0:00 I also think though if someone was being racist and the other person was being The Stereotype I think they deserve it yeah bar gets in a car accident you best believe I'm a call a Chinese driver yeah it's like dude I deserve [Music] it welcome back to another uh problem solving episode of careful boys today we have Aon and with us let's solve some problems all right what do you do what do you even do when you have two of your close friends and they don't like each other oh oh that's easy about that is there anything I say deal with it we both we both have that we both have that yeah in what way would you deal with how do you deal with it uh bring everybody is invited to everything and if they have problems then they can just figure it
0:50 out exactly cuz we're old enough to not have this nonsense it's kind of like going to do a quest party because everybody's dated everybody or has somebody has a thing with yes at the quest party how many ex's can we find and if you have an issue don't come or deal with ital when I see your guys' party I go how do you guys have such a big group and you just don't have any drama it's just exes it's just you're not you're just it's common knowledge away for the night it doesn't matter you're not allow to if you're going to have drama then don't come and you come knowing that they're going to that somebody's going to be there I mean what Aris has the game where like we count and see how many we has like six to seven X's per party there we literally like we'll figure out how many it's like real X's just like people he's just longterm relationship like it didn't go well yeah wow it's like yeah like that's how I know you guys is through my ex and I've been to more parties her ex was there yeah my ex was
1:41 there at the last one but I haven't yeah I go to all the parties do you try to do anything where you're like hey like can't you guys figure it out or I mean maybe like when I was younger but like not not recently then that's like that's that's your business it's also like then you're putting yourself in the middle of that and you want to be respectful so I always say I'm Switzerland but if you start being in the middle of it with her like I don't want I don't think you should go to her thing then I think that we did a good job of like we don't really try to make an effort with that person it's like don't tell me what to yeah if you're going to if you're going to talk ████ about like if you're going to talk ████ about my best friend to me like you should already know that like that's not chill but I've squashed beef with somebody at aesc party too really who's that Carrie you guys oh we car and I didn't talk for a while and then I was like well that was like not cool of me to just ignore her for like 6 years and
2:31 then I was like sorry I did that that was mean and yeah years remember being younger and then feeling like it's my responsibility to make all my friends like coexist but I think as I got older I realized Mo most people have their own ████ and no matter how much you try to like tape up the situation if people are going to ████ it up they're going to ████ it up or if they're going to make it better they'll make it better so now I just like let everyone be you guys are Everyone's an adult they make their own decisions and then I don't try to like bring people together anymore cuz it just never really works out good but I think I I usually like one person over the other and I side with them that's very honest yeah very cuz like I don't have two best friends that I like equally that don't like each
3:21 other cuz birds of a feather like we typically think the same and we'll squash things the same way what about just friends not best friends no just Pals so like yeah we have my close like family group of friends that you just probably want to work ████ out with even if you have issues right and you have like friends that are you like them and you want them around but you're not you don't you're not too invested and you have acquaintances right so for friends um they're very disposable yeah okay I think at my age I mean like Joe's like I'll dispose both of them easy yeah literally if if in that friend zone there's two people that don't like each other they're doing this ████ then I would just stop hanging out with both of them cuz I I have my main group of friends that I I mean I don't have much time to you want to be wor about
4:12 negative ████ yeah exactly and in this friend zone area I think it's like the the less you are a burden to me the more I want to invest in you and then you might be able to surpass and get into this Zone yes but like when you're in your 20s you have so much time that I think that's what you're supposed to do is spend hella time and develop that like Core Group true yeah what about you man uh well I cut hair so sometimes i' be booking clients pretty close to each other and I I don't realize they don't like each other oh yeah get out really yeah cuz he cuts a lot of people in The Stunt World yeah and I'll be cutting hair and then you know I book someone for 2:00 and someone for 3 they're coming to they're coming to you or you're going to no they're coming to me and then like stunt guys that be beefing I don't know but I don't know you know not specifically I'm not going want to say specifically you know what I mean it's
5:02 2:00 they arrive at 2:55 they walk in and they just both they just go look at each other you see the two stare down I'm just go hey what's up dog and they're just like yo what up what up they're all super like you know what what up what up and I'm just like oh okay oh hey I'm just like oh I ████ up I should ask they don't talk about it in the chair no no they after oh yeah what do you say after well the one I cut gone already so they just go what up dog and they walk away right but the second one like man I don't really like that guy I didn't like him I was just like oh ████ man my bad bro but at least I made them say what up it's also not your responsibility to make sure all the clients are cool with each other here for your pocket and your stories you know what I mean so at the end of the day they never had the chance to go talk
5:53 about it but at least they came by and shook hands and said what's up because that shows me respect on my end too it's just like hey you're not going to start ████ or even be a child about it right or child be a child about it around me they're just going to show respect and respect me and I'm going to cut you guys hair and that was it but I noticed I ran into a lot of those things or if I'm doing house calls and I say yo everyone meet at that house someone would say oh I don't really I don't think I'm that cool with that guy at all oh interesting it's it okay but I pay you extra to come to my house after and I'm just like of course you pay me extra you know what I mean but you know what I uh don't like is um having to keep up with appearances like you guys don't really like each other and then like there's bad group dynamics but for the business or whatever people have to just like I hate that I ████ hate it
6:45 so much yeah cuz some people like that go above and beyond and you know they don't like each other but then they act like besties in front of camera and ████ and you're just like I actually judge them even more after they do that cuz I'm like you don't have to act like you love each other you if you don't like each other you just don't like each other you don't have to do the extra of like pretending that you guys are besties like that's the ████ that I'm like what the ████ is that for yeah and then you're like are you talking ████ about me behind my back too like are we it's weird yeah yeah well like I would clearly know that they don't like each other but like for business purposes or whatever it is now they're just locked in cuz like in in our world you know like there's so much like dysfunctional marriages and whatever but then like on camera they have to keep it up cuz now that's their livelihood right and I've seen so much of that ████ most married vloggers how they end up like telling
7:36 you later oh for years it wasn't working yeah I like hearing about your favorite shows and like when they're done and then you hear that like they really hated each other and I'm like oh you all were like can on the show and you just wanted to murder each other too it makes me respect their acting more I'm like wow that was crazy I believe you were still in love with them and that guy just cheated on you and broke up with you and you got a divorce but you are now smiling through that it's really impressive matter respect fact but like the unnecessary like love showering I don't know maybe that's a that's a weird oh yeah it looks like you're doing too much versus like just being cool yeah yeah but then I I I get it if you're like a cast of a film and you have to you just have to do it sells it better the more there's a bigger Dynamic I get it it's it's business at that level there's professionals at that ████ they actually just hate each other but after that film's over you can go back to being normal yeah it's weird when they keep that whole thing up yeah the
8:27 interviews are or like when there's nothing at is right I'm talking about people unnecessarily doing it and you're just like why that's weird yeah they're not no one's filming you you're just people no they're not making any money I feel like that happens a lot of parties too cuz there's always like you're not like I don't like everybody not everybody likes me either but it's like man just people watching and you always can tell you're like wow those people hate each other it's like they hug and like that's why I really like David like we have a close friend named David and like if people go up to him like yo how come like you been like saying stuff about me online he'll just like cuz I don't really like you like he's just straight up yeah which is dope you know like he makes it black and white where he stands
9:17 he's the same person online or offline and I'm like even when he says it I'm like oh ████ do keep people like Believe it or are they like oh my God you're so funny no they go oh my God then they won't away hearten I feel like most people even if even if it's a fake treaty that's what they want you know they go yo why have you been saying all that stuff what they wanted here is oh dude it's not that bad oh you know just business whatever and so they go like Okay cool so in their mind they know it's a fake treaty but it feels good they don't expect someone to go it's just cuz I honestly don't like you so I never want to hang out with you I don't like watching your ████ and I never I don't want to see you ever again and then and then they're like oh my God that so ████ real they go away like like I would like you to not exist how often do you are you face to face with that response like that's rare to even hear but I've seen David do it many
10:07 times wow wow and he probably does it where like it doesn't even hurt your feelings you're kind of like he just knows who he is I respect people who don't like people very much like that it's really cool that's how you got to do it yep like earning respect from people's cool well what do you I don't know why I added this in the original thing but what do you do if your friends don't like each other over something racial what the ████ I've had that yeah oh yeah really cuz I'm usually attracted to racist friends you know they're really they're so fun they're they're much more funnier you know it's wild like just like being friends with somebody for years and then all of a sudden realizing that they're racist and like like what happened in like a public setting and just being like you were there and it was like I
10:57 just like so they didn't want to hang out with another way friends over one of our white friends said something s█████ to one of our black friends oh my or she sat it under her breath and didn't think that she heard but then oh my God I was there and they called her out and she's like I wouldn't do something like that and I was like uh you definitely did my dude that's when you walk away you're just like ████ I don't know I don't know ████ I was like I'm going to side on and go on the side of the non-racist I think for this one but I also think though if someone was being racist and the other person was being The Stereotype I think they deserve that's just being true but they were it was so unnecessary yeah exactly
11:49 if Bart gets in a car accident you best believe I'm going to call him a Chinese driver dude I deserve yeah you're not allowed dude or a woman driver or a woman driver yeah like I was being a woman that day you were on your period yeah that's that's pretty crazy that they said it in the moment though they got caught yeah it was like I don't know if it was my birthday or somebody else's birthday sad birthday like what what did they say you can't say it I'm not going to repeat I'm not repeating that one we had a pretty big falling out and um this is like back in I want to say like 2007 uh seven or eight one of our friends who was Italian was um no no he's Irish he was calling our black friend the nword what the ████ the dude the black dude's like what the ████ how could you say that and
12:40 he goes oh no like he goes see how I'm I have black hair he's like in Ireland they call me that what the fu and he was he's like so it's okay what the ████ yeah yeah oh I know that's how that works and then and then they ended up getting in a uh like an argument so I was in the bathroom cutting someone's hair and then I just heard all this yelling and then like uh someone comes in the bathroom and they're like yo uh so and so's running around with a knife trying to stab him and I was like what the this was in North Hollywood at the um on cortine and then um so we ran out and literally the the uh Italian the Irish dudes chasing the black d out the knife over that and then they end up running out to the hallway wait the Irish guy is trying to stab the black guy because he said the N word because they got he pissed the black dude off
13:30 the black dude got mad back and then he felt like he was going to get like theeland guy did that and then they're running around the hallways of the apartment complex and then uh this other like all these people come out of their units to see what the ████ the noise is and then the Irish guy started chasing them around and then ran into his apartment cuz he lived on like downstairs and then that's when uh it was me and D me and drix were there and then that's when the guy was like he like locked his door and uh his girlfriend was like can you guys check on him we're like what the ████ he's going to ████ stab us oh check the Irish guy I think he's that be funny if you guys call the cops and the black gu's in trouble so for sure cops were already called and the cops were on their way already and then me and dri like all right ████ it let's go check on him and then we knocked on the door we're like hey buddy how's it going and then he like opened
14:20 the door and looked at us and he was like hold on and he like went to the sink and just like barfed yeah in the sink yeah I think he was like drunk and and then uh and then the that's Irish stereotype and the cops came and arrested him good yeah they arrested him and then and then that dude that black homie was no longer like friends with that whole like side yeah that's traumatizing yeah and and then the the girl we have a friendship and I thought we understanding and like some weird ████ leaks out about you how you feel about me that's weird yeah and then the girl that was dating uh the Irish guy like stayed with him after that so then the black dude was like what the ████ like you're going to stay with that guy so they she ended up like marrying him and they were together for like years and then he cheated on her over Co wow and they got a divorc barely now do you think he tried to stab her too back more no I think it's funny the crazy ass
15:10 development of the story but I ended up going to Ireland with him at some point that's hilarious I ended up like I ended up teaching in Ireland like in like 200 I don't know like 16 or something so was his nickname in Ireland the nword was was it true was everyone calling him that yo so this the crazy part not to say that he was right but I went to his actual like where he grew up called them that and they do call the if you're darker skinned and you have black hair they call you the equivalent of that oh how are you doing and then N word like that that Irish yeah and then and then they told me like the people that he grew up with told me that yeah they really they confirmed that to me I was like yeah just the cult it's the culture thing he just made a like a slip of the mind when he was drunk and he thought that he was chumming it up with the guy being like hey me and you are both this thing and the guy was like no we're not
16:00 dude that's crazy yeah cuz their histories don't match not at all it's not the same no he thought he was like building a bridge between him hey they call me that too so funny fre crazy wild that's hilarious a drunk aggressive Irish guy it's like the stereotype
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