0:00 so he already had a girlfriend but she lived in Korea and so I was the mistress but I wouldn't know that because she was a side oh no she's in C you know what I mean but then I found [Music] out welcome back to another amazing episode of careful boys today we have with us some nectar hard Seltzer brought to you by UTI boys and girl hey and one girl under the influencers Y go check out their Channel under the influencers under the influencers that's why we have to make our name on Snapchat cuz they wouldn't allow Under the Influence so we just added the r at the end yeah yeah it's so corny I hate it on Snapchat on Snapchat what about on what about on Spotify and stuff oh everywhere else it's fine Snapchat specifically wouldn't
0:50 allow something that like promotes drug or alcohol use is that ironic even yeah even though like you just added an r and that was fine yeah okay cuz it made it a whole different word under the influencer so we just discovered we were talking a lot about revenge oh yeah like uh specifically like if something were to happen between uh like we were basically talking about Esther if somebody grabbed her ass when she want her man to defend her by beating this guy up and we discovered that she has Elite level empathy very very big empathy and and then it it brought me up to a a thing that Hannah told me she goes you know why girls like bad boys and I was like why she goes well okay so so Primal style good boys will probably do everything legal to get you back if you got kidnapped or whatever but what bad boys will do is they'll burn the
1:41 world down to get you back so she's like then I feel more protected by a bad boy because they won't follow the rules to they'll do whatever it takes they'll do whatever it takes and then I and then and then it was funny because uh Esther was like actually I disagree yeah because Okay so I'm you know I'm kind of soft-hearted but if you get me angry enough I'll ████ go off right and I think that good boys or you know like you know whatever right good boys you know they may be like soft and whatnot too but you know if you push them hard enough and they really have to do something they would do it so like I'm saying that I don't want a man that's just like ah you know like super angry then I think we have a different definition of a good boy okay okay see that's the cuz I don't think a good boy is capable of murder yeah I want a levelheaded man because I think
2:31 that if a guy just acts on aggress you know aggression then you're like you're like a superhero that like just ruins a whole ████ town just to be one enemy you know what I mean like you're just aggressive sometimes that's what it takes I age I agree with es I also like my men levelheaded yeah exactly heard that you you're talking about more like impulsive I think I know what you're talking about it's like a it's like a special ops guy right like he's doing a mission but he's not doing it like like just out of yeah like a like a terrorist or someone that's like a dictator who's going to collateral damage but he's like got a mission and he's in danger but he's controlled I get it's hotter when they're thinking and they're coming up with the plan and I feel like uh when you guys were talking about oh I like a good boy or a guy that's doing things by the law I'm like that's not a dumb thing
3:23 you know like why would you no I agree I I I think we had a different idea of what a good boy was yeah yeah but their brainstorm isn't at all costs like if you have a bad boy brainstorming they're like maybe we have to break through the wall or maybe I have to break in jail to get my girl out of jail or whatever I think a good boy brain like there's a wall there there security guards over here oh what do I do cuz I would argue that the the the image that you have of a good boy is actually a bad boy too these are different things you're thinking of like a man that has like his emotions under control that could be a bad boy or a good boy I think I see what I feel like what what she's trying to say is I want to say it's a dangerous man who has self-control so a man who's capable of doing dangerous things but
4:14 they're like a martial artist right they they can train they're trained they can they're like a ████ killing machine but they don't go out and and just because they're angry they beat everybody up yeah that's good that's good that's good yeah yeah but I think a good boy in my mind isn't even capable of violence because it's like a nice boy it's like a someone who's like afraid and will stand like just like he would like a guy slaps your ass and he'll be like you shouldn't do that like he'll try to he'll try to dissolve everything with words cuz he's afraid of Confrontation okay okay you're get mad at you okay you know what you're right you're right ████ that ████ that yeah cuz the levelheaded could be across both in my so maybe the definition is not so good boy bad boy it's more like the idea of a bad boy is someone who's capable of dangerous things and and yeah they have the the the the aggression but they
5:04 don't use it all the time see now that that's cleared I'm like yeah hell yeah I would want a bad boy but you're also you also are a little bit of a unique perspective because your reflex was not to say go get him babe it's like you are going to do something about it yourself first right I'm a very strong masculine woman yeah yeah so if you were like groped at the club or whatever like you were like I'll ████ do it yeah I'll ████ do it yeah her beat grown men in arm wrestling the ████ and she does not work out ever well I was a wrestler in high school and a kickbox that means jenz is just weak bro that's why dude the wrestlers the wrestlers always why'd you wrestle in high school that's a weird sport to a ████ H it it was like a it was like a joke thing cuz like but didn't you do it two years I did for a year and like I was good at it so I was like I'll keep going that was aoke I
5:54 would I would never live it down if I lost a match to a girl honestly and she was joking about it too no the thing was so so my friends always knew I was strong but then you know how when they announc it like oh we have wrestling practice uh come come to the room whatever right my friend was like I bet you won't do I was like why the ████ would I do that you know and he was like oh you know I bet if you do this blah blah blah like you just made a BET right and I was like all right and I went to the room the I was quite girly you know I was wearing a dress and I went there and then the teacher was like um cheerleading is that way and I was like no I'm here for wrestling and then like that kind of got me like you have no idea yeah I was like okay all right so then I stayed and then I actually showed up to the practice and he was like oh you're serious about this and I was like yeah every single time you would make remarks like that cuz I'm very competitive back
6:44 in the day now I'm lazy as ████ but back in the day I was very competitive so I was like now I want to go and do my ████ right and so I I proved myself and then I went to championships wow damn dude you were winning matches damn were you wrestling against or other dudes uh sometimes chicks because I I was 120 and there's like skinny boys so I would have to wrestle boys and girls Dam and you're just washing these little scrubs oh you know what we probably would have wrestled I was 120 in high school I was also 12 I was 126 see I'm telling skinny Asian boys dude I'm not going to lie I I'm 120 now I'm stronger than all girls but men even at 120 they're Stronger Yeah they are just testosterone they may be skinny but they're strong wiy but also yeah at 122 there's like zero fat percentage on them so it's like a very
7:34 efficient body you know what I mean and they're fast too like I wasn't fast I was 120 they're usually short sometimes like they're like 51 and still kind of jacked like I used I was like so I'm like 5'8 and I'm like sometimes I'm wrestling some dude who's 5'2 I'm like your arm is like the size of my waist and then they would just toss me around yeah you wrestled all through at high school I only did I did two years so I had to like go to like a criminal boarding school after juvie and then so when I finally got back to real life it was like Junior year and then I was like what am I good at I don't have any skills cuz I was away and then I was like I liked fighting I feel like wrestling could could be similar and it was just not similar at all cuz there's like a hell of rules but uh it was like the that made me get into like Fitness and working out though cuz I realized like that ████ that ████ is hard as ████ I was telling him I'm pretty if I remember correctly I think I lost a wrestling match to a girl in high school it was
8:25 me so it's coed in high school it is co wrestling a CO like bro I was wrestling her like I didn't know where to put my hands like I felt weird I had to wrestle a girl in high school too oh cuz you're in singlets and stuff so you never trained against a girl no that was the first time you ever had to do we went to a different school and I wrestled two matches that night and one of them was with a girl I felt mad weird I knew the power of women when I did Judo as a young boy and I was like bro I get tossed around like a little rag doll I kind of like it so your friends ████ me up too so then on the flip side on the flip side for you for all the guys is it attractive for your girl to get mad at another girl that did something to you no no it's got to be the same scenario I got kidnapped and I need her to ████ burn the world down yeah I want that I mean I dated nothing but
9:16 abgs and like feisty women growing up because I felt that that was like I like a girl that can handle themselves and not look for me to help them I like being the one to helped the girl yeah but I don't like I don't want that doesn't mean I want a helpless woman but like I do I think the Feist is attractive cuz it feels like you care so much that you're going to you're going to ████ kill the woman that tries to talk what I like is the same attitude but channeled differently so like in Game of Thrones I like Cersei Lannister because she'll do whatever the ████ it takes to protect her family she'll do anything like that who's that one is that the she's the one that blew everybody up the bald lady she's the ████ brother ████ she's game Lady she's not the one that was a Terminator right the mom and Terminator oh Sarah
10:06 Conor she was the one no she's not the one that was getting no that's Daenerys yeah yeah she's the one yeah the one that got ████ in the tower oh yeah the older lady a yeah she so I like her because she's not physically going to be the ninja but she'll make sure that she knows what she she's like political determination yeah yeah but she's evil though I don't know if I want my chick doing all that like blowing up a blowing up a building yeah not evil but the that that same like scorched Earth mindset of like if I was in jail she does whatever she can but still have the same attitude I like would you prefer Cersei as your wife or um what's the ████ Ned Stark's wife's name oh she was awesome too I forgot her name which one Ned oh you're talking about cat cat yeah yeah yeah so like I feel like complete they're both like super motherly and protective of their families but one's like objective good and one's like objective bad so which one but I mean
10:57 one lasted longer and she has more actually their kids are dead everybody lost their kids and everybody died cat with cers I feel like cat younger would probably still be bad I think what I liked about girls that seem like they can handle themselves is I know that I can't always be there yeah so when they mind yeah I don't feel like oh my God where is she you know is she okay she's alone versus like oh you guys are in danger she's crazy you know what I mean wait why did you say that I was crazy when you want when I said that I was possessive and you want a girl I don't want a girl that does that no no you said didn't he just say that he likes girls I don't remember that at all that I don't think he said anything he said he likes the feisty yeah I like
11:48 I think no I was just more like analyzing why anyone would or like why even I might find that attractive but overall like when it really comes down to it in the flirting stages I'm like I like it when they're like who's that other ████ oh it was your other girlfriend or like that type of ████ are you guys are you guys indirectly flirting what no no no no this guy hell no no they both look so disgusted dude don't say that you just had siblings flirp but but ████ um what the ████ was I saying ████ everything up dude I ████ everything ████ now dude this is CIS right hereis is it is it uh like a damel and distress thing you like no because but you said in the FLIR in the FLIR you like the energy in the flirting stage it's cool and all cuz it's like oh you barely know me you want me and then like the second it starts to get further that ████ is annoying like without fail
12:39 every time so like I feel like I was always like I end up dating girls that do that cuz they cuz I'm like oh this is cool right now and then without fail every time it's like oh God agreed I am annoying yeah you're very annoying honestly I yeah I'm trying to stop thank you this is why Jeremy will never love you no I did ass I learned a lot on this podcast and I she completely changes her personality now I know that if you want to cheat Go cheat wait would you actually are you actually going to change that part of your social media strategy yeah that's cool that's cool but the key is you set up the Trap so you know I'm not going to go I'm not going to go that far setting up the Trap Is Wild I'm going to let you do what you want to do sending Jeremy profile send a hooker I'm going let you do what you want to do but the thing is if you do it then I'mma I'm going to make you pay actual money
13:30 actual money your ass you want do you want to allegedly tell that story or no oh allegedly so my ex-boyfriend cheated on me so I made him pay me $10,000 in reparations payments literally in payment cuz he was poor but how you do that how you even more impressive well okay so actually okay let's let's be okay I'll be honest so how did you allegedly how you do him or extort him she probably has so much dirt they dated no I didn't okay the only dirt okay it was a pretty pretty big dirt so he already had a girlfriend but she lived in Korea and so I was the mistress but I wouldn't know that because she was a side chick oh no she's in Korea you know what I mean but then I found out I found out and then I got all of her information in Korea and I was just like damn I'm going to tell her because as a woman I want I want her to know that her man is Che you know what I
14:21 mean slay unless he got I thought no but I thought about it I was just like I feel like judging by like their changed messages I'm like she is obsessed with him and they have family ties and I'm thinking that if I tell her I think that she may go back to him so I was like might as well I was like might as well benefit to this you know like benefit myself that's a good observation yeah so so then I was like you know what if I tell her and she still goes back to him I'm losing and um let's make this a winning profit big business brain that's that's wonderful I think it's great Y no this the audacity of him so I said um you know what talk talk to him talk to her right now and tell her what you did you know and and show her proof so like she knows what you did and he was like no I'm not going to do that and I was like well then I'm going to tell her and he was like you don't know her
15:11 information I was like yeah I do and then sends her his I literally yeah I literally had all the information and then he was just like um and I was and then I was like yeah or or give me money and he was like how much and I said $10,000 well you started at 10K 10K and then and then ████ had the audacity to be like I don't have that much money what about 5k I'm like he try to bargain I was like you really on my bed right now trying to bargain with me did did he you should have been like $15 did you know his finances like to know yeah yeah yeah he made like $60,000 a year he was like a like a chef how did you pick 10K though how do you find how do you come to that no you know the thing is I picked an absurd amount of money because I wanted him to tell her and then instead he said he was down to pay he was down to pay and then I just let that ride you know I guess the money wasn't as a I should have been like 20K you know I
16:02 really wanted him to tell her was there a document or something that that will yeah we had a contract I actually actually called I actually called my lawyer who happens to be my friend so he wrote like a fake ass like contract B contract so like it but that' be fine no you signed it it made him it's more like mental thing like you sign something it makes you feel like literally like a random CPA that will not be named gave the advice of like oh like like my boy's like business you had to fire somebody that was just like being a piece of ████ and then he was like listen just make him sign this he's like okay Bet get him to sign he's like what does this do he goes nothing but he just signed a piece of paper and now he thinks he's Bound by some piece of paper and it worked like the guy did nothing after he got I am so cheap I would have told I'll be like I hope you forgive me um I I had a side cheick and then I'm
16:53 like baby they're going to charge me 10K how about this we I keep that 10K we go on a cruise and we make this all better that's what I wanted him to do because I was just like ████ I felt so bad for the girl I really did because I I would have never done it if I knew that he had a okay let's get to the good part what did you do with the 10K yeah yeah what' you buy yourself did you go to not B bet it on black on a silver bullet I I went gambling with it yeah wait wasn't it in like payment installments too it was payments cuz he was so poor dude he paid me like $22,000 the first month and then he paid me $1,000 uh every month or every other month and then like for some reason the payment started slowing down right he missed the payment a th so on the contract it says that if you don't pay the full amount you have to give me your car but then what you had stipulations too let's be real I didn't want his car
17:43 he had a Genesis and it wasn't even paid off Janice's baby oo so no no I mean I'm not saying it's a bad car I'm not saying it's a bad car I drive a toy cam I'm just saying that it wasn't even paid off so why the ████ would I want it like it was like a burden yeah it was a burden you know what I mean and so I was just like damn we're you know but I honestly wasn't even mad at him anymore MH I was just like I hope he learned this lesson cuz this is like 9 months later with like $7,000 passive income dud that's sweet so he had a he had a date that he had uh should have been his last payment so like I was like by July or something like that I have to read over the contract wow but but basically yeah it was like June or July is right and he was late and he actually text remember I told you he texted me yeah yeah yeah yeah and then I just said you're good oh no no way she absolved him of his payments cuz I was dude I you're so nice
18:34 like mad I wasn't mad after like two days I wasn't mad you should have been like oh you know scenario could up please what if he did this what if he goes you know what I'm actually in love with you I'm going to break up with her right now hell in front of you and then he he went speaker phone and he goes like I know you're in Korea but bye-bye no no no I don't want like I don't want anyone that no if you're doing that type of ████ yeah you're you're scum I find it so weird that he didn't put a stipulation in the contract that says in the case that you end up on a very famous podcast you may never tell this story public cuz that's kind of like telling it he didn't write the contract said he actually said like um uh don't talk about it and I said Why That's not in that's not in the cont that's not in our contract that's not in the contract contct cont he did ask me for something though he said that if I do give you the money then your friends
19:26 cannot harass me your like G gang member friends cannot come to my house and like rob me he just lit let me get a shout out let me get a shout out on IG cuz he's met he's he's met my friends they're scary no they're nice they're super nice but you know what I mean like he but they're your friends yeah they're nice to you it's like a pit and we all know where he lives so you know what I mean like yeah so he was just like taking precautions right he's just taking precautions so that was part of the contract so obviously like when my if my friend was to ever run into him i' they can't I I would I told all my friends and it was on the podcast I they were just like what if we didn't have that contract they run up on him like oh guys he didn't pinky swear with them he has to pinky swear and loog it in but you guys it's it's it's a word you know like it's a word I have to keep my word so
20:16 you're an honorable Thug I love that that's awesome okay honorable gangster she's literally a thug though no but what if you have done I side with you because it's he's been lying to you he ████ it you know I think I think he should have paid more than that and then I don't think he's broke 60k a year what 10K come on I don't think dude in LA and then you let them and you let him go with the last payment but I guess if you're not mad at the end of it yeah then it's like okay you should have added interest for late payments and ████ no I was going to or like you see him at the club on the story like I think you I think you let him off easy yeah you think so a lot of people thought I was crazy for that yeah well I'm not normal and then I had to export them for calling me crazy it's just it's just how it works would you be sad if
21:06 you found out later that he didn't have the money and he was getting it from that girl the whole time to pay you man Loki I think she's balling too that's why he he was like yeah my wife got me my future wife got me so no you wouldn't be bad would I would I be sad honestly till this day I actually not till this day I'm not that nice um I I'm over it I'm over it yeah I feel like if someone's scummy to you then they're fair game that's my that's my feelings I don't believe in Vengeance but I believe in Justice I believe in Vengeance yeah I don't I don't want yeah I feel like that like vengance is more like taxing to you like for you to be wronged and then you have to sit there and care about it over and over to get them back that's why I wasn't mad like after 2 days of or 2
21:56 days I wasn't sad I wasn't mad I was just like damn The Audacity Of This guy you know but then other than that no I wasn't mad at him at all and then whenever I would actually feel bad when he came to give me the payments because he'd be like Esther are you home I'd be like I'd be like no I'm not home but you could drop I'd be like drop it off in the mailbox you know and take a picture of it that was that was it damn it was all in cash too no no no funny business no paper drill yeah that's so funny you see the video of him walking away like his clothes are all tattered yo but you me three page long note saying like dude it was It was kind of sad honestly what was the note the note damn I wish I bought it so you guys could put it up but it it was really it was honestly really sad exposing his not it was like it was like um someone's going to recognize a handwriting he said that he has like a this routine in his
22:48 life he was like all I did in life was go to work come home sleep go to work and he was like I felt like there was no light in my in my world until you came in I was like he's trying to win you back know I was just like I was just like oh why' you ████ that up then that would have worked on me no no because I mean even if you're sad that's not you shouldn't do that so I was the guy with a hondai Genesis are you sure he said that's living baby yeah and then he was like and and honestly I shouldn't have done that but when I whenever I hung out with you I felt really happy and I let that greed get to me and I'm sorry and he wrote like a long ass letter he was like I didn't mean you any harm but I did and I'm sorry for that and so he was like pretty genuine about it from what I am reading that's kind of nice so he was like two girlfriend he literally said I will pay you back every single penny until like I make it right to you and
23:39 then I was just like yeah he's taking accountability and now that I know your empathy level I could see that letter actually affecting you I would have been like you con artist you ████ or you born a liar you're still lying in this letter ████ you that's how I would be low key the letter was so good I thought he might have written it to multiple women wow it's like the fifth draft the f j this this is the third time being extorted from mine was mine was the perfected perfected like that was the final one it's like one of those like my letter to eser one of those messages BR he has three other girlfriend yeah or this is the first time and now he knows how to get out of all of them if he gets caught he's like hey I'll just give you eight grand he has to go find another girlfriend to help him pay off the depths from his last girlfriend help him write another letter I mean that is a pretty Elite move having a whole other
24:29 relationship isn't some oopsy thingy that's like kind of very well crafted you have to choose to date somebody again how long were you guys dating deep in it we're dating for a month shut the ████ up you got you're like all right a month he paid 10K for a month dude that's nothing but net dude you're pulling from half you serious it's really a month you have a year passive income for one month did you also not like you hasn't even ████ yet or like have sex what oh my goodness he got no ████ oh my goodness just kidding news careful Bo is a brand just kidding news is the man of smart people the people of just kiding news careful boys they are very smart just kiding news the number one forcast in the world
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