0:00 [Music] welcome back to another episode of careful boys we're here with chappelle lacey hey hey aka bouncer no i don't know i don't know it's gonna stick but i like it one thing i wanted to ask you guys is was there ever something that you hardcore believed in that no you no longer do either because someone told you it wasn't true and you were i was christian that's a big thing yeah and you really believed it back then like you were strong with it well because i was born into it yeah so i had no other choice that was my you didn't know anything else yeah i was like everyone that doesn't go to church on saturday is going to hell dog that was you that was your heart yeah because i'm like because we're a part of this uh i had the same thing in my offshoot christianity group called the
0:50 seventh-day adventists and then you know it's not shout-out to the offshoots yeah but they're usually the offshoot ones are more hardcore dude you know this is true have you guys seen that doc uh keep sweet no no about the offshoot lds no no no what is it on what is on that it's on netflix yeah it's about this dude i forget the guy's name oh gosh he was you say nick for now he's my name is a placeholder well basically he was on the blanks he was he had they all had like multiple wives but they were oh that's not me pretty much breeding them like at a young age oh like they were like there was 32 year olds like marrying like 14 year olds so they were in their own they were in this like their own compound what state though uh this was in utah yeah and then that's okay then he tried to move this ████ to like texas warren buffs
1:40 buffs is the guy's name whoa not buffett warren buffett's wait is it warm it's warren buffett no let's say his name is warren buffs isn't his name is his name warren buffet buffet my bad that's the right one but they were like hardcore about the religion but they basically used it as like manipulation right yeah and it was just like more of like a sexual ████ but there's still people that still strongly believe they're still in it yeah i think even though even though they caught the dude they caught all these tapes of him you know they're like uh voice recordings of him hooking up with wow voice recordings i did see this one yeah it's like from way back right yeah yeah wow no we were more like a what's the opposite of a sex cult celibate cult yeah like nobody was ████ the virgin the whole body was
2:30 ████ yeah we were opposite of this but sometimes that means that there's hella ████ going on behind closed doors it was dry you guys know about the waco texas stuff yeah oh yeah religion i know a little bit of that that religion is an offshoot from ours yeah oh really really i didn't know that it's an offshoot isn't that something davidian or something yeah the davidians they were that guy was seventh-day adventist and then he made his own ████ yeah wow that's what they do yes that's how the offshoots start they keep ████ splitting and splitting yeah and then take people with them and then they have this thing nah we're just more like a like like a vegetarian cult you know what i mean like it's just let's just see some ████ vegetables and then just go ████ praise and what was the turn what was the turning point for you to stop believing in this yeah i think i was always a very curious kid that kept asking so many questions that
3:21 i got my ass beat because i just wouldn't shut the ████ up and ask and then like i kept asking questions and i would obsess over the answers that i didn't feel satisfied with so then i'm like why i'm like i don't understand like i would ask questions like why do we have to work like in elementary school right yeah well because they'll say i don't want to go to school i mean i want to go to see my friends i don't know if i can go do homework but then i'll tell my parents i'll be like why do i got to go to school because you need to work and i'm like why do i gotta work why do you have to work why can't those are hard questions because there's people in the jungle or like we learned about like indians and cowboys and did they work like i don't think so right pirates didn't work they just ████ stole it they didn't no like and then you watch disney movies and ████ the ████ princess all day is just chilling getting swept off her feet and ████ yeah
4:12 you never see her going into the diner and ████ yeah joe's like i'm trying to be a princess right working that overnight racing doesn't work that much either a bunch of dead beats they don't do anything stab me dude so then i would go to church and i would ask people at church like why do i have to work what i got to go do why do we have to go to church right uh because you have to believe in god why so you could go to heaven why like why do i want to go to heaven and then you learn things about how your friends who are not seventh-day adventists your friends who go to church on sundays everybody else is going to help and i didn't like people at church so i'm like all the people that i ████ actually love are going to hell and i'm like well i want to go to hell too that's so crazy i have a similar ████ sister had a similar situation with it not it wasn't i mean it was kind of regular christianity or whatever but i just regularly because
5:02 no offenses when i went to church camp you know my adopted folks you know because they're strong in the christian faith and they wanted to send me to the church camp and i was like okay i'll go to that ████ what's up with it and prior to that you weren't going to church no no i mean heaven no i'm just kidding no i so i uh go to this church camp and it was just ████ weird right off the gate i was like what the ████ is this i was like in i was watching these people like sit there and like you know praise jesus in a way and cry but meanwhile all these ████ was on drugs like not all of them but like some of them but hypocrisy the hypocrisy is what caught me off guard and then then they were then then they had the nerves to be like do you they're like do you believe jesus christ died on the cross you know whatever that maybe if i took the same ████ you did
5:53 if i was on molly and then they were like they're right because they're like because they're like before you answer you know if you don't believe this you're going to hell yeah and i was like bro you're just a dude in ████ khaki shores who are you yeah and he's like jesus wore sandals [Laughter] the certainty always freaked me the ████ out yeah yeah that i know for sure you are going to ████ hell bro that's what i'm saying like i'm like who are you to tell chill the ████ out a little bit and it's so tyrannical because they somehow want to be like the gatekeeper like i talk to god you don't yeah and so it's like i know ████ more than you and therefore you have you're accessing it throughout that's not my connection with god like that's just you trying to be an authoritative figure trying to tell me so then in junior high
6:43 i was like man ████ this ████ i'm gonna smoke weed and like also when i ████ you guys when i got kicked out of christian school um for the second time the school that we went to right i was like i thought christians were trying were supposed to like counsel and help those that are like in need but then everywhere i went i just felt like ostracized and blamed and then possessed by the devil so i'm like well ████ it then if i'm a part of the hell group then i guess i'm with the devil you know dude and that was my thing i was like i don't feel like i'm being a bad person like i don't feel like i got to do anything crazy like i wasn't malicious to people like i wasn't trying to they probably just didn't like the way you dressed or like they didn't like the way you thought and it's like you didn't really sin but they treated you like one yeah i remember one time you know i went to church with my homie
7:33 and his family and i uh rolled up to his crib uh to meet up with him to drive to church and i wore a misfit's shirt and then it's like the fiends yeah and his mom sat me down and talked to me and basically was like do you know why this is wrong and made me change she's like my shirt is way better [Laughter] legendary legendary shouts out to corn though but then meanwhile like her husband has like a t-shirt on with the punisher skull with an american flag going through the eyes yeah it's like that's what i'm saying like it's like okay which is super cool steve yeah the inconsistency and i'm not against religion or anything like that like i
8:24 mean if that's what you find to deliver your best self then ████ do that but also don't ████ sit here and tell people they're going to hell because they don't believe yeah what you believe you know that's like that's pretty much how did you did you take the shirt off and everything yeah ████ i was out of respect huh out of respect yeah and see and i was being a nice guy yeah yeah yeah was there anything what am i doing now ████ no i'd be like suck it up ████ you mom is there anything uh is there anything non-religious that you guys might have believed in hardcore and then yeah i have one so um when i was a kid uh i any time i ever heard of any dude hitting a chick i ruled it as dishonorable and i would never talk to that person on my desk oh wow but now i was like this is the one you wanted to go with this is the one you wanted to go
9:15 with he sets it up like but you know what i think it's a great idea notice all of us started backing up now it's honorable it's the most honorable thing you can do to put it out there since i've switched my belief i have never hit any chicks ever ████ you won't do it you won't do it but that was i i realized that was like a very idealistic uh young thought because as i got older i've seen chicks push dudes like a ████ okay geo like like hit me and they're like hitting them right yeah hit me hit me ████ you ████ ████ ass ████ you only gonna do ████ whatever and me seeing that and i'm like
10:06 and then having seen uh like the dude actually lay one hand down and then drop the chick and i'm like dude that's what exactly what you're asking for and then also and also continue this is going really well i don't know we're gonna hear you out we're gonna hear you out going into what time where there we go are supposed to be equal right i'm like if we're trying to be equal then we can't have this double standard that means everyone can catch these hands so is that is that what you just say like girl you can run we can run this fade right now 10 second bodies like i don't i don't have that same judgment whereas before like let's say if i found out anthony hit his chicks hey just say nick just say nick but now if if i found out anthony i looked on a chick before i'm like we could still be it doesn't change your
10:56 view you're like whoop that trick oh man which is something i never thought in like my life i would ever see it that way hey man i just think that ████ was wack but now i get it it's kind of sad i like how you just ████ dig so it's good that bart went down because now we could say anything we did yeah yeah i know right yeah yeah that was he was he took doors yeah anybody else i never saw no chicks no of course of course but he endorses the beating of women but you're like the homies could do it i ain't gonna do it but the homies can do it no you know what it was actually at a i think it was a video at a steelers game where this dude he was trying he was trying not like this woman was getting booked with a big black dude too and she was like getting buck with him and in his face and she ████ hits him and he just slapped her and his ████ like sean connery and i was like
11:49 you kind of you kind of hit him first yeah cause she was like all up in his face she wouldn't stop and just and then he was just like yeah when someone pushes you to a point to where and then they start hitting you it's like yo you ████ put your hands on me i mean you should never really i mean but he wasn't he wasn't trying to go any further after that first hit yeah like that was more like yo back ████ up ████ you know like like for for comedy purposes bart can always endorse guys to hit you know women but in reality i think like i think in reality i don't want to be the jared is funding it yeah you want to be the jerry yeah i don't want to bug a bee selling making commercials and ████ i get scared sitting in between these two there's a lot of energy fix it anthony fix it but but but in reality though like i think like okay there are cases where
12:39 where um let's like there there's a domestic abuse situation where uh you know guys are you know being treated like violently by their spouses right yeah they never report it and then um they'll remember her there you go but yeah but let's say they retaliate because they're sick and tired of getting hit all the time but then it leaves a bruise she calls the cop of course he should never hit her you know but then he did finally hit her and then now he's the one going to jail there's so many cases like that but then before it's like you wouldn't ever think that that would happen because it's always guys wrong girls are bad yes yeah yeah yeah you ever see that one with the bus driver he overcut that girl yeah you're going to jail now you feel like a dragonfish she was asking for that one oh that one
13:30 that was that was ████ street fighter that's bartholomew he's like you know what he's part of the defeat all women's side that's his side right now hey hey my name is you just told your favorite uppercut ████ music story i'm talking about i'll go sit over there yeah this sport's hard to cry what is this it's like okay now you share your favorite violence against women's story yeah let's go around the room i will say i will say chris brown taught me that you could get away with it boy this is always great you have to do a lot hey he said that one you said that it's because i'm on this side double jeopardy i was already getting framed for it thank you for subscribing
14:20 to the fresh and fit podcast oh my god we're ████ andrew tate over here man we're a bunch of top g's over here do you have anything like hitting women yes do you have any uh criminal records like there's nothing you like hardcore believed in when you're in college you thought viets were superior anything like that still does i agree i agree definitely not when were you ever a bigot most of your life probably okay yeah ah that's a good question i'm trying to think that's a good question we should reframe this like to like actually really think about like what you for real hardcore believed in and then change yeah because like in bart's case it's the reverse like he became like a woman beater right so like for in your case like when did you yeah what was your one i used to be like you know what
15:11 like i'm i'm open but now i'm closed bar do you realize the door you opened or closed but he opened the door for other beaters she opened [Laughter] he was looking for something a little more easy having a religion you know i was like you have religion you could have done politics you could have done i used to be a ████ you know i only believed that the democrats were the best i got i got one bart's challenging i used to think some chicks weren't asking for it you just copied bart yeah i used to think that big time but then but then one day i realized yeah start talking about some people
16:02 definitely are asking that's a gift man he just passed you know yeah you're safe he's just ally i used to think no meant no but it actually meant do me harder [Music] jesus christ that makes sense how did we get here i don't know man i'm still alive we were talking about christian school so now you gotta talk what he just said holy ████ whatever joe just said you gotta top it because i don't because it's it's funny as you go through life you forget that you believed in certain ████ yeah because there's no way that your beliefs stay the ████ thing like it changes the ████ but you just don't remember like what did i used to think because you just get moated so hard you like forget about it right dude i feel like i've been mowed in my whole ████ life yeah especially when you're born into something yeah yeah like well i i grew up with as the youngest of my group and my family and my sisters were probably six seven years older than me and they'd constantly be dunking on me anything i
16:52 said i just grew up with this uncertainty about everything yeah you know like going back to the the whole uh when you guys talking about christianity i went to a christian school when i was in sixth grade i didn't know anything about the ████ religion i've never seen a bible before i didn't know like i kind of heard the phrase jesus christ but i was like oh yeah he's like you know but then he always followed with has dreads so shake-up yeah yeah and i would do i'd be super in a barrier rap and ████ but i went to this school and all these kids would be talking to me about like oh yeah you should accept jesus as your lord and savior and the whole time i was like all right cool just going along yeah and they're like dude it's sick like heaven isn't that crazy and i was in sixth grade and i was like oh yeah that sounds cool yeah i'll do that and then as i was going through like like the bible study like i took
17:43 all the stories as like literal and i would just be like oh like the jonah and the whale thing i remember like vividly i had a really hard time like understanding what the whole ████ story was yeah and the whole time whale ate them yeah i was like what is this dude like i had no concept of these stories you should have watched pinocchio that helped me understand it i never even ████ watched pinocchio monstro yeah it's the best version of jonathan is that the motherfucker's name yeah yeah monstrous uh the whale and gerpetto oh i have one it's a it's an odd one though oh that's perfect should i do it yeah it's not just listen oh yeah you're right i mean he's like it's all one it's not that i beat children well okay so when i was younger i dealt with like identity issues on a racial level level because i was like the only black kid yeah that was like listening to punk and all that ████
18:34 right and so all these people like every day were telling me i wasn't black wait you were oh that's fine oh you didn't grow up here no because there's a hell of black kids that were into punkin where was this yeah arizona arizona yeah yeah yeah so like for the longest time yeah i believed that yeah that you weren't black like you weren't blacking out but i didn't think i was white i was like [Music] but you felt like you lost your black card you felt like you lost your black card i guess like that or i don't know i just didn't you know and i was i had an insecurity being around black people um you know did you start playing did you listen to hip-hop like it wasn't just specific uh like it wasn't just like black kids saying it was everybody oh like everybody was saying so it gave you like imposter syndrome or something what's
19:24 that mean you know it's like like p you you think that you don't belong somewhere because everyone sees that you're a fake like you think you're gonna be exposed to any minute yeah well but also i didn't feel like i was being fake i feel like i was just i just like it and then but yeah i feel like i just like ████ that i liked yeah but i didn't i didn't think like but other people are labeling those things as like white yeah things to like and black things like exactly like i was just like oh no the skateboard is cool like no that's white people ████ dude you can't be doing that that's how they looked at it though you know yeah that's how they looked at me it never gets hard for you could always come to the asians we're cool man i know right asians had the same thing when i grew up though if you're not listening to r b trans and tupac and if you listen to anything else you're just white i said we're cool joe the asians are cool joe it depends if you have gangsters
20:14 back to the 19th century yeah he's like no now you could come in but i was like in 2003 yeah i don't know bro but i'm telling you it was it was it was a crazy moment of time but yeah for the longest time i just didn't think like there was any anything about me that was was black were you able to find another like black friend that also liked these things in arizona um i mean they would but no one liked it to the extent that i liked it like i was really into this ████ like i was going to all the shows like anything and everything i could i was just like yeah all that stuff did you did you try to connect to your black side somehow and be like i gotta go like do something black like listen to tupac or something no you know what no because i but but i already said black activity but i already already listened to rap um you know what i mean so like that was the weird part but punk was like the thing that was like your favorite the
21:05 that was the that was number one but when you go to palm shows you you don't meet any other like black people at the point you know what's weird is when you a black person seen another black person at a punk show they're like oh ████ i'm the only one that could you know ████ you but that's not their fault not even i'm the only black one in their head they're white but you got to realize it's not their fault because because i really don't give a ████ i'm like hey man hey hey we're both here you undercover too yeah right here we're talking to earpieces but no the thing is is like what would make it's not their fault because whatever group or whoever they're around makes them feel like
21:55 token they feel so yeah then they get territorial like i'm supposed to be the only black guy so that's a real thing that man because like movies always make fun of that like it's a real ████ thing i heard that from asians that grew up in white neighborhoods when they see another asian they they go like way like you're the only asian guy in that crew i'm the only asian guy in this crew like and then they have this like but wait that was my role yeah that's so weird man you guys got a beef yeah how many rock bands you listen to like it's like yeah i don't think it's i don't think it's as much now because i feel like you know things have opened up a lot more yeah but you know there was a period of time where like i strongly believed that and it was just like that i was like this is i guess this is just my life you know you know lag wagon yeah i just
22:46 saw them live in ████ orange county really yeah like that outdoor spot yeah yeah the nights at will smith uh slap chris rock damn yeah it was second historical night i know you like lag wagon uh well nicki's into it and i went with her brother and yeah this one yeah that's cool oh yeah so yeah that's the thanks for sharing thanks for sharing thanks for sharing dude mark thank you for laughing bart i mean suck the ████ out of this camera [Music] you
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