's so ████ stupid to see it as like this whole gender acts a certain way, right? Cuz he was probably chasing a a girl that went through some ████ >> and then and then so she's probably attracted to a guy that's probably more ████ up to her cuz she has an absent daddy or whatever it is. >> So then she finds that as like affection and love gets with that guy and then nice boy goes, "See, you got to be just the ████ because that's that's where you get the hog girls." >> Yeah. For that specific. >> For that specific. >> Yeah. >> Nikki told me a story about this guy before she was with me. And I love the story so much cuz this is before she was with me. And I love hearing about this guy. >> And does she talk about how ████ hard he ████ and all that? >> How good he ████ and how hard he ████ >> How how well he ts. >> Uh yeah. And how he actually doesn't wear cult jerseys all the time. No, he So this cat, she was like kind of
5:57 flirting with him in an office environment right at the YouTube Space LA. Shout out YouTube Space. >> Wow. And she was like maybe she was interested in him, but he was slow rolling the whole thing so bad that he completely blew it. >> Oh, okay. >> Like like cuz he was being too nice a guy about it. And she said one night [clears throat] >> she's like we went out to like have drinks and she's like and by the way I paid for the drinks and she's like and then when we went to the parking lot we ended up just standing there talking for 3 hours and he didn't make a move at all and she was like ████ this basically. And then I was the next cat. Yeah, you I've been there, too. >> I've been there, too. But I thankfully wasn't there at this point in my life. And then I was the next cat to swoop in. Yeah. >> And I was just like on a set with her and I'm like, >> "Hey, we're going out." Like, "Oh, you
6:47 want to see um Great Gatsby? >> I'll take you. We're going out." And I was and I texted her. I was like, "By the way, it's a ████ date." >> When you said that, was that your first time like putting your big boy pants on or have you done that before? >> I had done it before, thankfully. at at that point. >> But the first time you put your Big Point pants on, you >> I was at an improv show and I spotted this chick. Yeah. Um who I was I was like, "Damn, I want to date that chick." And I walked right up to her and I was like, "What up? My name's Steve." I was like, "You're about to watch me ████ crush at this ████ show." I I was just being a ████ right? Being funny. But I didn't actually think I was going to do that. >> How did you get over the butterflies of like cuz you know when you're about to do something you never did before, you're like kind of nervous. How did you get over that? Like, "Oh ████ I'm going to I'm just going to tell her direct." I was doing an impression of what I thought a cool guy would do. >> That's usually the best way. >> Genuinely. Yeah. Genuinely. >> You just watch it in third person >> cuz I'm ████ lame as ████ I'm so
7:38 lame. And I I just knew that that's not the move. >> So, you mean that that was your out and you could be like I could play it off as a joke anyway? >> No, I was like I was like I know that if she just blows me off it doesn't matter because she's just some ████ in this crowd, but I was like if she doesn't I think we have a future. And I end up dating her for like 3 years. >> Nice. >> Cuz I could do that now. >> Years. Damn. >> I could do that now if like let's say I got divorced or whatever. I think I could I could just be straight up. >> But I'd be But before I would be so scared to just like say my feelings >> and I would probably be so nervous that if I just said what I felt, I would ████ it up so bad. >> Same. I mean, before all that. Same. And and I I was an acne kid, so like I really didn't get my confidence until like later on in life. >> Oh, right. >> One of my worst moments. So, you know,
8:29 the the famous story I always tell about the the chick that invited me to the hot tub cuz the pool party end up being me. >> Yes. >> So, that's not that's one of many instances. [laughter] >> Okay. >> There's another one. We went on a uh a retreat for our club for our college club and then so she didn't u I guess pack enough ████ sweaters or something. So she borrowed mine, which is probably also a move or whatever. >> Sure. Yeah. >> So she borrowed it and then um she she said she when we got back to our our um our apartments from the tree from the trip, she was like, "Hey, I washed it. You want to come over and pick it up?" I go over and pick it up. There's none of her roommates are there. And then we're hanging out on the balcony and it's she begins to say like, "Um, oh, you know what was interesting? like uh I used to not like have a booty and then I started having a booty and I got all this attention from the black dudes at my
9:19 school and I was like, "Oh, interesting." And then I was like, "Oh, I could see why they give you so much attention. >> Do you have the sweater? Thank you." [laughter] I just go back >> respecting women. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And I'm like, "So much ████ respect. I got so many points." Whereas I'm like I could have just pulled the trigger right then and there, but I ████ it up so bad. Eventually, >> that's funny. >> Eventually, she just got a boyfriend like 6 months later and I did. And I was just like, >> see you later. I thought we had something going in her brain. It was probably like, >> ████ this. >> I really don't think he's interested at all. >> Yeah. >> He just likes it when I borrow his sweaters and stuff. >> [laughter] >> Yo, >> it's like when I was in high school and this chick, she just grabs me and she's like, "So, you never had a blowjob?" And
10:09 she pulls me to the side of the dark area of drama and I was like, "Nope." And then I like awkwardly walked out of there and she's like grabbing my shorts, by the way. >> And I was like, "Nope." And I walked right out of there like a ████ idiot. >> Yeah. >> And I figured out like 15 minutes later what was going on. But I was just so awkward. I had no idea what the hell to do. [laughter] Getting blindsided by like that is pretty hard, too. >> That sounds like a fake porno setup, by the way. But it completely happened. It's just insane. >> Well, yeah. I mean, how old were you at the time? >> 14, 15. >> Not like kids at that age have all that tacked. >> I think I was 23. >> 23. >> That's worse. >> What? Okay. Then then that girl was probably just like, "Okay, he hasn't matured yet." Probably thought you were like a kid. >> Matured. Maybe I was 21. College. >> No, maybe he's 21. >> Cuz that would be a weird interaction to have at that age. Yeah, I think I was 21
11:01 to be honest. And I think I was just like >> or or you know when like the more infatuated you are the more stupidly you act. >> I think it would have been like that. >> Like I was like too into it so I was just overreading acting dumb and then just like >> it's like the the desperation to not make a dumb move makes no moves at all. It's like ooh >> yeah I don't want to do the wrong thing. >> Yeah. >> It's like the dumb and dumber ending where you're like there's some lucky guys. We're going to be waxing these chicks down. 100% [laughter] 100%. >> Oh man, those guys are lucky. >> How is that way? >> There's so like looking back I'm like there's so many crazy alioop even not not looking back now but even just like a year after that stuff happened there's so many alioops that I was just like >> I wish someone was here to just take all these and just dunk them. But that's, you know what's [laughter] funny is I
11:51 still think that that interaction that you had with her, >> it's super common where like lots of girls have had so many of those in a row that that's the reason they like someone who's direct. >> It's like it's like what happened with you. It's like they just came off of five dudes in a row acting like that. >> Yeah. Like a ████ boy. It's more common. Yeah. >> Big ████ boy. >> Yeah. That's why you don't learn till later that like, oh, the best way is to be direct about your intentions and be very clear. Exactly. Because they've been dealing with gray area ████ for years. >> And ████ have their brain is finding ████ that doesn't exist sometimes. And so they're just assuming, oh, he doesn't like me. Okay, fine. Whatever. ████ him. And like you don't you're like, I love you, but I don't know how to say it. [laughter] >> Yeah. >> It definitely It definitely hurts more for a girl to be rejected than a guy anyway. >> Like they're going to be way more careful about whiffing, you know? Yeah, man. >> Yeah, but that's the thing, dude. It
12:41 works wonders to just be really direct and really clear. >> Dude, being hyperdirect has been the best thing that's ever happened. >> Yeah, >> truly. >> Yep. >> You got to be specific cuz there's a lot of morons out there. >> No, you're right. They take it too literally and they go, "I told her I wanted to ████ >> dude." And now I have a restraining order. >> Be direct, but not ████ >> Yeah. Jesus. [laughter] >> Come on, guys. >> And if they don't if they don't want you, it doesn't matter what you do. >> It's exactly right. >> You're gross. >> Wait, I was really direct. I followed her home. It's like, >> "How about take a ████ bath, dude?" >> Yeah, [laughter] I followed her directly home. >> Yeah, >> right. >> And then I was like, "Wait a minute. I'm knocking on your door. I'm ringing your doorbell. What the ████ Where the ████ are you? I saw you going here. I saw you go in here." [laughter] Joe's
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