0:00 you like Chinese takeout take me out big boy is really good welcome back to a very uh I would say a crucial and helpful episode of careful boys oh wow today we have all the boys with us oh the boys are backing down easy easy we don't get a takedown Steve's been gone in Indonesia's selling cars I don't think that's true I don't remember though I actually think Anthony is doing that can we just not deflect so here's um when you did that Anthony was the was that guy there that guy is this your backup dancer in color yeah featured in the movie nope there before I move on is there any truth to that bit you were selling cars
0:50 we have to just move on you have to tell us in Burma I think I heard it was a car wash opening Car Wash and Burma it's for cash laundering from my sources for money laundering okay got it all right so I came to this question and I thought it would be great to ask you guys because I saw a comment in uh one of our things and it was a guy that was being very nice and he was like oh I think he's a gay dude he was talking about how he loves Asians and then a couple people started coming down on him and they were like don't fetishize Asians like you shouldn't say you love Asians and the dude was like being really respectful and cool and I was like what the ████ is this and then so I thought the question is what actually qualifies as Asian fetishization you're infatuated with small dicks hey dude the shortest video we've ever shot amazing oh what the ████ is fertilization
1:45 between like ethnic fetishization and then being like I like blondes and you're fetishizing the blonde or like if you just like things I think like I like titties I like sedans I like ass oh what do you have against trucks or whatever or like I like Chihuahuas like what do you have just a good way to some people just get part of that right it's like are you fetishizing pugs why'd you say it that way can we just I'm just gonna be fantasizing so like at least some people go all the way down and slum it all the way down and get poked where my mind puts it and this is like my personal definition I think it's when your views about a certain culture supersede how a person actually is oh that's a good definition you're like oh I love Asians so oh you guys are all like cute and have no body here and you act like this and that but what if you haven't even met the dude and he's just not like that
2:36 then you feel because Japanese guys are hairy right or you feel disappointed because you're like oh you're not the mental picture of what I thought Asians would be and why I thought you'd be more docile yeah exactly obedient as a woman good at math yeah yeah okay fetishization just tip you know how to do so fetishization can be thought of as the act of making someone an object of sex or sexual desire based on some aspect of their identity some people like oh I like the librarian because they look like this right if glasses are cute don't guys just fetishize everyone then I think well that's what I was thinking like that's just everyone's horny versus that fetishization if a chick's at the back of her skull looks like my foot could go
3:26 on it easily yeah I'm really into it I thought that was more of a neck thing oh it kind of hey but if they have boot marks already like if they have boot marks already do feel turned off by that I think you're used yeah it's been conquered or if Nikki comes home with boot marks in the back of her head and they don't match my shoes and I checked then I'm like you were cheating on me huh I do agree with boot I think their definitions probably act like the most accurate I've heard is like you're you have a expectation and a like idea of what they are because you're like oh you Asian mystical docile beings and then you get what yeah yeah exactly exactly and then and then there that's not even what it's like a regular person that also isn't that like just called a type like some people only like this so if you look at the whole past roster it's
4:16 always been that and obviously they're all individuals right like they're all one person might be an angry person one person might be shy or whatever but they have that type and that's just what they like like what's wrong with it or if somebody else who's not that type has a problem with it isn't that just an insecurity exactly that's that's why I think I don't really think there's a problem with this until you reach the point where you express a disappointment about it can I ask this are hot people complaining about this I don't have people complaining at all this is why we need Steve on the streets you know what I'm saying the definition is is like broad enough where people can add their own interpretation and be like oh well and as soon as race is involved I think people get super weird like I think it's like cultural appropriation right yeah because I feel like it probably had some Merit to it when it was created by an academic and then when
5:07 a when a simpleton like hears the term like that one kid that was like my my culture is not a costume it's not a prom dress right that's not the point or there was like a um like a Taiko like a Japanese drum expert who happens to be white but he moved to Japan for that discipline studied it for over ████ 20 30 Years celebrated by Japanese people but all this person saw she saw like as a white guy playing Japanese drums and said your cultural appropriating that's fantasization the simplification of like the stupid activists like I feel like they ████ it up I think they do yeah look they're all annoyed so because they dude how about this too it's not ingrained in them it's not something that like they really were raised to know and ████ it's something they just read about and now they're
5:58 pissed because they just read it that's true yeah and that's the other weird thing about it it's like tourism it's like ████ um anger tourism yeah how about this example there's there's a really popular one that gets brought up a lot and it's usually from Asian girls on dating sites okay and they'll post the conversations they have with guys and they hate when a guy says oh just what I wanted an Asian oh I love Asians Asian girls are so hot Asians that already qualifies to them as oh that's fetishization I don't want to date this guy then ████ don't date him dude that's just called bad game it's a bad game it's a bad game it's true I was always in the Mexican chicks growing up right I thought I was I was like dude I'm gonna marry Mexican check all this ████ well I didn't go into Mex up to Mexico I like Mexican chicks I like Mexican chicks yeah that's weird yeah there's your DM I'm like I love tequila this guy's mind he thinks he's ████
6:49 hitting a grand slam do you think that's where the anger comes from it comes from being on the receiving end of like something else but that something else happens so commonly that it's easier to call it like this is fantasization because like I know it's a problem and I know people feel uncomfortable about it right but then when I look at the problem like definition I'm like that's just called you like something how about this yeah broad Strokes right big examples to underline points if you watch um one of our favorite shows 90 Day Fiance that's better suggestion that is because those guys will go to like a European country I'm sorry they go to an Asian country that's weird or they go to a um Eastern European European country yeah and they prey on these chicks and I think that's fetishization because they're coming in with a stereotypical Viewpoint to try to
7:40 like throw a net in the water and come out with a wife they have a name for it they call it passport Bros but is there a mutual earning on the other side though yeah clearly there's an economic disadvantage that but that's what I'm saying though leveraging that it's mutually beneficial is that like a negative fetishism because like fetish but is this person upping that person's economic level yeah yeah economic level yeah they might be yeah that might be their type and it's like oh you're fetishizing or whatever but it's like if that person also has a mutual benefactor you know what I mean yeah like mail order brides yeah it's like I don't know if it's gummy no yeah because there are there are interracial marriages and it's not scummy no and it's like it's it's kind of romantic sometimes I do think I do think articulation articulation is an
8:31 important part about it that like is often overlooked right because there's like there's like the I like Asian people right and that's like maybe a type but if it's like a I only like Asian people then you're using your articulation to also like almost denounce anything outside of it but I also think that's okay too I like blondes with big tits right and then it's like well you're not a blonde with big tits sorry I'm not into you know I mean that sometimes that just happens because there's chicks that are like I only like guys that are taller than me I'm like cool that's that's okay I knew a Jewish guy that only dates black that only dated black girls and you married one yeah like that's just type when somebody expresses an opinion like that it's it's their loss if they're missing out on other ████ exactly I find it weird to say that he can't feel that way yeah yeah that's ████ weird no the guy who likes blondes with big tits he's gonna miss out he will because I thought I was in the Mexican chicks and I
9:21 married a ████ Filipino chick so what do I know but don't you guys don't assault like I don't know I feel like guys are wired to have different phases right so it's like you have phases where you're like really into like maybe the ABG type or like that this type of Asian girl and then you're really like oh you know what now I'm really into like latinas or like whatever and then it's like don't you just go in and out of different phases of what's the most attractive in your mind you know I think the the issue is though is like when someone talks about it too much that's when you go okay dude that's a little ████ weird if that's all you talk about and that's all the things that it's like on your mind then it's a little like all right well also to bring it back to your original question and topic like today's video is brought to you by honey love summer is here and when I am walking around a very hot neighborhood I see Hannah always
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11:55 women because they are docile you know that's weird it's weird it's too specific it's too generic you don't know that they're all docile with the ████ you talking about that's a massive overages I've watched a ████ movie or a video of something and yeah they're playing to attack they're playing to your good obedient little ████ that's a great movie by the way but that's the part that I think could be harmful in the sense that if you have a guy that really believes that hey you're an Asian woman you're supposed to listen to me that's scary that's scary that's just mental something that's mental but then again that's just a bad partner generally yeah I don't really think that's a rooted but there's so many guys like that where they meet one person they go that's how all of these guys are yeah so it gets scary so I get I get white people by the way this is probably a good thing that people are looking for people who are fetishizing things just as a self-defense mechanism probably a good thing it's a hello red flag though
12:45 I'd rather have women like say that and go this f█████'s weird versus oh you like Asian you like Chinese takeout take me out big boy you know what I mean like it's definitely a way better sentence it's really good yeah because like if you were talking to a girl and she was like oh my God I love Filipino dudes like and she won't shut the ████ up about anything Filipino wouldn't you be like this is weird this is just odd but I would I would say whether it's race or just surface traits right like it gets old like you're just like oh I like big titties big titty big titties right and then like how long can you have oh yeah baby a long time most of your life really probably longer than flat but how long can a human live I had an ex that when I met her when we when we just met like cold met each other she would straight up always say
13:35 like oh I ████ love Asian she was like white from Florida yeah she would just always ████ say ████ love Asians I want an Asian baby if we don't work out just still get me pregnant I just want an Asian baby like she would keep her that ████ that people normally don't last time don't like it sounds hot though it's kind of hot yeah she sounds kind of ████ up in a way that I like sexually yeah which is the definition of fetishization thank you but you can't say the words non-profit the white guy it was like she doesn't really have I'm a fetishist she's just ████ I don't know she just really liked Asians at that phase yeah but then who might I tell her don't say that no it's like that's how you feel that's how you feel if I'm within that ████ that that shotgun ████ blast that's great it's okay do you think the the line the line that gets crossed between sexual preference to fetishizing is when you fill in the blanks of expected
14:26 personality traits yeah because fetishization I mean to me sexual preference is just physical it's like a a a shape of a butt or like legs right or whatever but then I don't put a definition of emotion behind that like that's the problem you know girls with long legs are ████ dumb we should do that but then once you once you well I think once you put it I like this new campaign you're leading but once you put like a trait behind a physical attribute that's when you it's like like oh you know like ████ you know small titted girls they suck dick so hard and they listen to everything you say well I will say and I have said this previously I I think fat chicks give the best head ever but but they also have an ability to
15:16 lose weight and that can and it makes them suck it makes them suck harder that's weird but you're right is that weird it is the thing where it gets in the way of like if you're holding another person accountable for how you think their race should be yeah then that's ████ weird oh yeah if you're like hey what happened yeah how come you're not a little freak I thought you're supposed to have bad credit I don't want your Finance is so good what this guy said to me I thought Asians were supposed to be good at math and he said that to me as an insult and I hurt my feelings you should have been like you're right but you haven't been to Hawaii yet yeah I was like how does he know you're not good at math what happened it was an exchange I was even talking to you no yeah yeah why are you talking to him was it because you were actually bad at math no I was I was working at Giant rockets and he he came in he came into the customer bought a soda and then I was ringing him up and then he had an issue with how
16:06 much change I gave him I gave him more change doesn't the cashier do the math for you sir he ████ it up he ████ it up you know what I never understood you gave him more change but he ████ it up he ████ it up sounds like you ████ up I just said just take the cash dude the thing that I don't understand is if someone's beneath you why do you get offended by their stupidity so like if someone were to DM me and they said something like pretty stupid or they had weird stereotypes like for me I'd feel embarrassed if that got to me and I let their level make me feel offended well just because we're all created equal so they're not really beneath you you're also insecure and defensive as soon as soon as I see that kind of stupidity in someone I'm like oh I'm superior to you you don't want to try to change them
16:56 no I feel like they're they're too stupid they wouldn't be able to understand yeah you don't want to save them you need to save them but like is it fetishization for example you married Hannah she's a Brit right a limey right a dirty limey and one of my favorite stories about that is you telling me the first time that you had sex with her when you like pushed inside of her you said now say it and then she said yeah you're you're fetishizing is that was that fetishization or like you know what is it it's britishization okay okay it's because they colonized the world that it's okay that you were colonizing her is that what it is maybe but is it even exchange is this is fetishization National or is it ethnic that's the thing it's hard to say it's all the above it's a good example of something that just gets bandwagonally said a lot I think because it's so it's such an
17:46 easy way to like feel like you netted somebody yeah and I think that's I think the the fear of fetishization gives birth to generalization where you see a white guy with an Asian chicken you go oh you're one of those yeah like if someone looked at you and was like oh so you only like Asians but they don't even know you're ████ dating his mind I thought she's Mexican I get ████ up I got huevos Ranch Herald what happened does that happen to women like because I haven't seen that happen to girls like like for example like you know you're with smack you know I'm with Hannah but like they don't get from other women why are you not with your kind or whatever yeah I mean like it's it's not the other one should happen more often like the good old days yeah I wish it would no I don't think it does I don't think it happens that much I mean like Yeah from Women to Women it
18:36 seems like it guys thoroughly enjoy dancing with black girls at the club more than any other maybe you like dancing with black queens I don't know that maybe is that a is that an ethnic thing or is that like a cultural well it depends on why you understand Rhythm and the culture that I like so they just dance they're they better dance better dancers so you tell me I am not indirectly or directly I definitely agree in the sense that I think Black Culture is better at Social dancing at a level of like it's just in their family and how they do ████ so it's not like us we have to learn at a late stage how to interact in a dance floor like ████ robots you know they're raised with the comfortability the same way Latin families are with like ████ you know getting down you just see people do it's like you you get
19:26 it I do think we're getting closer and closer but like let's say if I replace a few words if it's gonna feel weird like I said articulation is important so say I'm a police officer say that I'm scared already this is a police officer I like to arrest black people more than others is that weird it's like why are we like why is it like that it's like once dancing and that's okay but the other one it's kind of like the same thing it's like what it's a good point why'd you have Anthony say he's a police officer and then you said the ████ up thing no I'm trying to have but I'm trying to get him to say the same Dynamic I have an editor's note to cut what BART said Anthony makes it seem like he said that I like to arrest black people more than others like what like why is like you know I don't know it's weird
20:20 hey but that's the that's the dicey part though even what you said even if the compliment could still be and some people will take it some people oh you're a fetishizer maybe that's the exact point that this guy that we're even talking about this gay dudes in the comments is talking about how he likes something but out of context is taken out of his neck maybe Asian guys give the best blow jobs but he doesn't want to say it's true that's true because when I heard that comment I'm like that's perfectly fine you're entitled to your own opinions yeah but also keep it to yourself huh because as soon as you go on the internet and tell everybody then it gives the door for everyone I don't know if I've learned anything from this video that's the problem with over sharing yeah don't be an overshare okay to ████ open up and oh I love Asian ████ I can't wait to ████ a real Asian ████ sometimes you can't speak your truth too loud keep it in bro if you speak your
21:11 truth too loud and someone finds out that oh I love cheeky dicks yeah and then you're like whoa dude that's weird and then you can't get mad at what you said was interpreted as weird also just keep it inside and then in your head you can be like oh my God I can't believe I'm ████ real Asian domicile ████ oh yeah I'm good at colonize this ████ thing I'm gonna colonize it so good but you keep it on it is true you just keep it to yourself and then when she says what are you thinking about you go I'm thinking about I have a ████ dinosaur thinking about a T-Rex ████ a Triceratops the part the part that I don't like about this is the after effect of him earnestly saying I like Asian guys and then a bunch of ████ Asian people get mad at him for that and now he goes you know what I don't think I like Asians I don't like that Asians get mad that's
22:01 a new stereotype agents get mad at me all the time ████ Asians get mad just even mentioning Asians yeah yeah yeah like I don't like that yeah no that's lame foreign
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