0:00 [Music] welcome back to careful boys today we're talking about the times we've ghosted people oh oh this is great I do it all the time yeah I'm actually too good at this no I don't do it all the time you're too good no it's not I'm too good I my thing is like I don't want to bother people sometimes I feel like I'm even when I hit up my friends I feel like when I ask them to hang out I feel like I'm bothering them a little bit oh my God you sorry after hey want to hang out yeah I'm apologizing a little too much I gu something I got to stop in 2025 you know I me well how's that ghosting someone let him explain oh sometime oh no I think he forgot the uh the pr no one scenario that's one scenario so like for instance we we had we had a scenario where me a friend a good friend we kind
0:53 of have a disagreement on how to do things in like a certain working environment okay okay and it's as soon as that happened I'm kind of like I don't know if I'm going to talk to this guy as much or oh okay I got you I got you you know but ghosting is when you don't even hit you up you don't respond yeah I think that's pretty close yeah I mean I mean that's like a it's a version of it level three a version level Spirit haunting it's not you know I'm going to let you do your thing for a little bit man you know like kind of like that yeah like is it to punish them no it's it's more of like if this is the energy you're on I don't think I want to be yeah that makes sense yeah I think all parties I think it'll be a better move you know yeah but sometimes I also and
1:45 like if I have a good friend that I like one of my best friends I don't really talk to on a regular basis but I know every time I see him in person that's a real friend it's all good like we're going to be cool you know like we're going to be able to talk about the things that you know catch each other up on things that I've happened already um and you know like you keep it cool I'm never going to treat anybody different like that but there's times where I'm like you know you're doing your thing I'm doing my thing we're we're good I kind of won't really like reach out as much and sometimes I feel guilty about that I feel like I'm not a good friend in that way no um you don't got to feelig but then again it's like sometimes I feel like I bother people I hit them up too much or if I hit them up like that's a weird thing on my end where you that comes from probably a weird childhood dude um um burden boy yeah I feel like I'm a bir I see that's my that's my thing is I never want to feel like a burden to
2:36 anybody Nick is a be my sisters cuz they all kind of do the same ████ and then you're like hey what's up and then they're like oh hey Nick yeah maybe that that might be a huge part of it many years of that anytime I come around they're like G and they just ████ and I'm like you know what I'll just hang out with the dog H out with my golden tree of Coco that's okay I'm doe fight over here with the dog I'm just burning stuff in the back y having so much fun they doing weird ████ makes a lot of sense making dirt bombs and throwing them against the wall kind of kind of tracking no it's I think that's exactly where it comes from did you ever did you ever confronted your sister like yo what you did you ████ up no because you know I don't think there's any value in that right it's like I think you a ████ is going to be too far what really but it's your sister like those are yeah yeah yeah but you know are uppercuts it's different
3:27 when you're a kids man like I'm not going to hold anybody account not accountable I'm not going to give him ████ for things that happened when I was like 15 years ago you know no you got to go to your sister but I went to careful boy therapy and they told me that the reason why I feel like a burden boy burden boy is that y bir boy that's kind of tight I kind of like that yeah out of the careful boy you got have yours the name a birden boy gay boy angry boy boy gay boy gay boy I like that you avoided ████ boy to call me gay boyy clock boy clock boy boy Eagle Boy oh yeah Eagle boy yeah boy don't forget that ████ boy started this whole worse than gay boy what's what's theves cuz you're a burden white boy
4:19 white boy's pretty good what's mine white boy's pretty good what's mine not careful smart boy boyy boyy boyy boy like oh your boy toy dude hey Bo boy boy toy piece of ass we pass around I saw you in a dress earlier I think you're boy toy that's ████ up that's disgusting that's what I think that's disturb can't take it out of my head you got to get that ████ out of your head Ste and it's on video I cannot do this anymore when you in the bathroom we're like damn subie look kind of good in a dress fire with a with a with a tight little Bob we made a little bet amongst the boys who can crack that subie first Steve thinks it's him but I don't think so I think it's going to be bo toy twice lunch what's Barts robart robart he doesn't get the boy name he's he can't be a real boy no what's Ken's girl boy
5:12 girl boy yeah foret quiet girl boy quiet girl pretty boy mag cck girl is pretty good no no Noel girl no Noel Noel Hotel Noel Hotel like says three words and then she's like hey can you cut those I didn't like I always said high at the top can you cut that hey oh I feel bad when I do this all the time I look at the text message like if I'm at JK I look at the text message oh I'll reply after this uh cut and I never reply don't blame us dud that's all you I'm not blaming you that's not ghosting yes it is because I never it just says ghosting is for a long ass time though yeah ghost is when like someone asks you a question and then you go sometimes do you guys feel bad where like sometime I do this where somebody
6:02 ask me a question and I like like you subie I'll I'll like I'm going to answer this I forget about it and like a day and a half later I'll respond and part of me feels like hesitant to even send the text cuz I'm like a dude this is like a day and a half late you know what's the worst too you leave it that's worst the worst is by the time you go back it's because you needed to ask them for something that's very bad and you got and you have an unanswered question that you walk to you like oh my God how do I and I need to know now about other thing I'm a bad guy you got to play your celebrity card harder you got to message back and be like sorry I've been ████ flooded with messages can I oh my God that sounds so bad sorry I was on set I could I couldn't get to you I was on set for the last 3 years I have a kid now I say if I'm on set when I'm at JK I'm like I'm on set babe sorry no calls baby moly can you imagine close I'm climbing
6:52 around SE stands in here trying to talk to people okay I've uh I've ghosted one person that's it just one wasun yeah yeah cuz I think falling out is different from like ghosting okay but did you you have never explain yourself to the person yeah no o face yeah did they ask you a question and then you just didn't respond back no yes a couple times and I had a I had very a pretty close working relationship with them for like quite quite a number of years actually wow um and then I uh I found out that this person was uh allegedly I guess grooming miners so you hit him back up after that's worth ghosting yeah that's
7:42 absolutely worth pych Mong dang F psych I'm just kidding I'm just kidding imagine they don't even talk we just thought they were friends yeah but uh yeah so were they on the documentary dance with the Devils okay never mind but that person like you know was hitting me up a couple times and were they asking for something I also just like feel I felt wrong about it because of like past history and like nine out of 10 times I feel like no matter what the situation might be it would at least Merit like a like what's going on like a checkin or what happened or at least like uh I owe it to you to like respond even to be like y'all can't blah blah blah blah blah what what did the person ask you for if that uh I'm an innocent man Being Framed I
8:33 just need you to prove that I was at this place and's like hey you know me dude I don't go to hang out in schools right you know that right Anthony our whole thing's falling apart I need you you know I don't like kids bro come on dog yeah what were the things that made you go I can't tell them I was there with you uh it was just to like go back and do certain work in this person's organization but I I I just felt like that would be associating you know it's like and I don't know I don't know if it's like oh like you know uh my credits like kind of hurts therefore let me get some other people to cosign my ████ again cosign yeah for sure you know so like I just felt I felt bad for like not being that type of person that I wish people would be if I was in that situation not not to be like you know grooming people like that but if I had an issue and people heard about and they ghosted me I would I think in my mind I'd be like Yo dude we were friends at least like talk to me
9:24 about it but because that's such a that's such a weird one the only time that would suck is if that that person got proved innocent later yeah I think if that were the case and they reached out again but is there a can can I ask you a question though then you're such a piece of ████ if if when you heard the news did you kind of go like oh I could kind of see that yeah cuz that's part of it too right there's that's part of the reason why you didn't want to it was too convincing he's like we going to chuckecheese this weekend you just the boys right all of us right what if he texted you Anthony 10:30 a.m. that's when you get good stuff what if he texted you and he was like Anthony my god do you believe that age ain't nothing but a number that's a crazy that's a crazy text and it started off with that yeah yeah yeah you know this could be used in a court right just
10:16 can be used against you that's crazy dude that's crazy what happen next you know what I mean by that in case you're a cop cuz I would I would also argue that if it was a friend that you knew in your hearts like this guy would have never done this and this is some false allegations you would probably like get what compelled you not to be like hey bro did you do it I would the curiosity would kill me see that's the other thing I think if I were like compelled by curiosity I would check on the people that were making the allegations oh you're so smarter than me you so smarter than me D mean just be like hey are you all right like did blah blah blah blah like like is everything cool are you okay versus like checking with the other person who was getting allegations and being you would talk to an 11-year-old girl about it oh my God
11:07 bro that's weird dog number one they're adults s number two they were boys oh oh ████ damn yes you feel a little stupid now huh I you should hit him up and be like bro did you do it level with me can you hit him up now and be like yo what's up with you did you do it I could but like What's your deal I could but I you know I'm just like ghosted I've just ghosted like from like three different like messages over the like last couple years oh ████ that I just feel like it's you know they're over three years if he if he's a dancer then I probably know too you do probably I bet yo remember this one dancers are so weird you know him okay my friend from Hawaii came down you know he's short little dude pretty gangster but I guess he tried to mess with my homeboy he messed with my homeboy chicks
12:00 supposedly and my my boy called me and goes yo this is what happened I immediately believed him because I can trust this guy with all my heart yeah immediately but the other homie tried to call me and try to explain his story and I just I just did not pick up he he tried to he tried why didn't you give him a chance because closer to the because I'm closer to the other homie and then uh you know him too Joe but yeah I know this story kind of oh yeah yeah but I just know with all my heart that one dude I I can believe him and trust him 100% without even questioning once yeah but what if you had two homies where you could trust them 100% then what are you going to do uh we're got to get coffee together we're we're going to talk it out yeah you trust me 100% yeah thanks man that's cool do you trust me 100% I trust all you guys 100% don't
12:50 trust me 100% too bad Joe I already I already do I'm telling you don't do take it back actually take it back yeah he might tell you some disco and fertile facts it come this Stu I need I need a fact check ████ I say 604 100% when cameras are off yeah yeah yeah true true true true he's not going to trick you it's like tus I'm like tus 50% but yeah I ghosted that fo I get that reference now I didn't give him a chance bro watched it yeah I did hell yeah it's awesome we cried cried well what movie what you oh dud I actually teared up a little bit I'm not going to lie ████ we just had we did we did a mock tournament with the kids and I had a ref
13:42 and when you when you ref kids you got to raise both their hands up and then you drop one so you leave the one that one so he's the winner on that one no they were so scen refs so no listen listen when I used to when I tried to watch Interstellar in the beginning I was always you know I didn't have a kid or nothing and I always pass out I always pass out right but now a daughter now that I have a kid for some reason I'm fully watching it fully invested in and the ending was ████ killing me I was just like kills you yeah I was just like come on don't do it I like ████ I'm getting chill I'm getting chills no I said don't do it don't cry but I'm ████ crying it's a it's a hard Impossible movie ever it's
14:32 necessary ████ necessary chrisan Bell man doing Christian Bale in that one but yeah okay my fault Christian Bale was sick of it m don't let him ████ with You Chris was sick yeah but yo yeah the ending was super hard the ending is super hard how do you not feel anything at the end you don't find who are you confronting right now he what he has a twin yeah that was crazy when he cuz he's murdering it to win the whole movie yeah it's crazy lost his finger what the ████ going on what kind of movie is this ████ dude ████ this movie who's who's the last person you guys go see okay so I was I was seing this chick I done it twice both ch- chicks both CH chicks who both CH chicks both two chicks uh one the first time I
15:22 did it it was because this chick was uh I was seeing this girl St in San Diego Liv in La so it's kind of one of those things it's like hey like come hang out on the weekends and like we'll ████ and stuff like that and then that was going good deal and then she was Catching Feelings big time and I was I'm pretty like is this the name of it feelings yeah exactly she was catching that dick and then I was but I was I liked her there's I can't ████ unless I like you credit to me right but then credit to me but so then I was with this chick for like I don't know a couple months and then and I guess I didn't even think of it like okay yeah we're kind of like a thing but we never made it official cuz like I had her come to my grandparents house and stuff like that one time yeah so I didn't think about like that but then I was doing an improv show and I ████ crushed it
16:12 right and then this girl was there and I immediately and she became my ex later I was just like you what the ████ is your name come here and we talked and hit it off and then I just didn't know how to reach out to this girl that i' had been seeing like long distance and she one day after like I guess a couple weeks she sent me this like like multi- paragraph text like heart was beating fast huh yeah probably like and man I really should have said something but I didn't know what the ████ to say yeah so I just didn't say anything what was she saying in the message she was just talking about how you hurt her or something she like really like loves me like that kind of ████ and it was too scary to respond or say yeah it was too scary it was like oh ████ cuz I'm like so all in already on this other one and and the other girl that the other girl
17:02 that when you were just crushing it at the Improv oh my God you just saw her and it was like love it for a sight honestly it was like that it was like a just instant you what's your name like What's your deal I'm going to talk to you right now I W I walked right I walked right up to her I was like I was like how you doing Steve Green nice to meet you like what's up you live here that ████ hey you should have replied with okay and cut it off okay no hey honestly you say okay is worse dude okay peace Emoji peo honestly not responding is probably a good movie crying emoji with the p or the kiss one or wink D I'm a Catholic boy I was guilty as ████ after that I'm guilty this day about it I feel bad about it every time I think about every time ghost comes up I'm like I think about
17:52 the say sorry it's cool that it it always reminds you though say his name make it real say say it Gregory the guy that loved you you shut the it was a woman come here
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