0:00 pretend ask me if I read a book hey uh what's your favorite book oh I don't read I'm not boring I brought a boom box oh we're oh we're at of dinner yeah we're at dinner do it again what's what's your favorite book subin oh don't do boring stuff my bad anyways what you want to do [Music] tonight welcome to a highly informative uh video by the careful boys today we have R and suben over there we have myself and Colleen over here and then we got my friends Aon and Jess on that side right there yay for the ladies all right let's discuss this uh how do guys and girls benefit from
0:50 pretty privilege pretty privilege oh you heard that term before pretty privilege I have heard that term before cuz I there's a distinct difference I think between the man version and the female version well just the privilege itself I think like what your options are in life what you get away with what people expect of you how people treat you it's all like you know yeah how do you think guys benefit as as men it's pretty men for men yeah pretty gay homosexual men uh I don't know okay how do you think a good-looking guy uh I guess like how how they approach women I guess you can be creepy yeah like if and get away and get away yeah hitting on women and you can have less game cross the yeah less game
1:41 for yeah you don't need to do much but just stand there yeah oh uh job resumés or like hiring process is way quicker with them pretty boys yeah faster if you're a goodlooking guy with I good-looking dude you're consistently booked especially in the Hollywood industry your head not yeah for Hollywood fancy restaurant any job really you're just tall and handsome they just you just book cuz the hiring people are probably just like he's tall and handsome yeah and he has hair lushous hair yeah yeah so I think for guys yeah that I like what you said where it's like guys can get away with having no game yeah that's pretty good I get with crime like Jeffrey dmer like supposed to be attractive and he killed dude or
2:31 whatevers there's this guy named Wade Wilson he like murdered like two women and then but like all these other women see like Muk shot and stuff or like see his court videos and they're like they're like swooning over this dude kind like what happened to Richard Ramirez right it's like Chris Brown Above the Law yeah Chris Brown was a really interesting one because I've always been confused about that do have you seen him perform yeah dude puts on the show he puts on the show he can actually dance he can flip there's a documentary coming out though yeah probably yeah that'll be interesting Chris Brown documentary yeah do you think a History of Violence do you think AR Kelly could make it cuz he wasn't as cool as Chris no I've seen Trapped in the Closet I've seen every single one multiple times AR Kelly has pretty privilege for doing that entire thing and having it still be on the internet yeah Bill Cosby didn't get away with it
3:21 like at the end um because he's not pretty enough I guess and he died right after you got out of jail damn all right I do agree though like guys that I know that are like models they they can say the wrong thing all the time and they just still get the hate just be dumb it's almost better it almost works against them when they talk too much yeah 100% I don't think I know enough men who are that pretty you don't know any like professional I guess beautiful men professionaly my former roommate 67 actor yeah already I will marry him but I don't I don't I don't feel like he's like privileg in any way like I don't yeah I don't know this kind of it's kind of weird I mean I guess when we went to the club all the all the eyesight was like this going right past my head and I think taller dudes I think pretty
4:11 privilege for men is height in a lot of ways true yeah the height will get everyone for that's proven true you can be less attractive and be taller I've noticed and have like more girls chase you it's weird I'm like that guy is kind of jacked looking but like not a good way and he has like cargo shorts and like a hawne shirt yeah still it's like that's okay he's like 65 and he has flipflops on oh God oh God make it stop yeah yeah but he's like so confident because he's never been turned down he got Ross belt he got a Ross belt every time he wants to pick up ████ it's a Ross belt with the tag though it's a Ross belt Ross Dress for Less like come on bro take that ████ off take just don't wear a belt like that a Ross belt would be like a bre well it's like
5:01 if they're tall it's like at eye level yeah that's what I'm saying so let me help you get that Ross I I dated a guy that was like 6'5 and he was just like we ended things cuz he was just quite possibly the most boring person my boring that's what I hear all the time and he said to me I remember one time he's like I don't really get why you're into me cuz you're like you're I'm just so boring I was like wow I didn't actually didn't notice that you're self aware of yeah and I was like oh wow you know what I was actually yeah distracted by your pretty privileged he was really hot and really tall and then I was like you are actually very boring what was like so when when you say a guy like that's boring what makes him boring what's the golfs but doesn't even drink when he golfs um I just nothing in common can't hold a
5:53 conversation and then has to constantly bring up the fact that he's boring is he funny is he like does he make you laugh no not even on accident oh good lord for someone like you that's a death sentence cuz you can already laugh at for a while I felt I was being really mean to him I was and I was just like I can't yeah my mom actually told me that um after I brought him as a date to a wedding before and she said that I should I'm not allowed to bring wedding dates anymore because I was just ignoring him the whole time and I was just I was like he's fine so you got banned from bringing wedding days cuz of him being bored you are banned for bringing the wackest dude on Earth I know didn't didn't you weren't you've had a guy that was like you felt wasn't making you laugh like that much I've had
6:44 a few yeah yeah they usually don't cuz isn't that like how do you survive if he's not yeah they don't survive very long you give them the benefit of the doubt you try to like put him in comedy classes oh look what you got for Christmas comedy classes for 3 months he's just yes yes ending like everything oh God that's worse yeah oh my God way worse that is worse I'd rather take a guy who's not funny than the guy who like takes the class and goes I'm funny now yes and I feel like when when a guy's not funny it's because they never or a person when a person doesn't have a sense of humor it's they never had to develop one because theyve never went through like an face my theory is they've never gone through some real ████ in their life because I feel like humor is a coping mechanism yeah you can
7:34 learn it that way too yeah I laugh when I get nervous life experience yeah yeah right that's true very that's true very good point yeah we're all hilarious so so clearly we've but I also can't imagine like I also would like to laugh in my relationship so I can't imagine right it's it's not don't we both want to be laughing we both want to be ENT what does a boring guy want like also like what are you doing does he just want silence does he just want everything quiet boat shoes and you just want somebody around that sounds so boring then get a cat yeah get a cat dude yeah get like cats aren't boring No but somebody around we say cats aren boring get an animal because because cats are like there but like they don't need the attention so you know they'll just be like okay hey yeah yeah I don't know it's like it's it's s█████ too cuz
8:26 a lot of times when the guy's boring he's like really good dude like he's the kind of guy that would like if somebody fell overboard on a ship he'd be like the first one to jump in that water I'm like I person like you don't even know that person what are you doing like that's nice that those people exist but but his jump probably would even be boring probably just be a straight like safe dive down yeah I wouldn't even be like excited or he looks like a real life superhero but I mean also when you're not using a life raft the life raft is also boring but it's just sitting there so it's kind of the same exactly could have done that also what do you do when when like a man's just jumping in swimming after you i' be like I'm okay I can do it myself you you know his personality by swim no I'm good you're too boring fine the breast stroke I'm like I'll save myself thank you but
9:16 you've been on you guys have been on actual boring dates right oh yeah what do you do to get through them like you just smile and make try to make conversation like you know pulling tee eat more don't make yourself less desirable pardon you don't like try to make yourself less desirable cuz I'm not cuz I'm not a I'm not a psychopath like like even if you're boring like you're probably really freaking sweet like she said so like I'm still going to want to like maybe conversate with you it's like you not a dick but so no I'm probably not going to I feel like that is pretty privilege you find out how boring some people are because of pretty privilege CU they nothing else did otherwise it wouldn't get that close to you to show you how boring they are right right the worst thing you can be besides mean is boring and it's just like if you get I'm just Happ to entertain myself but I guess I don't know what would you
10:07 do what would you guys do on a date like that yeah there's nothing to do other than just be polite and go through the date like if it's a dinner situation you go through the dinner and then you part ways it is it is rough I think if get a friend to call you or something and just leave or just leave there's been one time where I I told him hey you seem like a nice guy I'm just not interested I'm going to head out yeah you just keep it super but that's scary sometimes cuz a lot of times they become violent and they're like well ████ you ████ like I didn't think I really like you anyway it's like if you ask me out it's like you're fat it's like what okay I hope you have a great day even better than I realized very quickly that I made the right choice yeah y I think for guys it is pretty difficult when you're when you have a boring date only because you're it it just feels like you're so it feels like
10:58 they don't like you yeah yeah I think when you're the guy like if if a guy's just boring he's just boring but if a girl seems bored you just think she's bored and she's not boring I'm just like damn maybe I'm not maybe I'm not making the Sparks Fly I'm not like it's my fault like cuz usually for guys it feels like it's our dud dog make you got to be the Entertainer guy really cuz I feel like that person really yeah I feel like I'm the ████ Entertainer sometimes not all the that sucks for like yeah that definitely that's not how you should feel yeah I feel like it should be more on the guys should though the guys should be entertaining old school cing rules I just assume that position that like hey let me like Host this moment and it's it's a tough crowd when they're like if it's a boring girl I don't know that she's boring I just know tough crowd I mean I've had people who halfway and I've had people who were entertaining as well but I've also had
11:49 that too yeah and then like like also it's like just cuz the day is boring doesn't mean like you can't be friends after in friend zone that may be platonic to bring this full circle I mean maybe they're boring to you maybe they're not boring to another person you don't have the same interest yeah that's always a funny thought too when you meet somebody that's so boring you know they're going to end up with somebody and it's intriguing to wonder how that's going to work not boring too may I think I think bored I think there's a problem like here's my assessment I think people who are just bored are boring people how can you be bored there's Infinity things don't how if on interest did you come across as bored okay yeah and that can be perceived as you being boring yeah I get that you know like how how people like if you have no hobbies and no
12:39 interests and you're just always bored and you have to tell people you're bored that's like a plague it's like nobody wants to know that you're bored all the time that's that's attention seeking too yeah or depression or it's like being a vegan or being a vegan like I'm bored and I'm a vegan it's like maybe those things have something in common correlation well hey look after my first like date ever I noticed like that you trying to be the host all the time being funny you know what I mean that sometimes can be rough that's why you got to take them to places like a park or something amusement park go courses or something to have fun stuff to do outside of yourself or like an activity I thought you meant like a it's not like you're sitting them down in front of you like for the next 2 hours it's just me baby make a ████ variety chauffer we got magic we I'm like wow
13:29 yeah or something you know what I mean just you know I like Activity Days activity is the best way those are a good way to learn how like they are and that way you can't get bored cuz you're doing activ exactly if they are boring I'll just focus on the activi it cuz then they have to be extra boring yeah exactly right and that takes skill then to not have fun in your activi I think this could be an ick thing like depending on how they handle themselves like in an escape room or something like cuz I've been an escape room where they break things to try and get out or like Halloween where they punch people or something God yeah well it's problem solving you get to see how people problem solve it's like going it's like going on a trip with people you really see them come out and their colors come out cuz like either I'm going to push you off that mountain or like you can survive that's so Neanderthal it just breaking stuff to get out I understand he goes to the door that he got in with
14:20 and just shakes it runs to like the Kool-Aid Man nothing is more attractive than that damn that's yeah I think like if if you or if you took a girl to like you know like the arcade or something like the Japanese arcade or something with all the games are crazy and it's fun and they're all physical like I don't want to do DDR why and everything she just play the gun game and just shoot normally is that the rifle one she's got to go deer hunter deer hunter dude that that game's fun she's not sweating after shooting some of those and like she can go she can go it's also that's more of like an applied attitude too it's like if they're not applying then I would be like is something going on in your life do you not want to have fun yeah I wouldn't I would hate to think it's me but I mean it would probably end there if there's no other answer but also the whole you could just bu a car ride there
15:11 to the event you could test that oh yeah you could test how boring the people are hey I'll pick you up you know the uh the the ████ we're going to you know what I mean you just Havey how do you how can you conversate in the car before even going into dinner was that music too yeah what kind music you want to listen to that's the first test that's the first test one of the what if she's like do you got anything boring I'm going be like hold on just listens to like white noise it comes a serial killer can you tune it right in between the stations and then just turn it up oh I got it N I got an idea what what book do you like to read I don't I don't oh alas Babylon okay wa so if you guys like to
16:02 read books really good it's a story it's like post-apocalyptic but it's about community and now after I read it I was like I need an artisian water supply like all called Al last babon It Was Written in the 50s and it's a story it's like if nuclear fallout happened and like how do you get alerted and then how all these like communities had to like rally together and try and like figure ████ out it's really good see if you can't make a conversation off of that topic you're ████ boring like even if you don't like the topic you can make up something up about that yes I can that's when you can do the yes end yes and talk about Egypt there was a lot of incest like that's low so it's Babylon 5 then babyon St is it bowar Galactica the book that was great guys we just did a great testing skills right there how to
16:54 detect if you're boring that's pretty good how to detect if you're boring that's pretty good and also a lot of people have or whatever so I mean if people have books too it's like they don't always read them so you can be like what's your favorite book of these that you read what was your favorite part about it like oh actually oh you're like quizdom I like holes but I'm tired of digging that's too damn fast somebody's dressed up like that for Halloween the other year I died I would be if if a girl on a date asked me what what my favorite book was I would I wouldn't have an answer I don't you can't list like a comic book even no I would probably I wouldn't be able to name I I haven't completed a single book beginning to end since I was in high school just say one of those yeah just say that or just flip it just what's a book you recommend I haven't
17:45 read I would say exactly the Chrono Trigger strategy guide for Super Nintendo it's amazing the stats just codes and Stu yeah Import Tuner yeah pretend they asked me if I read a book hey uh what's your favorite book oh I don't read I'm not boring I brought a boom box oh we're oh we're out of dinner yeah we're at dinner do it again what's what's your favorite book subin I don't do boring stuff my bad anyways what you want to do tonight you just called her hobby boring dude yeah I know I know that whole thing you that's two character specific it'll never work for me I got I can't that did you just in your spaghetti your spaghetti but like if a guy did that on a date that would kill it it would be a
18:36 home run oh that' be amazing for us no yeah but kill it but some girls are probably like yo ████ crazy guy I can't believe he's not literate how could you predict the answer to what your favorite book would even have in it how would you ever know that that's coming he's like it's actually my you're in for a great night I was just say you after that you're in for an amazing there you go guys there you go ████ yeah that's how you know if you're fun or not yeah that's how you know cuz you're so you're so character specific man that's you can't lose if you're not making noises to answer questions and like what are you doing what are you doing if you're not sound designing your whole experience what are you doing I know why are you here you're unbeatable man why are you here why are you here I think that's what's funny about the privilege aspect is that people with
19:27 PR privilege get so far mhm to to the point where they're like so wrong for the position they're in and then they get capped yeah yeah and they get capped or they get canned yeah and a lot of times and I remember like growing up like there's a lot of like the pretty people in like school would have other people like do their homework for them and everything and then they're just like not doing well later on I'm like how do you know not understand how to do division yeah a victim dude cuz I did well in high school but I never really did my own homework and then I got to college and I was like dude this ████ is same same with me I cheated Through Math in summer school for like two two and a half years in a row and then I I couldn't even test until the math that I passed my yeah my senior year I I that backfires pretty hard it does high school stuff backfires luckily I could say it wasn't due to being pretty was due to being an idiot I just dropped out yeah but you
20:19 got a GED so that's cheating you got cool again yeah you redeemed yourself and that's against the rules damn it
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