0:00 Out of everybody in this room, who actually made the first move on their partner? >> It depends what you mean by first move. >> Yeah, what do you mean by first >> It depends on what you mean by it depends on what you mean. >> I grabbed the first titty. >> Yeah. >> Did you? You straight grabbed her titty first? >> I think the first move is if here's the line between platonic and romantic, whoever crossed that line first, whether it's verbal, physical, whatever. >> That line is definitely smack. It wasn't me. >> For real? >> That line was >> Well, there was a guaranteed period of platonic relationship, though? >> A guaranteed period of >> Well, it's cuz sometimes sometimes you don't even have a platonic >> You guys would be hanging out all the time? >> Yeah, yeah, cuz we were we were friends for like we were friends for I think like almost 3 years. >> Yeah, that's a platonic relationship. >> And then what happened and how it started was that we um she was coming to our Halloween party, which she had already been to um one year, and she was
0:50 supposed to come with her boyfriend, who I also knew and was cool with. And then he showed up with someone else. And then she showed up by herself. And then I was like, "What the ████ happened there?" And I asked her, and she's like, "Oh, he just like got back with his ex." >> Woah. >> And he was like so sad, like really sad. And I felt bad, and I was like, "Damn, man, I'm sorry about that. That sucks." And then I was like, "You How about afterwards like you go get ice cream or some s███?" >> Damn, pity date. >> I just made that up cuz I thought it was cuz I've always had fun with her. I'm like, "Oh, why not? Let's just go do that." Funny thing is I actually had a different date that night, and I just had that date go hang out with like I don't know everyone's going out after you should go. And like she like went and did that, and then me and smack went to ████ Thrifty's. >> Sick. >> So, you were just trying to find a way to like cheer her up or something. >> Yeah, cuz I just felt so sad.
1:41 >> the other girl out of his life. >> Yeah, yeah, yeah. >> Yeah, she's always been like so dope. And then uh >> You prioritized her. >> Yeah, and then that girl went and partied more, and then me and smack went to Thrifty's, and then afterwards we were just hanging out in my room for like like the whole night, and nothing happened. And then And wasn't until like maybe like uh a week or two weeks or something of like we were just chilling a lot. And then um we were just like in my bed talking. >> You're just in your bed platonically. >> Yeah, sure. >> You're just butt naked in >> Under the covers. >> Hey, let's just talk. >> I didn't know I didn't >> We were just penetrated. >> See, this is the reason Steve always makes fun of me why I always try to define the parameters. Because obviously my definition of platonic is different than Ryan's definition of platonic. I've never platonically laid in the bed with the chick. >> textually, but if if he's always No, we're not we're not platonic I'm not saying platonically. We're like will
2:31 they won't they Ying at this point. We're not I'm not like oh, we're friends we have there's a barrier. >> already getting fuzzy. >> Yeah, yeah, absolutely. From the day from the day we >> Was it already fuzzy when she had a boyfriend? >> No, I didn't even know her like that. >> Well, was was the fuzziness did it start when you took her to the Thrifty? >> When did it get physical? >> Started the night after that once we like said bye, I was like that was really nice. And then every time we hung out after that, it was like a static. You know what I mean? It was like there was like a there was like a chemistry and then once we were like you know, she was always at the house and then um >> That's a fun phase to be in though. >> Yeah, that yeah, which is I love that phase so much. >> Like how are we supposed to touch? >> Yeah, yeah, yeah. We had never done anything like that. >> good, dude. >> And then we were just in the bed and like talking. I think after like hanging out the whole day and then um and then my our faces were just hella close and
3:22 then she's the one who went in. >> Wow. >> And then I was like >> [laughter] >> Your legs fell off? >> It was it was cool. >> Dude, I still think you made the first move. >> But the ice cream was him. >> That's why I'm saying that's the first >> That's why I'm saying it depends cuz I made the first move into the realm. >> He started the fuzz. >> But she did the first fatality. >> I I I I definitely stand [laughter] by him doing the first move because if he didn't have a date that he shipped off to another group of people, I'd be like oh, you're being a good friend. But he had a date and it was like >> It's deliberate. >> Yeah, that's true. >> You go, you come. >> Although she Although she was cool and she wanted to party more and I was like, "Nah, I'm >> No, no, convenient. >> Yeah, yeah, it worked out really well. We We both got what we wanted. >> [laughter] >> We won, yeah. >> Dude, that that first kiss? >> Yeah, that was ████ fire, yeah. >> So romantic. >> Yeah, it was like the Looney Tunes when you pop
4:12 it pops off, [laughter] the top pops off. Yeah. Yeah, it was nice. >> Feels like a '90s movie. >> Yeah, and then after that it was pretty much >> She's like, "Yeah, 50s ice cream." >> Yeah, what was your If you could take yourself back to that, what was your actual level of surprise when it happened though? Was it like, "Whoa." or was it more like uh >> Yeah, I was I was actually pretty surprised. >> Oh, you didn't see that coming. >> No, I mean I I could see it like I could visualize it, but I was surprised she actually did it. You know what I mean? Because like I thought I was in more control than that. I thought you know like I I don't know, in my stupid man brain I'm just like, "I'll dictate when that happens." >> [laughter] >> And then she just ████ did it, you know? I was like, "Oh, ████ that's tight." You know? Cuz that's a lot that's I think it's still a big risk, you know? >> Yeah, cuz girls are the ones that have the risk where they're like like n- Oh, no, I'm going to come off like a ████ or something.
5:02 >> They'll feel worse if it doesn't go well versus like guys are just >> We're We're used to getting rejected. >> Just move on and you're like, "Whatever." >> wrong when a girl kisses you? >> Some dudes are weird. >> If the guy's gay. >> Yeah, if you're gay. >> And then like, "Stop, WE'RE WE'RE FRIENDS." >> [laughter] >> "I'M NOT READY." >> YEAH, it could go bad. >> Well, I mean the risk if you're like 3 years deep in a friendship, like that feels like a lot of risk. >> But they they must have been flirty flirty for her to feel comfortable to be like >> He's not my gay friend. >> Dude, if she's like all the signs are like I'm on his bed, we've been ████ >> No way, dude. >> That means she was like >> We never touched. >> I don't understand why we don't kiss, we just ████ >> No way, that's yeah, it's it definitely was like a I wasn't like I don't think I was I stopped talking to
5:53 other girls at at that point when that happened. >> [snorts] >> And what once we like hung out and did the ice cream thing, then I I kind of was all about that. >> Was it immediately like exclusive? >> No, it wasn't. No. >> Was it Was there a definitive moment? I I find these moments so interesting when you're an adult already. You know, when you're in high school, you're like, "We got to make it official." There's like there's this clear like understanding, but I feel with adults you just phase into it. >> Yeah, cuz it's your rules now. There's no like, "Oh, set societal thing." It's like, "What are you going to make of it?" >> Yeah. >> Yeah, cuz you remember like you were around during that time the house was just full of people and girls every single night. >> every night. >> night. So then I And she was there, too. So she would always make fun of me and be like, "I just saw like people like they were waiting in line outside your door." And I was like >> That's true. >> like roast me all the time about that ████ >> Cuz they wanted next on Street Fighter,
6:43 though. [laughter] >> And then uh Yeah, but it wasn't it wasn't to ████ It was really just to like >> play video games. >> My room was almost like a almost like the VIP of the house. Cuz only our only our close friends could come in there. So people that we didn't really know were like, "What's that? What >> And y'all should know Ryan Styles, so it was like a decked out room, hell of themes and stuff, you know. >> Yeah, and you could see it from the outside, so people were like, "What the ████ is that?" But then um so like she would always make fun of me about that. And then when when we first like initiated that physicality, when she did that made that move, I was like still in my ████ adult brain and I was like telling her like, "Hey, you know, just um um I just so you know, I am going to be dating like people and stuff. I'm not trying to be exclusive." And she was like, "All right, so? Well, I'm not." She's like, "Go ahead. Do Do what you want." And then that's when I was like, "PLEASE DON'T LEAVE ME."
7:33 >> [laughter] >> THAT'S HOW YOU KNOW, THOUGH. THAT'S HOW YOU KNOW. >> I was just using you for your lips. >> Cuz then it made you feel like a scumbag, huh? >> Exactly. Well, I just tried to like pull that ████ like like I got options, you know, like cuz I'm ████ stupid. >> Tie move though. Tie move. >> No one had ever hit me like I guess I counter-attacked with like who the ████ do you think you are? Like I'm not automatically trying to serve you. And then I was like I felt like damn, dude. That's like >> That's awesome. >> I could lose this one, you know what I mean? Like I could really lose a good one just by ████ >> saying dumb ████ >> Yeah, exactly. So then from there I was >> like ████ man. I'm sorry. >> [laughter] >> I'll behave. >> Do we just get married now? >> Delete all contacts but you. Yeah, I know. It was It was a harsh reality check, yeah. >> How long were you guys dating? >> Like before uh before we like got
8:24 official official? >> Sure, yeah, yeah, yeah. >> Oh man, it was a while. >> Yeah, the fuzz time. How long was the fuzziness? >> Several months. I can't even >> And did did you actually like go out on dates with other girls like prospects and stuff? >> Nah, after once we were like uh well, I mean, I still hung out with people. I didn't like I didn't have sex with anybody or nothing like that. But it was like a slow like I had to slow remove myself from situationships, you know. >> Do you guys have a official date? I mean, like additional like official like this is when we got together. >> Is there dating anniversary? >> Yeah, it was um when we officially got together was August 2nd, yeah. >> Was it the day you guys kissed or no? Was it like another >> No, it wasn't that day, no. >> Why did that day become official? What did What did you guys do? What What moves did she make? >> No, that's >> He did the special mix the radio. >> Oh, that was the radio one. >> That's how I did the radio thing with >> He actually asked her to be his girl. >> Yeah. >> Oh, yeah. Oh, no.
9:15 >> full episode. >> On Mulholland on the actual like pass, yeah. On the way to Duke's. >> What do you guys uh celebrate as your anniversary? You guys celebrate that day or then your wedding day? >> Well, it hasn't had a We haven't had a year yet since the wedding, so. >> What do you guys think you will celebrate? >> Probably the wedding day after from now on, yeah. >> That's very special. And it's >> Don't you share with your birthday or something? It's like the day after, yeah. >> [laughter] >> You get a birthday party and a wedding, dang. >> [laughter] >> But yeah, basically she made all the all the earlier important moves. >> Then now you got now you got your dating anniversary, you got your actual wedding anniversary with your birthday, now you got your kids birthday coming, you're going to just be planning ████ celebrations all year. >> Cool, man. This will be fun. >> It's all I do, it sucks. >> [laughter] >> Does it suck? How come it sucks? I thought you love
10:05 celebrations. >> Yeah, dude. >> There was there was a period of time though where >> They just can't be at Sapphire, that's why. >> [laughter] >> We have to be kid-friendly now. >> What do you do with all those points then? >> [laughter] >> You get They're transferable. >> Baby shower at Sapphire. >> all these meal tokens from there. >> [laughter] >> There was a point where uh going into going into like Christmas, goes into my me and Nina's dating anniversary was New Year's, which goes into New Year's, and then her birthday is like January 28th, which goes right into Valentine's, the February 14th, so I remember just being like this part of the year is insane, trying to like reinvent yourself over and over romantically. Cuz you got to try to outdo each one or something. Yeah, so then you start like doing things to space things out. You're like, "Oh, I should get this." Like, "No, that'll be better for this thing." Oh, now I just bought it 3 months in advance, and then you're just ████ weird. >> Yeah. >> And there's not enough There's not enough cards to write where you're like
10:56 trying to say something different. So then I got really bad and I didn't write cards and it was the worst and I didn't realize for a long time that that was her favorite part of the gift. >> Duh. >> Claude writes some dope ████ >> [laughter] >> YOU COULD TELL WITH THE LONG dashes and ████ >> Anthony only whispers to Claude. >> knows knows you more than anybody. He could probably act like you so easily. >> Shh, don't out me guys, don't out me. >> Hey, you should make a dating coach [laughter] agent. >> They already make those. It's It's ████ hilarious. >> Would you be disturbed if you and Nina were getting down one night and then she just goes, "Claude!" >> End the video. End the video. >> On accident, on accident. >> Oh, Claude. So, chat GPT. >> [laughter]
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