0:00 coach [Laughter] what's happened generational trauma I swear [Music] we got a friend named Leslie in our um in our JK IG DMS and she asked a really great question which I thought you'd have a lot of fun answering what traits of yours do you not want your kid to inherit oh dude I can go on all too ████ late dude so ████ Petty let's start with you what oh yeah what is it what do you
0:50 what are you ████ late that's too late so like my a part of a trait of my personality is I like to play ████ ████ games ████ ████ game let's go so weird uh can you define that yeah like I like to play with fire a lot so if someone tells me this is like out of bounds or whatever I'm like ████ constantly like you know like oh don't touch me I'm not touching you I'm not like that kind of ████ dumb ████ this is part of my personality to be like that yeah and taika has that like ████ crazy and it's like built in like you didn't teach him to do I didn't teach him but don't you think that because you understand that you can help him through it better uh but he never fixed it for himself I think you're just impulsive
1:43 you know so it's hard to like help someone who's impulsive fix things because I like he'll just straight up go out and do something like let's say I see him like have like a rubber ball just sees the TV right and I'm like I know I know why you did that and I kind of want to see what that would what would happen too but I don't know how to like really fix it it's just he just does it and I I just won't kick his ass the way my parents kick my ass yeah but it's just I I sense the same kind of like instinct you know and also to answer Joe's question isn't Bart like not a great teacher he might be right there because didn't he found a channel where I believe the slogan if I'm not uh incorrect yeah is
2:33 teaching good things in a bad way in a bad way yeah I don't think that's a very good teacher if you turn around it says just wait it out but I think it's not literal bad I think it's more like 90s cool bad nice like how you look right now Ferris Bueller baby that could also be a Surf Ninjas Oh yeah yeah so so right now we're teaching him don't give me that yeah he's like oh bro so right now we're teaching him like appropriate behavior like what you could do at home what you could do at school what are you doing public places and stuff and when he messes up he immediately has to do like 10 or 20 squats or whatever he knows when he messes up so like we'll be at like let's say
3:23 um at a restaurant he just starts socking me up you know he's being so funny and I'm like hey don't hit me or in public okay hold on we're just playing you know but at home I don't hit me on public that's not in a program I want him to just like let's say we hang out with you guys they just start sucking you up because he just thinks oh every adult I can just punch it's like how's bull hit me though yeah yeah yeah but I just want a video of it but don't hit me and then he'll go like I know it's not 45 bucks hole Yeah so I immediately I have to go I'm sorry that's 10 squats and he was buying and hit you I'm like what did I say about playing with fire not even allowed to put a fire so if even if it gets close I want him to know like these are what the hard boundaries are and you don't get to even come close to the boundary you come here he has to learn not to antagonize people yeah so he didn't antagonize anything it's smart that you're
4:14 associating Fitness with punishment too that is a really good idea that is yeah yeah because you'll be fat as ████ and never want to do that yeah there's also very military too it could be a TV dinners guy yeah I am never getting fit again yeah I mean but he's also like a ████ head so like he's good at squats now so he's literally going he's like these aren't even that hard anymore Dad no they're not that hard now he's like yeah he could do a hundred house was formed though it's actually pretty good okay there you go I saw this clip uh that popped up on my Instagram feed about this guy talking about how there's now research where children are born with like 400 predisposed traits of a collection of your genetics so all of your s█████ ████ behaviors from your relatives can be channeled through the child dude my buddy has a daughter she's like nine
5:04 months old right and my buddy he always it's weird he always puts his right leg up wherever the ████ we are he always puts his right leg up like on things and I'm not even kidding he's like daughter since she was like six months old she just ████ does his thing it's the weirdest thing same thing right like so Jill sleeps like this for some reason always on her right arm since taika was a baby he always slept on his like right arm real original so weird yeah why these kids so bitey yeah like I don't like that ████ biter ass b-o-g what a poser if you just had to pick one of your traits that you don't want your kid to get which one is that which so because I know you got so many but what's the top one growing up my mom would say I would do ████ like this like that with Tycoon push you'd push the limit ████ ████ games there's the limit and I go okay I'm gonna get right I'm
5:54 not touching it you know like that type of ████ oh just annoying like bratties are great Margaret used to do this thing where she would count to like 10 or whatever right just like all ████ yeah yeah and we we had a pool in the backyard I couldn't swim so I'd always like step around it and be and I was supposed to be around there right so I'd always like put my foot over it and be like Mom and I was like four or five years old and then she'd count she'd be like all right one yeah two and then I'm supposed to be like running away from it and then I'd count higher for her I'd be like five six seven eight and then I I'd like I'd jump around the pool yeah bro I would just do ████ like that and then to the point where I'd fall in the pool all the time and I couldn't swim so my scissors had to like save me a bunch like this is just a common theme just
6:45 like little like we talked about I would just put things in um electric sockets that's metal I always wondered who did that I would do that type of ████ you know I was like why did I'm a kid why'd I get to put this plastic ████ over this I just want to plug in my radio yeah and because the idiots like you put paper clips in there oh I used to get Buckets stuck on my head and like cry about it did you get Lego stuck in your nose too no is it because your ears were big no not even I would I'd put a bucket on my head and I thought it was funny and then it was funny it is funny I'll get last right and then I would put the handle under my chin and I'd start freaking the ████ out a little Halloween bucket yeah yeah yeah face on it I remember it was it was I remember the bucket it was a blue bucket that would use to shower with and it had a yellow ████ uh handle and I got
7:35 stuck and I would freak the ████ out I'd Panic so that's the trait you don't want your kids that's one of the things that's some funny boys and I was a crybaby bro I was such a little cry baby growing up I was a little softy because I was raised by women dude it was like three women yeah and my dad my dad used to be like ah there's no hope for this okay you know so I was like real soft um when people would say things about me start crying and ████ your dad recorded on his boom he's like yeah it was good ADR whatever the ████ turn yeah he's like hey Nick can you like scream in the hallway again but like in the boom thank you so your main one is is the trait of pushing the limit too far I think so like amusements honestly when I see taika I'm like damn bro that's that's how I was when I was a kid like I'm nowhere near that cool yeah I wasn't that cool like I wasn't as funny
8:26 I definitely was a little but like I would just do ████ and then I probably wasn't as smart as taika either like I was like yeah he's pretty smart yeah if you like taika thinks I'm his age too because he never tests me on ████ we just get into trouble together we're just playing and ████ is there something about you you wouldn't want your kid to have where do I ████ start even like physical traits or like anatomical ears dude Joe needs a three-parter smaller ears thank you I have the patience not to ████ my kid up because then I'm like more the older I get it like and I see the kids and I'm just like you know ah no wonder my parents ████ me up like it's yeah you're probably so stressed out and they just don't listen and they test you and ████ you think your kid's gonna be worse than you were with me and Hannah's genetics well it could go so many different ways okay you
9:17 know because we have really chill guys and but we also have some wild ████ boys in the family well and she's hella inbred right because she's she's super inbred yeah yeah yeah but what about you guys though yeah last two because I typed a channeled a lot of traits for me and and Geo yeah so like just from YouTube because your kid's gonna pull from you guys more than your family I don't want them to have diabetes I don't have diabetes but I'm predisposed to it right yeah absolutely but characteristics I would have to say probably ADHD severe ADHD maybe yeah um and then maybe uh yeah just letting I mean just all boys just ████ don't think you know they're impulsive and wild I like that you're demonstrating your severe ADHD right because sometimes what is an
10:09 inconvenience and a crutch that's just your perspective because you can't navigate through it so I'm like how much of that do I want to control that's what I'm thinking because it might benefit like they might be able to benefit that trait in a way that I wasn't able to use the right way it could be a phenomenal thing yeah and a trait that's like when you're five or six might not be good but that same trade at like 25 might be really good yeah yeah so I don't know like I think I'm just thinking more selfishly like I don't want them to be a ████ annoying burden yeah and I hope I have the patience to not knock them out and like just be able to coexist yeah me too hit it with a stone cold stunner take them out for Life they're gone they're gone if they sell it though one thing that typos Jiu Jitsu coach told me that I was like almost about to like just start falling immediately I tell you guys about the time where like
10:59 tycho's learning this uh move called a snapdown so you're pretty much grabbing someone's head and you're snapping them down and your partner is supposed to like like brace and hit the map with their forearms yeah so okay yeah yeah yeah all right what's close gotta go yeah and um so I think uh all the kids were going full force and then taika wasn't ready for it he's botching it yeah like a bigger kid like smack him and his face hits the map and he starts crying immediately and when you're a kid and you have something like crazy happen you're like very shy now I don't want to do it yeah no no he gets off the mat he's want to do it or whatever and then the the coach saw that he goes no no no come on come on come on we get this is a we can we can walk through he goes no I don't want to do it he's like crying because it just smacked his face it's like like bruised and like bloody all over his mouth he goes okay you do it to
11:49 me and so he let taika do it to him a bunch of times and then he was doing as he and then he he he switched it to him and he does like the fake kind where he's like but it's gentle and he kind of built his confidence up cool and then he was like okay now you can do it now to get the other the original kid back yeah and the title is able to complete it so after class I was like hey coach DGL I just want to like say like because he's running a class you know and then I was like um I just want to say I'm really appreciative that you took the extra time to spend on taika yeah um and and it mattered a lot he goes well like taika like those things are breakthrough moments if you hit that wall it either becomes it cripples them for life or they become empowered yeah it's make or break right there yeah oh man thank you so much and I was like that's so cool that you have the patience and he goes because he goes no
12:41 one in this class enjoys Jiu Jitsu more than taika oh because so because taika is a ████ um ████ sky because of that he makes the class so fun because the coach is like are you grab him in like a chicken wing and then everyone's okay cool everyone's like this and tacos like he's the only oh like the boys fighting his own genetics he's like I just want to learn jiu jitsu why am I doing I hate that I do that genetically why my father give me this ████ coach what's happening generational trauma I swear I'd say it was so cool for the coach to be like like no one enjoys it more than him that's great so if we can get him through these tough times later on he's
13:32 gonna ████ love it he's like I've seen it I've seen kids go from 5 to 18 and I've seen the journey just trust me I'm like the sickest thing too is that yeah how fake Jujitsu is she's about to sell it it's ████ that's so stupid my thing is I'm so petty it's insane and if and if anybody cites me I won't forget it forever I won't I won't build it I will build it into a mountain that maybe doesn't even exist and I will climb that mountain and I will Summit that mountain I'll plant my flag on the top of that mountain and then by the time that I tell the person that I built the mountain it's like wow I didn't know that much like everybody who made fun of you for crypto oh yeah yeah it's gonna be a good in your face well my buddy Sean he knows who he is um when I was when I was getting into
14:22 crypto I remember getting into a couple different projects and then yeah like um you know we we did very very well right and um we didn't really invest that much and then we went down right and then he was like if only we just held on to our ethereum and I'm like well watch me ████ I'm gonna do it again and then um the day and and I I I'm not kidding I'm I'm weird every day I woke up and I just like visualized telling this ████ that I did it again and uh and then it happened and then I and then because yeah because I'll never forget he told our fancy Football chat he was like he was like we could have been millionaires if we just held on to our ethereum oh ████ and then once I hit the million again I was like hey dude uh just so you know when you said if we
15:12 could have done it I did it again dude off of nothing and then he was like oh damn he's like congrats first of all congrats and I was like and that's not what I wanted he was too good he didn't fight yeah and it makes you feel bad because it's like he was my enemy ah son of a yeah and I actually really like this guy but it was like that little that little slot that I give him on my head where I'm like thank you for the fuel this is gonna be great and then the day that I did it I did it live on crypto Corner because like the day that you know when they hit like ████ whatever it was like over a hundred and I was like ████ right like I sent a little screenshot on my portfolio which was ball of status like off of a 28 000 investment and then uh yeah he was just like congrats like almost instantly he's just like congrats that's awesome I'm really happy for you and ████ and I was just like I need
16:03 something else to be mad about like I don't have anything else and and I don't you know maybe that is good for somebody like having that fuel having those little moments I don't necessarily know where I would be if not for that because I can cite many different little spurts in my life of like upwards momentum where I used something that someone slided me with as like the fuel to get me to the next step but I just hope that they use it constructively like so far I have so it's not like destructive and yeah yeah like they end up slam dunking on their friends so hard that it ruins the Friendship I'm okay with slam dunking on the friends so hard it ruins the friendship I just hope it doesn't ruin my kid like that they needed that like it like eats them up yeah yeah yeah like like it has the best teacher dude it would be like
16:53 McFly when they call him yellowish exactly like but enjoy the ride right look there's nothing more fun than the ride the ride is the most fun right like like and and whether no matter what part of the journey it is like it's the it's the the way that like we talk about YouTube in the early days when we were grinding right when nobody knew who the ████ we were that was the fun time it was the fun times right we always talk about that I mean granted we've had like a Resurgence of the fun times I think the fun times are here again yeah but it really was like almost magical moments of like we were nobody cared nobody knew we walked around La and we told people we did YouTube and they made fun of us and agents made fun of us and Hollywood directors and producers and everyone we had the last laugh exactly now they're all due ending videos so subscribe don't forget to click the bell and I'm like I can't believe that ████ we used to be so embarrassed after say that ████ out loud we were like shuddering to say that ████ but but that's the magic is like that
17:45 perspective and I hope that my kid has that kind of perspective about it like knowing that you can use the field to get the next step but then don't forget like we don't step on people like I don't want to step on people I really don't that's not my jam I just want to win and and I want to win because you thought I would lose and I promise you I'm gonna win because you thought I would live sound like Jordan if I close my eyes dude it's honestly I'm addicted to it if I'm addicted to anything it's that I can't do friendly competition like I I get you know that thing because I know like David does a similar thing too but for me as soon as it devours me when I compete I want to destroy so it becomes like um I'm only motivated by enemies that I want to absolutely Crush because it's like the way you say Crush dude correct you know why because to me it's like a
18:35 fair game it's like fair game it's like exactly it's like you challenge me you slap me first so now okay you mistaken kindness for weakness let's go Cardinal holder I'm talking about you I'm schooling you when it's friends I genuinely want them to do so well yeah me too if it even if it hurts me so it's hard for me to be Petty against friendship and it competition is only okay if we agree to do it I don't want the secret competition because yeah that's weird yeah even though I understand the way it works I can't do it because then when I get too much into it it turns into an enemy thing in my head yeah like I don't know how to go and like balance it to where we can still be cool I'm like really thinking about how I could not only hurt you your family everything
19:25 yeah and it goes to it goes two oh I don't go there yeah it goes way too dark that's wild so it's like any uh physical traits that you'd want your son to inherit from you besides height all right from a physical point of view I I I'm too hairy in certain places that I don't want to be like where your ████ my ████ I got my 45 bucks hole but I do wish I had the hair that could connect my facial hair and make it full so you know does does Nina have it on her side like right here not Nina but I heard the dudes in her family then they got like her dad and her uncle I don't see it on her dad or I see the mustache yeah oh yeah but not like a full connected like the ability to like shape like I covered Ryan's facial hair you
20:16 could have it bro would you feel like shortchanged if your kid wasn't as tall as you no because need a shorter so I expect it I'm surprised I grew taller than my parents uh but most people grow taller than their parents right well in my experience my parents told me when I was growing up that my younger brother Nate he weighed more than me at Birth so he was always going to be taller than me and I swear I willed I am tallest person in my entire ████ family and they told me the entire time I was growing up that I wouldn't be they told me the entire time I was growing up that my younger brother and I swear to God on my life I willed it into it and then the day you got brother taller than your brother you looked at him you're like I'm ████ talking and he was like
21:07 congrats no no how about this they're young like I said younger brothers they never got taller than me but I kept on ████ growing because I knew I knew to win I knew to keep that ████ Basic Instinct and probably just laying on your bed going yeah length hitting my ████ spine and ████ dude hanging upside down [Laughter] what physical trait out of your whole like self would you you wouldn't mind seeing your kid look like that I wouldn't mind yeah you'd like it what do you like in terms of like uh something you could pass down the hair hair you got nice hair your wrist you want to press down your wrist yeah yeah the sex havary except if it's a girl oh yeah actually personality trait wise that's a dope thing for your kid to have like we'll talk about tomorrow the smoothness
21:57 the kindness the Anthony Lee Kessler the Anthony empathy always second place empathy Lee empathy Lee that's a good name for your kid empathy Lee he's gonna get punked that's gonna be a stripper that's a stripper's name Here Comes empathy and it was like yeah get the dollar bills out get the singles out put the fives away put the fives away this is the trash break the fives shoot the quarters I get the nickels I think this is a boring answer but I think the disease is probably the number one thing that's very important to me and I would feel horrible yeah like I don't want to pass down eczema rare diseases anything like that Crohn's disease me too too true
22:52 thank you
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