0:00 she's like once there's this like there's this Mexican guy comes up to me when I'm walking like hey you're pretty are you single dude she's still getting hit on that's tight another guy comes up to me like hey we should go out and play like we should go see some sites I'm like Dam you getting hit on what the but then in the back of my mind I'm like man these dudes about to fall into a [Music] trap you've just dropped into the middle of a natural care for boys conversation what were we just talking about we were talking about being jealous of people who had teen pregnancies because people be like that I think it was phrase differently no that's exactly I like that better though yeah I think it's a much funnier
0:50 way to say it team pregnancy jealousy like what oh man what can we figure it out I guess so part like like the people that had kids earlier the Jews I said oh the Jews oh this is specifically a Jewish thing specifically the people that got it figured out and they were ready and then they Mormons too Mormons got it they have like 50 Children and they start early but by figured out you meant like financially like secure that kind of figured out yeah like to me like I wanted kids and had we uh started earlier I think we would have had more kids but I was still trying to figure out my own ████ and then trying to be financially stable and kind of like fixing all the things that my parents did I'm like okay I definitely don't want that whatever whatever and so it took a while for me to go okay cool I'm in a better place than my parents you
1:41 know but then I see the like my my old boss in the Marine Corps he's not Jewish but he figured it out which I thought was kind of cool he's probably only like 5 years older than me and his uh oldest is going to college so him and his kid will like have fuing like Gym Bro dates cuz his kid like 21 yeah and I'm like that's ████ sick so he had a teen pregnancy yeah he was one of those guys uh teen pregnancy Probably sounds Mexican to me Salvador which is the same um married his lady joined the Marine Corps and then responsible stuck together and then work ends up working at rathon had like three four other kids but because all his kids are grown grown this Fool's like hella into hobbies and ████ cuz he has his time back when he's still relatively young you know yeah that's why I was like looking at all my
2:31 friends who had like well not teen pregnancies but maybe they had kids in their early 20s right and now we're like the same age and they have a lot of time to do Hobbies their kids be like 13 8 10 whatever they can ████ take care of themselves people to do Hobbies with too yeah dude it was fun the other day we were at the park we're ████ barbecuing the kids were spraying each other water and ████ we were like having fun and I was like man that s███'s way more fun than my friend's baby over here that's a ████ potato that just like stares at you but how many of those people are happy that that's their partner in the long run which one well in my circle of friends I think they have good marriages but then yeah you're right like the another thing that we pointed out is imagine if you did have
3:22 the kid with the person you're with in high school or like in your 20s like dude what a ████ nightmare we're just about the good side where people worked it out but then the the worst in majority of cases it's like people are probably not with their partner anymore they're fighting over custody or like they're just constant drama and then the kid is want like it's like I like Dy house better because like over there I can ████ do drugs and I can't do it over here and there you also have to ask the question of like your partner now imagine them as a teen and Pregnant maybe that's a harder thing to navigate yeah your partner same person yeah cuz you're trying to make life choices like if I imagine smack and me being together when we were like younger back then and like she's pregnant at an early Point she wouldn't have discovered anything that makes her super cool today true cuz
4:13 I knew I knew of a really creative director and he made a lot of really cool like short films and skits and stuff and he had a lady that would always be like why you working all day and he's trying to hustle he's in his mid 20s and so when he comes home he has to face the wrath of her M and so if you have to try to make life decisions together it's tough it is tough cuz the other lady doesn't want to do anything all day and won't even take a shower for a couple weeks what the heck yeah I think that's the most important decision of your life choosing your partner no not that yeah that too to shower or not yeah yeah yeah that's the most important decision yeah dang they're saying like who you have who you decide to have kids with mhm kind of is a major point on how the quality of life
5:05 is going to be oh yeah cuz I was like dude like sometimes in my past I would look back and I'm like why did I drag on these relationships for so ████ long because I was happier single instead of like fighting to make this work mhm and then later you're like well that relationship was wrong maybe that person wasn't wrong but maybe they'll be better off with someone else but man imagine if we got married and had kids ████ and that that usually is the case for a lot of people and then you have like hella people divorcing like and I think a lot of us come from parents that were dysfunctional cuz they couldn't figure it out y once you have a kid you have so much on the line cuz I think in the beginning it's just like oh what's your favorite color oh you like that too suck my dick right you have that and
5:56 then you have like you like movies like what places you like to visit is it it's like all this fun ████ deeper voice the minute you got kids it's like now you got to go wait are even when it comes to upbringing are we on the same page discipline are we on the same page cuz I've even seen people like they're like ████ man my wife won't let me do this or every time I try to discipline my kid she steps in and there's like that Dynamic which sucks and eventually it's going to get push to a point where like well ████ it If that's how she wants to raise it or that's how he wants to raise them then go ahead and now there's a void yeah that core principle and philosophies have to be aligned yeah and then once you have that void then you get to that traditional really depressive like I got to go bowling with my boy so I can talk ████ about my wife type of life and then you get and then you get ████ like I feel like my parents were like the best example of
6:47 that cuz they didn't really work out and like I'm like you guys never saw eye to eye on anything it was like if they were with different people though they probably had a it could have been different I don't know anybody any of them could have been with like I was at the park today I was me and my mom walking around the park and she's like man you know it's kind of weird she's like once there's this like there's this Mexican guy comes up to me when I'm walking they like hey you're pretty are you single and then and then my mom was like and then I was at the mechanic and then some guy was like dude she's still getting hit on that's tight he's like I was at the mechanic and then the the another guy comes up to me like hey we should go out and play like we should go see some sights I'm like Dam you getting hit on what the ████ but then in the back of my mind I'm like man
7:37 these dude's about to fall into a trap you got to go warn those guys you got the upper hand oh boy you about to get ████ up they probably think ooh what a sweet little Asian girl she's probably submissive and nice and then they get with her and you're like whoa I just got with Kim Jong-un dude what the ████ yeah you about to have ████ incense in your house Buddhist punishments Nick when since you've been with tip for so long did you guys ever like um go through like massive changes cuz I always imagine like like the partner I'm with now I'm like we changed so much before we met but then while you were with Tiff did something ever shift in like one of your guys' personalities
8:28 that almost felt like is this going to work mhm I think there's always kind of moments like that but it's like I think early on what it really was was just not understanding like the other person's like perception of the situation maybe oh yeah so like we just might be on different pages on how we looked at like say um going to school or something like like when she was going to college I kind of was like ah I don't know if I want to do this ████ I was and it was kind of like a rift that was like oh well you know you should be going to school and I'm like H I'm kind of not taking that seriously and I could see her taking it really seriously so then I was like okay well and then by the time she graduated and I was still like ████ PCC I was like I got to get my ████ together well you in kesio that no that's when I transferred to the school that she graduated from is that funny ████ yeah I was I was just a ████
9:19 numb following in her footsteps pretty num nut you should just been like this chick had three graduations and I was like I haven't had loser what school you go to though all right and I was like I'll go over there but like did you ever have like big changes in your life philosophy cuz I'm not even the same person I was like 10 years ago I can't imagine like being with the same person they wouldn't even want to be with me what up guys thank you for watching us for so long if you like what we do please support our patreon Joe tell them what we have to offer so every week you get two videos one never relased director's cut and another one too hot for YouTube patreon only every freaking week you get that and you get access to our Discord where you can come chat with us and ask us questions that become episodes here cuz we're going to answer them and we're going to take it seriously and we want
10:09 to give you the responses that you want so come stay connected with us join our patreon click the description below for full details you know what I think it helps because I don't know like we are pretty aligned with how we think about things like and if she's not really um like for instance I'm trying to get us to move out of California I'm like talking it up yeah your IQ boosted by 20 points and she's like I'm like there I'm trying to like plant the seed of like what if like what if we think about this like we don't have to make a decision but I just want you to consider it and consider like just consider all the options that we have right right um I think she might be like no I want to get a place blah blah blah and I'm like okay but try bro try getting a place yeah exactly exactly no but but I but I understand like me
11:02 looking at the situation might be a little bit um from a different point of view than she is she I might be in the more in the middle she might be more in like the beginning early stages so it's like me trying to just like okay just be patient and just keep having these conversations and eventually she'll understand that like oh okay I I see where you're coming from cuz I know how she thinks yeah and she knows how I think too so it's like with a little bit of evidence and a little bit of just time and patience we can get on the same page about a lot of things but I think we've been with each other for so long that we know each other very well yeah I think it's pretty impressive that you haven't had any like massive phase swings you know it's usually together yeah like no once again it's like it's because our our views on things are very aligned and like I thinko do you would just say like it was like it took time it took time yeah like I was the stubborn one like I was the I'm super
11:53 stubborn for no reason and she's also stubborn as well so it's like in the beginning where you like this is going to be it or you're like we'll see how what what happens and they end up becoming it it was kind of both it was like wishful thinking of like yeah like this is going to be my forever person but at the same time there was there's still many times where I was like well I'd be like kind of bummed about a situation but in reality it was just my own like expectations and I think that's what people kind of get messed up with with what made you never want to walk away yeah cuz we worked it out we we get reconcile like that was the beginning like we fight took a break wow that's true well once again I was like stubborn like so if she was ever in a feeling of like I want to take a break in my head logically I would think and this is just I don't know why I thought this but at the time I'd be like what's the point of taking a break you're right
12:44 what is the point break point like yeah it's either we're it's either we're here or we're not yeah that and that I think that's my thinking is kind of black and white maybe to a fault but no I think that's I think you it's good to arrive there early because even though I used to think there was a point to that I only I did it and then I was like well there was no point to that whoops you know what I mean you just end up there anyway I think a lot of people get in the Trap of like being very like too individ thinking about themselves too much and not thinking about like how we're going Tove so you guys always had the game plan as we're going to base all the decisions Maybe not maybe not the the actual game plan of like this is how I'm going to move forward it was just like as we went through our lives it but you can always see the big picture exactly like it made sense to be like it's going toward marriage we should go work towards maybe she wasn't thinking
13:34 that but I did I was like I'm not going to be with you she was like it was just coin yeah yeah kind of cuz in my head I was like I'm not going to be with somebody if I don't see a future with you then what's the point of us doing this like either we're ████ around or not like one foot in one I can't even think one month ahead that's so mature at you matured so early dude I I really don't your situ so unique so unique the funny thing is that that used to be common where people found their partner in high school or college and then they just stuck with that one person but then now it's so rare people were smart like what what Nick is doing is so rare but that was when like divorce was a stigma like that was when like people just stayed in their communities back then you could sock your wife too yeah no I was just going to say that I was just going to say that that was a good time I want to take a break what you say no but
14:24 the other thing though wife never wants to take guys people people didn't sleep with each other before marriage so commonly and you had to get married so that and then everyone had curfew everyone you know it was just a it was a time of like there was a lot of institutional Like rules of like you go to church you don't want shame there you got like communities you don't want rumors spreading people kept each other in check um with all that ████ socking the the other thing know too is like physical Tiff went to school for like psychology and all that ████ like she's like a clinical social worker and all that so she was like putting me on game on things of like how to talk about your feelings and stupid gay ████ like that so it's like it did make it helpful to be like oh this there is kind of like a protocol of how you talk about things I picture all your couple relationship talks you on a
15:15 flat she like uhhuh down I just feel but it kind of been a way why the stove was on it is kind of a way like that does did she grow up with both of her parents so they stayed together yeah that's good yeah and they're they're you know they're dude you know it's crazy how much that is a game changer though like just from my experience of myself and like also dating people who came from broken homes or they have parents that stay together even if it was dysfunctional if they just stayed together it's a different they just have a different way of um reacting to conflict yeah no for sure for sure cuz it was like that with my parents like they were there were definitely times where they were you know great together but then most of the time it would be like dude they were mad at each other like that's what I just felt growing up as a kid you know so I just remember
16:06 thinking like well I don't ████ want that but at the same time you see how they think about it as bigger like my dad was always like that he was always like I don't care if we're fighting about this like I'll take care of anything like you'll be taken care of no worries like he always had my mom's back no matter what so and you know vice versa in a lot of ways even though she'd be like ah ████ this guy blah blah blah she'd be talking ████ but at the same time she be like what do you want for lunch and taking care of them all the time too you know so it's like right yeah it's just how they communicated like that was their style and I was like this style seems hostile their love language is hate yeah yeah hate hate hate it's the done way dude it's an ingrain in all of us unfortunately and we're trying to break it trying to break our family's curses no but it's very interesting there's like a whole acronym for people that are like choosing to not
16:56 have kids there's like a I forgot what it was called din yeah din or something dual income no no Offspring yeah oh first time I've ever heard of I don't know I'm just making that's D makes sense it's like committed relationships but they dink yeah dink maybe yeah they chose not to have kids like I have some friends that are like team no kids yeah yeah yeah yeah they're like you know they're like in their 30s and 40s and they're just like yeah we just made a choice mhm and then I was like that's cool they look like they're living the life though yeah yeah I have friends like that t ████ traveling every ████ month to a new place yeah get boring petting tigers and ████ looks lame honestly that's dope that's dope if as a couple if you figured out that kids are not your personal fulfillment you know like where you were you're not
17:46 going to just have them just cuz yeah cuz that's worse right if you're just like I think we should have kids cuz we're running out of time yeah that's probably better it's also the super scary gamble part where you're like you know how you don't know how you're going to feel you only know how you're you feel now right like so when I was 13 like I didn't think I could die and I just thought like dude if you don't ████ listen to Tupac you're gay like and you don't know that one day you're going to be like dude I was the dumbest ████ in the world so like that's what I'm like scared of where I'm when did you figure out that you could die I was like 35 then I was like man like that's the thing I'm scared of I'm like U cuz even we we only have one and sometimes you do think about what about the second and they like man when we're 70 are we going to regret the decisions we made when we're
18:36 3040 oh yeah so yeah I don't know you just being negative dog no yeah I don't know cuz in general I don't think you're a regretful person so like it I think it depends on just you as an individual do you even regret things like some people hold on to ████ like they're our age and they regret like their teens and I'm like you still got so much time and and you're just going to live your life full of ████ regret yeah but like I don't know that it doesn't serve you anymore yeah cuz there's also like even if you have the desire to what if you just can't biologically have one so it there's also that too like it could just happen so then yeah we're for for me I'm like I know a lot of my friends who had um like pregnancy like difficulties whatever you know a lot of people that
19:26 try later on in life they do like IVF and stuff right and I was thinking about man like they go through so much like I've my roommate was going through IVF while I was living with her and then the the stuff that they have to go through it's so much more than like what they share like on Instagram and whatever yeah and I'm like I don't think I want to put it's heartbreaking yeah I don't I was like well in that case probably like steal a kid or something and raise it as my own you know dude there's plenty kids just that that used to be easier to do back in the day too yeah oh it's still music she doesn't have to go through all the effort you just can't be too picky you know what I [Applause] mean man good timing do you know how to walk in a room without going like this you see his face are you jealous of teen pregnancies what what's
20:18 a teen pregnancy teen pregnancy you know what a teen pregnancy your ass of you play ████ Vietnamese acting like he doesn't know about te that's your middle name k pregnancy teen pregnancy specifically teen teen like a teenage pregnancy are you jealous do you get jealous I get jealous I don't get jealous well what about all your friends what about all your friends that have kids we should have got a smaller memory card I don't know you can get pregnant if you want who cares hey that's tight that's tight hey shout out well I'm jealous oh you know what's good about teen pregnancy is their parents are probably still there so they could like have someone to take care of their kid I'm jealous grandpar yeah yeah yeah I'm jealous of big I'm jealous of multi-tiered families
21:10 where there's like grandmother great grandmother if you're the younger you are most likely your grandparents are still alive so they could take so you're saying have kids ASAP once you're if you can afford it if you can afford it what's the earliest age you recommend probably 16 and Pregnant wa damn I don't think that's the normal age you know why okay because baby I think the younger you have your kid the faster they're going to grow up to uh basically take care of you damn he's doing old school farmer style you're Asian for sure dog I have 50 kit to make the rice field make the rice field I have to B kid to edit the JK videos the earlier the earlier I can train them to start editing the video
22:01 he's forcing them to edit candy edit baby [Music] yeah
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