0:00 Would it be arguable to say that like people having a family or having kids is like one of the greatest adventures of their life, right? All right, so what if you have two adventures? Dos adventuros? And welcome back to another episode of a careful boy. >> Careful boy. >> You're in your Chinese era, man. >> Oh, I'm sorry. Operation >> Japanese element. >> Filipino, do Filipino. >> Um >> Putangina operation. Nailed it. He combined both. >> Putangina operation. >> Are you are you better at Filipino stuff now that you're like in such close proximity to the culture? >> Yeah, for sure. Like I honestly I've been around Filipino stuff like my whole life, right? But like I it's Filipino culture is not really something that you mock or make fun of for some reason with your friends. >> You you make fun of it more than anybody
0:51 I know. >> What are you talking about? >> Like what? You always be talking about ████ dads leaving and ████ Is that making fun of or is that doing statistics? >> I've never heard that. >> That's funny. >> You never heard that? You're the first person I ever heard make fun of that. So you only witnessed it and never wanted to say anything. >> No, I didn't witness it because because like I was saying with Joe is like if you're from a specific religion they just don't act like other one. Yeah, the stereotypes aren't there. Seventh-day Adventists don't have that stereotype for >> Yeah. >> That's religious ignorance. That's what that is. >> All the Filipinos I grew up with were Seventh-day Adventists. >> Well, they don't It's cuz they don't drink and they don't do the same thing. >> And they're not allowed and they're sinful to divorce so I never saw it. >> Well, that's very very nice that you guys were in such a protective and loving environment. >> I didn't know I didn't know the Casanova >> Filipino thing until way later. >> They're probably the same though. If it's if it's Seventh-day they were the ass beaters. That that's that's what >> Yeah, so I might have highlighted it but I didn't come up with that ████
1:41 >> been seeing on social media like white chicks talking about how like um dating Filipino men are toxic. I've been seeing that a lot. And I think it's hilarious. I definitely agree. >> Why you looking like that? >> They're they're always like talking about the greatest trauma in their life was from Filipino guys, yeah. >> From for an Asian man perspective, Filipino guys might be the most toxic dudes out there. >> a the >> Yes. >> Well, it depends on what what the toxicity specifically. >> They did street interviews and they were asking all these Asian girls and they're like, all right, who's the most toxic? And it was always Vietnamese and Filipino. That They always won. >> I'm not denying the Vietnamese part. I'm just I'm just making sure. >> That's weird. >> I highly believe the Filipino part 100%. >> All I'm saying, I think it was a lot easier growing up to make fun of like Chinese people, Vietnamese people, Korean people. Uh not so much Japanese people. >> There's a lot The reason I don't think a lot of like you you won't >> You won't get as many white girls or
2:31 even Hispanic girls talking about Chinese or Japanese guys being toxic cuz they don't date enough of them. >> That's my thing about it. >> Filipino guys date everybody. So, it's like every girl has an experience with one. Not every girl has experienced a Korean boyfriend. >> Literally are telling me a different version of the thing that you're saying I make fun of Filipinos for. >> Wait, what? >> The the Casanova You're literally explaining it from like a pre-generational era. >> it's not true. I'm saying that I didn't hear it as a stereotype because I didn't grow up in that stereotype. >> Got you. Got you. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. >> But now I know it happens. Cuz not only not just because it's happened to friends' parents, because now that I'm old enough, I'm in the generation of guys that are doing that. >> Yeah, yeah. >> They did a S-tier, A-tier, B-tier love all the Asian guys and then like the red flag and the most green flag, guess who got the most green flag? >> Green flag? >> The the S-tier. >> Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. Let me really think about it. >> Asians. >> Koreans. >> No, there's no way. But they're they're
3:23 probably top four. >> I bet they're the most sought after. >> No, because Really? >> Because >> Japanese. >> It's definitely not mainland Chinese. I 100% say that. >> Ooh, it's probably Chinese, dude. >> It was Taiwanese. >> Mainland? >> It was Chinese. >> Not not mainland, though. >> They didn't say that, though. >> Taiwanese, for sure. >> Yeah, I'll do that. >> I would think it's Taiwanese. >> I don't think >> Chinese American, I can understand that. Mainland China. >> there's a section of Chinese men that give their girlfriends the princess treatment. Like they're the purse holders, they're the ones that do all of the domestic work and the and the girlfriends could chill at home. They're talking about those guys. >> But those are the same guys that have another family in Shanghai. >> No, this is the other family. >> That's just a play, dude. In every culture I always hear about they always got a family. You know? >> A second family? >> Always got a family.
4:13 >> Every culture, you hear that? >> Especially if they live if they live in America and they live in their native town, they always got a family in either, bro. That's just what it is. Black, African, Asian, Filipino, ████ Mexican, whatever. You hear the same ████ >> Yeah, yeah, yeah. Anybody with that lifestyle >> Yeah, it's just easier to do. >> I don't know. I think it's just a guy thing. It's just a total guy thing. >> Or maybe you're just lonely. >> Dude, guys >> You can't stop guys from getting puss, you know? Like it's just If they're good at it and they're resourceful, they're going to get it, you know? >> Well, having families different from getting puss though, right? >> No, but it's a consequence of you getting puss though. You don't You don't think he wanted to You think You think he wanted to have a family with that lady? He was like >> They didn't have condoms back then. >> Why did Yeah, that's the question. Why do they start whole families? Cuz it's very difficult to >> You didn't have to bust inside. >> But sometimes it's they can't stop it
5:03 though. >> But then they have like They'd be going back for like the kids' birthday and ████ They do >> That That means it's genuine love. >> It's got to >> Like double love. >> Yeah, it's got to be actual genuine love. I know it's ████ up. It sucks for the first wife. I'm just saying Damn, they just love a lot of people. >> They're getting their dick wet. >> They didn't watch enough porno, so they didn't know that they could actually ████ on the tits or the mouth. >> That's what it is. They always leave it inside. >> There's a dancer that I knew that um >> Always left it inside. >> Her dad Her dad uh passed away on the plane from a heart attack when he was flying, like for business, and then that's how they found out that he was going to his second family. Isn't that crazy? >> To be fair, he'll never know. >> That the That the family found out? >> Yeah, you're right. But damn, isn't that crazy to think your dad's mad normal? >> You think he was getting a heart attack cuz of the guilt?
5:54 >> Like it's kind of common enough. >> Usually the stories where they just get flat out caught. >> Yeah, yeah, yeah. >> This is like at the death of you like that's crazy. >> right though. I feel like every culture guys cheat, right? But it's just so much more funnier when the stereotype actually it becomes a stereotype for certain groups. >> Wasn't that wasn't that when Jesus came? He said that's the same stereotype with Mexicans. >> Yeah. >> That back in Mexico they have a a different thing and then when they come to LA >> another family. >> thing. I didn't even know that. I thought that once they're out of Mexico that's it. >> It's a common thing and then we have some people in >> Like a Taiwanese and Chinese thing, right? Like a like a Taiwanese businessman that has a second family in China. >> Yeah. >> But Mexico to LA's too close. >> I've been the first I've I've been in family gatherings where we're the first family and the second family. >> What do you mean? >> what I mean? Like we're the first family of like we're the first immediate family if that makes sense. And then some people
6:45 have left their other family to come hang out with us. So they're the we're the second family to them. You know what I mean? Like >> So you have both types of people. >> Both. Like it's and it's kind of >> Damn. >> common. >> Damn, it's >> You just hear about it. You >> Cuz grandpa >> Well, think about your Like bro, everyone at home whoever's ████ watching, you could probably think of somebody that's like oh yeah, they have this is their second family, this is their first family. Especially if you guys are ethnic. >> that actually have a home in another country. >> Yeah. >> Whereas like if we were born here the whole time that we're like what? >> Or you find out of like a a guy who's bi-coastal. He he does work in New York and and and LA. >> That's just regular cheating though. >> Yeah, but they also have sometimes they have families too, you know? It's like that's something that does happen. >> saying you don't even have to use your passport a different passport to see your other family. That's a different kind of cheating. >> If you have good frequent flyer miles,
7:35 you could be cheating all the time. >> You know, intercontinental we're like overseas. >> White people that do that do it in the same state. >> That's what I'm saying. Yeah. >> Crazy in the same state. >> expert mode on that ████ >> is ridiculous. >> That is ridiculous. So many stories of how people live in a relationship wise is nuts. It's crazy. It's reckless. It's so reckless, bro. >> Yeah, you had a great grandpa got away with it for hell along until someone did like a genealogy geology oniology. >> He thought he was thought he was good. >> Technology caught up with him. >> He's the Golden State killer, bro. >> I want to say yeah, but my memory isn't the best. >> He's the BTK killer. >> So what they found out is this >> So a lot of Welsh people are are are sailors cuz they worked at the docks in Liverpool. And Liverpool always came to the states. So that's where like you go
8:27 the ships come here and then they pick up the tobacco and cotton and they go back. >> horny from Liverpool. You got to take that ████ entire freight train or whatever. >> Dude, they come he came here and then he started another family here. I think like she has hell of like relatives >> up in Utah and ████ or whatever. >> Well, to be fair, if at that era, you know, her grandfather or great-grandfather if you're taking a cargo ship and you go from Liverpool to LA, you might never go back. So yeah, you might be like this is my new roots. I'll build a family. I'm not trying to justify. I'm just saying it's different. If you're flying by coastal, you're going back and forth, that's a totally different animal. >> But you hear you hear it a lot though is my point. Is this like there's so many variations of guys with second families. >> Can you picture yourselves if you had to work six months in another country? Can you picture yourselves falling in love with someone else? >> I'm probably going to have four or five families, I think.
9:19 >> My question is how did they >> but not like falling in love with someone else and now you hate your wife, but like in addition. Like where you think you can You know, like something must happen in these brains where they're like I think I can make this work. >> But don't you wonder how they met them? Like back in the day. Like okay, you're a sailor, right? And then you just like rock up to your ████ new port and then you're just drinking a beer. You're not ████ the barmaid in. Like usually these women are like country girls or something and it's like how do you ████ even meet them? >> Probably just being out. >> You just >> Yeah. >> So you just You just fall in love with the girl that's making skewers? >> I think everybody's playing the same game at the same time. Especially back then. In the same way of like how do you meet them? It's like that's what the girls ask you like how do I meet people? Everybody's just going out to try and
10:09 meet people is all. >> Yeah. >> And the difference is you're not like man, I got the world at my ████ feet. You're just like this one's here. >> I understand the the concept because like you've been on tour and you know that there's people that have a marriage or a boyfriend or girlfriend and then when they're on tour they it's like something in the brain tells them it doesn't count. >> Yeah. >> Oh. >> And now it's okay to like have this extra marital thing and then they look at it like when I'm back I'll put it all behind me like it never happened. >> Or the other way around when they're like dude, I can't believe I met you on this thing and then they go back and they're like oh yeah, no that was a good fling. And the other person's like >> I have a baby. >> And they're on the phone and they're like well you can't have the baby though. You can't like we can't have a baby. >> You know what? Like I give a pass if it's war. >> Cuz you don't know if you're going to die. >> But I I I don't think that it makes any
11:01 sense if it's a work trip. Cuz it's like It's like you're >> Dude, you're dropping off cargo. >> dude. >> You're dropping off cargo for a week. >> CLOSE DEALS. >> YOU'RE YOU'RE DROPPING OFF CARGO for 2 weeks or whatever. >> What Joe, you never believe in love at first sight? >> And then you're going to go back. You're going to ████ >> Oh, but you know what? If it's a high stress job that could be how you >> You're loading tobacco that hard. >> Yeah, you know what I mean? Like if the job is so like stressful you just need to unwind. If you met somebody that kind of played that role for you where like, I feel so much better around you. Maybe that could happen. >> I understand how it happens. It's just a matter of like >> Why it happens? >> Don't put yourself in those situations. Go home, go go to your hotel room and watch HBO and then jerk off like a normal person, dude. >> It's like the extreme result version of like when
11:51 office people go to conferences. >> Yeah. >> But it's like the extended cut. >> And and then they're like, "Hey, let's go out for drinks." You know what's going to happen. >> Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Let's go to the hotel Let's go to the hotel bar. >> Just for Just for the opposition and no hive mentality, right? Would it Would it be arguable to say that like people having a family or having kids is like one of the greatest adventures of their life, right? All right, so what if you have two adventures? >> Dos aventuros? >> I guess it's adventurous if you never have to take care of them. >> I'm just saying if the alternative is I do, what are you doing? You know where it's going to go, just go back to your room and jack off. What if you have two full adventures when most people only have one? >> What's the other adventure, though? >> What do you mean? Dude, imagine having falling Imagine falling in love with somebody and then creating human with them and like falling in love with that kid. Imagine doing it twice. >> For sure. But like >> You doing it twice? >> I'm not saying it's socially moral and correct. I'm not even thinking that way. I'm
12:41 thinking if you want to live your life on hard mode, go do that. Go have sex and knock up another chick. It's not hard. No, no, it's not hard. I I I GOT I'M GOING TO FIGHT YOU ON THIS. I'M WITH ANTHONY. LOOK, go do that. >> ¡Buena! >> Back then >> ¡Buena! >> the guy didn't have to take care of the kids. All you got to do is bust >> Wait, they don't have any kids. >> You every single time YOU SHOW UP, "DADDY'S HOME." AND YOU'RE LIKE >> TRAD ROLES. >> YOUR JOB is the money. Your job is the money. >> I don't care who you are, bro. >> Trad, yeah. >> You Maybe back in the day, yeah, this definitely applies more back in the day. I'm just saying like now you do this type of ████ there's no way, bro. I don't care who you think you are. If you knock up another chick and you have two separate families and you know that they don't know about each other, you know that's like no way to live. Your brain is constantly thinking about that. You grew up. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. You
13:31 can trick your brain all you want, but you know that the shoe's going to drop on the other side. And when that happens, you know you're ████ dude. You know you're ████ >> You already had social media and internet right away. I'm talking about there's there's a time where people they landlines was you had to pay for ████ >> course. Yeah, yeah, yeah. >> Easy. It was really a different life. You really lived two separate lives. >> Oh. >> There was no connection. You go somewhere they're like, "Don't talk to him. It's long distance." You don't call that Don't call your father. It's long distance. >> And then you're 60 years old and this girl walks into your ████ the shoe store you own and she's like, "You're my father." You know, like Like the shoe's going to drop eventually. Now it may not be when you're 35, but it might happen. Yeah, yeah. "You're my dad." >> Two examples right now that that were just brought up. One, when some Talking about a person on a plane dying, that's when the family He never got caught. Number two, Hannah's grandpa or what
14:22 That's what I'm saying, but he's dead. >> What killed him? >> His legacy died. >> What killed him? That's what I'm saying. What about Hannah's grandpa? >> The stress of having two families? >> Hannah's grandpa. I literally asked right now, was he already dead when he when it was found out? If he was already dead, did he get caught? >> He beat the game. Is that what you're saying? >> And his family in America loved him. >> That's what I'm saying. Cuz every single time he probably came home and then they're like, "Yay, grandpa Dad's home." But then the UK family ████ hated his ass. >> That's all the buddy. >> a funny accent. >> How about the FAMILY DOESN'T ████ HOW about If my econ sub teacher is still the greatest lesson I've mentioned this before. First class, I walk in and he goes, "You're allowed to cheat in my class." I go, "Huh?" He says, "As long as you don't get caught." And I was like, "This is the greatest true lesson I've ever understood in my life." You're genuinely allowed to cheat as long as you don't get caught. If you get caught,
15:12 maximum punishment. These ████ I'm not saying it's great. I'm just saying if they do this and don't get caught, I I just think that's two great adventures that they had. >> 100%. But I'm just saying the paranoia of that person eventually showing up one day and seeing your other family. That >> Yeah, but if if you >> It's like Back to the Future when they see themselves in the >> But if you live guilt-free >> I don't think people really are though. >> Here's the Here's the allegory or the >> Ask a narcissist. >> Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. >> Which there's a lot of those. >> 100%. >> Here's the symbolism I'll give you. This is how I see it. >> Yeah. >> So let's say I give you this priceless Ming vase to hold, right? I like here, this is yours. You can have this. So you're holding this really really expensive vase, right? And then I'm like I I can put a second one in your hands but you got to juggle them. >> Yeah, I'm good. >> You're so stupid.
16:02 >> really want to do that, right? >> That's what I'm saying. That's >> Cuz that's going to scare you, right? >> Some guys can juggle it three or four of them. BUT WHAT KIND OF GUY ARE YOU? >> I'M JUST NOT GOOD AT JUGGLING. >> EXACTLY. >> I see what you mean. >> It'd be Oh, my one precious vase, right? >> Yeah. >> My one I made in high school. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Exactly. >> So what you really like is not necessarily the vase. You like the juggling. >> But some people like the juggle. >> Some people like the juggling. >> And some people like to juggle cuz they get their balls juggled three times. >> And some people don't feel alive unless they're juggling.
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