0:00 when it comes to meeting girls the hardest part is the meeting part and then when a guy kind of like looks at your ex as being in the zone of someone they can date then you've by proxy helped them get through the meeting phase and she trusts him through you you just screened her for him it's like she would have never talked to this guy if it wasn't for you like you didn't do any of the hardest work which is to become trustworthy you did it yeah I did it yeah you should take a percentage yeah commission every 10 hand jobs I get one from the guy yeah what if your friend wants to date your ex please take them away that's your
0:51 that's how you feel about it well I don't think I've had really bad like I guess one just one but other than that I would I'm on pretty good terms with all my ex oh okay but then so the fact that you're on good terms with your ex is the determining factor of whether or not you're comfortable with a friend dating them well cuz if I'm already not with them they've been trash bro they've been done let's say let's say Anthony let's say Anthony was like yo I want to I want to uh I've been talking to this chick can can can can we start going out how do you feel about it I think it depends on how fresh the breakup was cuz it's like dude come on man I will this only been 24 hours that
1:41 means you've been not the same that's like you've been on the ████ prow You' been like that's that tells me more about like you've been on the sidelines waiting to ████ vulture in yeah but if it's um a situation where actually I think Bart is like had this situation where where Bart and GI were we're all a group one group oh that's right we're one group and then after um you know they found you know they got attracted to each other all that stuff but we were all friends so I can't if she was a part of the friend group and they have their own kind of friendship right then it's like that off liit stuff is kind of weird to me cuz it's like you don't want her anymore then or it didn't work out between you two maybe you are simp and you want to win her back but she does doesn't want you back yeah
2:32 so why prevent that from your friend what if it's like I know that there's cases where um like a friend is dating an ex that you've had but they weren't around when you dated that person so there's no connection but what if it's a friend who was there while you were dating that ex and was just kind kind of knows her too and then you know much later it's bad taste yeah I don't I don't like that has it happened to you before not to me but oh actually I've I've seen it happen uh in like my group of friends and I I just thought it was weird like it's bad it's a bad form huh yeah there so many people in the world is just like you have to pick that person I mean but they they're still homies though so I guess it's whatever but for me no I wouldn't have liked it you know what's funny there was this big Arcadia friend group it's funny cuz like oh you know Arcadia now huh well they all went to Arcadia High and this friend
3:24 group was like 40 deep it was huge it was a huge friend group right and every time they went to Vegas they would have like Suites like multiple rooms big old parties everywhere they were they are the party right and they they just keep growing this big friend group and because of how many people were in their group they would all just date each other yeah and then the funny thing is like I'm like you know this would never fly in Montery Park yeah we have different these Arcadia kids man they all just date each other this is so weird it's also like royalty where like they're the hierarchy the highest in the arcade think so like they can't date lower than themselves they can't date the lower so like they're just cuz I knew that group through Joe Joe would bring me around sometimes and then it oh like that person with that person and then the next time I come around I'm like all right let's TR together right like no no no now that person's with that person but they're all friends they
4:15 all stayed friends that's weird that's interesting you Arcadia kids well I was going to say I know one case but it's more like it's like mostly um a guy group and then like one female friend has dated multiple of them oh that's weird that's homie hopper yeah yeah that's weird one girl with a 10 guy group no maybe not all 10 imagine being the last guy of the group yeah is he the winner or the loser yeah what do you think of that if a friend of yours was like is it okay if I start dating this guy that you were with and we were all friends together at one point I think now I wouldn't think that's weird I'd be like go for it but I think back that would have been really weird I wouldn't have been into that cuz that's that's weird too for us to sit next to and be like yeah we we both like
5:07 have been with this guy like that's so awkward do you guys not think that's weird well also how close are you still hanging out with this friend every like on a frequent basis like you would see them on a regular basis it's like one of your main friends yeah yeah that's that means you can't actually let go of her cuz she's going to be around yeah it kind of brings things back yeah if anything it's more that why you so nice to him so mean to me oh yeah oh you didn't do that for me for me it's less of like you dating him it's more like if you guys have issues and you want to talk about it like I already don't want to talk to this guy or hear about him so it has less to do with like oh you getting with him but more like I don't want to it's a part of your life like I already got rid of him like I already deleted that email why does it keep coming back it's basically you doing that and the ball comes back and it's like you
5:59 don't even get the added benefits of a relationship right it's just like you only get the H if you're if yeah if your friend's like man especially if they're like did he ever was he ever like this with you that just makes it like that's a weird question yeah I think um if I knew there were like good folks and I was completely over her and then I was like yeah you guys actually might work out I'd be totally cool with it because let's say you could love someone that's your ex right oh yeah and you're completely over her but you're still you still want the best for her like you want her to do well whatever and you're never going to touch her ever again but if you think someone else like that that's like one of your friends would take care of her well I think that's actually a better choice than a complete stranger that
6:50 might ████ over cuz you don't know who this guy is but you're kind of yeah and how close is the guy to you I think that's another thing too yeah yeah yeah but that's kind that means like still care for which is a healthy way it's like you still care about the person you with and spent time with so you wish the best for them and you can help in any way whereas like I don't know if it didn't end well you're like why is she still around and like it's it's kind of different for guys too I think because when it comes to meeting girls the hardest part is the meeting part and then when a guy kind of like looks at your ex as being in the zone of someone they can date then you've by proxy helped them get through the meeting phase and she trusts him through you and I think that
7:40 part bothers me that it's like oh no I didn't I didn't mean to be the the person that that like you just screened her for him yeah exactly it's like she would have never talked to this guy if it wasn't for you like you didn't do any of the hardest work which is to become trustworthy you did it yeah I did it yeah because it's like through me you should take a percent AG yeah commission every 10 hand jobs I get one from the guy yeah like I'm here I'm here for the commission what do you think is harder to navigate um one of your friends dating your ex or one of your friends dating her sister oo I i' I've thought about that I don't even know what that's like for I would love anybody to date my sister that would be cool just anybody yeah that would did that ever make it go oh
8:31 we could be brothers that's Co no I've just never I've never had a relationship with my sister to where like I knew who she was dating so if I did I think that'd be pretty cool dude I forgot you had a sister exactly yeah like people always forget that I even have a sister cuz we're so distant but then like if that would bring us closer in the way that like I know who she's dating that would be like a welcome thing oh cool yeah so I would be like oh that's so cool bring the family together yeah I wouldn't be like tossing and turning thinking of them having sex or anything that wouldn't be like awake at night like but let's say you had a friend and he was Notorious being a dog don't even try you've tored together you've shared rooms and you hear in the room the craziest sounds you've ever heard and then he's with your sister
9:21 then would you be like oh I just bringing the family together I don't man if my sister's falling for something that basic then I would just be like you needed to in order to like figure that out to the next step yeah because that's a d like I mean every girl's got to kind of get duped once I think is that true you know what I mean like and you learn yeah you like speed learn that when it hurts and it's like if she hasn't gone through that that's probably why she's entertaining it cuz she just hasn't seen it yet so like hey welcome to the world like this happens you know I actually just went through this scenario um my my friend who was my bridesmaid um just married my little brother what that's crazy did they meet through you or they met at my wedding wow no way are you like where she was with her ex like
10:11 her ex is in my videos like my wedding videos so before that they never met she never met your brother no cuz my brother was abroad like he um he went to UC Santa Barbara and then he went to San Fran you see San Fran wait what yeah you see s you San Francisco he was in San Francisco and then he went to like China for a couple years so he was he wasn't always home oh yeah so they never met until my wedding and then um they hit it off there yeah so do you get a percentage for life now huh huh you get a percentage for life I I I don't want the well you could cash it in if you want who who's who's the one that pays you really the bridesma theice no one pays no one pays no payment no payment so how are they now are they like like it off they're pretty cool or I mean
11:01 they're married got married yeah they just got married so it started off really weird I was pissed at first I was very weirded out at first we weren't good for a while um and then eventually you why why were you pissed was it just hard to process and then she went is there an age Gap so yes I feel like she's maybe a year or two older than him oh that's cougar he's 5 years younger than me so I never thought this whatever happened but she's also younger than me you're protective of your little brother it's how it came out it was out of I think it was the respect and we're good we're good now and I love her I love them together we're hiding it so he actually came to me we had gone to Disneyland together like the I think it was like the six six of us my husband and my sister and her boyfriend um and
11:55 it a triple date yeah it was kind of a triple date but I didn't mean for it to it was like maybe 2 months after the wedding so they had already met and then my brother came to me after that day and he was like hey is it okay if I take Camille out on a date and I was like wow that's ████ weird but I'm so glad that you asked me like thank you yes you you can take that's weird that's weird it's very weird but you can do it okay yeah and then she never called me never talked to me about it never anything and we were really close no and then they went out and then and I was like why didn't you call me before cuz that would have made the biggest difference that's a that's what it was because now now that it's all happened it's so cool did she not my brothers with someone and they're so good together they're perfect like I'm so happy and I know that
12:46 they're really good people so I'm really happy about it but how come it was weird for your brother to ask you initially cuz it's my little I always think of him as my little brother so for him to date my friend is weird cuz we have a we're 5 years apart so they're not 5 years apart but my brother and I are 5 years apart so I just never thought this situation would ever come up so that's weird like e you want to date my little brother but like he's a man you know did she know that like e he's like I don't know in fourth grade or something isn't he he's like hella old already did she know though that your brother asked you I don't know cuz I wonder if she didn't she's like let me not like what if the date goes like horribly wrong and they just like never talk about oh like nothing from if she didn't know that your little brother like told you it's like okay well I don't want to tell
13:36 her if like this goes like really bad and we just like never see each other again then it's like that would be more Awkward or what if what if the thought of going against the rules gets her going ew the thrill of being caught by your friend you know what's funny I feel like I don't even know how to respond that's so creepy I feel like that situation was probably way more common than now where like people are meeting online so like people meeting at weddings at like people dated within their community of mutuals that was the highest way of finding someone not like complete strangers half you know way across the world but that's the norm now
14:28 yeah a lot of family people would meet right so you're kind of screened already back in the day where you're like who is this person oh this is so and so you're already in pre-check you're in TSA pre-check preche yeah versus now you're just complete strangers Terror alert orange yeah could be a serial killer could be really it's really scary out there but it goes to show there's a lot of decent cool people cuz you're just dating everyone and complete strangers and mhm yeah and I think now now more than ever it probably makes it weird that someone wants to date your ex that they're so close proximity to when there's access to like like you said there's so many freaking people go on your app there's a million people there just input everything she is and find someone just like that that's true I didn't even think about that there's really no excuse to be like why her when
15:19 you you see what she put me through like yeah you don't you don't see me crying dog you like crying is which one's Camila
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