0:00 I think we need to bring bullying back a little more you know like during our days if someone was like man how come like they don't just open the door for me someone would just be like Oh I'm sorry I w't say something stupid like that [Music] again in today's episode we're going to talk to roxan about a little something since she's been here for a little bit wow she's uh from Melbourne Australia melbour now yeah M oh yeah M Mel m m when you and smack went to Ay land you guys hung out yeah yeah yeah I hung out with her yeah we went to we went to a cool ass Cafe I miss going to Australia I used to go every year because I'm friends with uh chony oh yeah right dude
0:51 OG so um now that you've been here for a little bit you it's like a a a Looney Tunes Show it looked like a threat like yeah since you've been on the show for a little bit that's what you did you're going to tell us about your experiences in America what the [Music] is since you're attacking us can you give us a question 30 seconds remaining 72 hot dogs and guns unofficially he [Music] this is the largest s of pizza strike to claim it a strike to claim
1:42 [Music] it close but with American dating oh oh American dating American dating what's that like American bodybuilding dating I want American dating bodybuilding it doesn't have to be that but it could be anything cuz like did you did you uh did some swiping you did some little swi yeah I went on I met I went on two dates this trip which isn't a lot ter ████ day T hey wait wait you come here for dating no I was in Hawaii first for my cousin's wedding nice you're in Hawaii I just missed you when she went to J every day oh thank you so much thank you
2:35 so much I was just there too I know it was your birthday and everything yeah David was there yeah I know but I miss you guys my cousin saw you guys but then I already left I left at the birthday at no June B oh did your cousin say hi Oh no she did she took a photo and I was like okay oh and and with David as well David was there oh David's the ideas guy so compar Australia what's American dating like um I mean I didn't have much luck why you have much luck what do you mean you went on two dates yeah I did I mean they were good yeahhuh but then one of them just ghosted oh and then the other one I just didn't Vibe with at all let's start with the didn't and Vibe with guy was that
3:26 one that was that when you were in Vegas yeah that's the that was going to take you to the yeah okay tell us about that how that went um I mean I changed my location on my dating app to Vegas like a month ago so I can start swiping or just like meeting new people um and I'm meeting people just to meet people I'm not like actually hooking up or anything like that I just want to someone show me around or take me to cool places in Vegas yeah that was my mindset um spoke to this guy for about a month maybe bit more um good over text but then we just met up we did go for a drink and just chilled out but then like nothing happened no yeah no chemistry I feel like if you're on a dating app in Honolulu Vegas or La you're just looking
4:17 for some sex it's hard to have a meaningful relation like I try to be really open so on like a prompt on my profile I did write like looking for someone just to like show me around gyms cuz I want still go to gym and everything and hang out and just food places platonic yeah but is your photo like this and ████ you know what you had to do you should have done Henderson not Las Vegas why because sing you're going to you're going to go to more of the like guys that aren't there to hook up with tourist girls okay oh that's true the I was on the what do you like um what what's your type like you like Fitness guys you like Asian import racing guys you like Fitness white guys Fitness white guys I have a friend I
5:07 have a friend who um he's a bodybuilder could be Europeans just white I guess so you like white Fitness guys yes so then you got to go to um gym Friend Finder yeah that's a thing yeah nah it's going to be it's going to be a startup that's what he's doing a start up you got to go to bodybuilding do and start reaching out the message Awards honestly if there's a fitness dating app I actually feel like pop I'm surprised they don't have one they don't have one there's got to be one Asian ones there are um East meet East yeah oh yeah Asian da like there Asian ones yeah yeah but I think if there's a fitness one there so many people into fitness and the whole lifestyle of Fitness cuz what if you want like there's Fitness singles.com the number one athletic wack though that sounds wack
5:57 wait so with this guy that it wasn't vibing with what was off were his conversational like skills was no no we were talking but it just I don't know I can't explain it you just know you're not really vibing where it's like we had a good time yeah was it I'm not going to see I'm not really yeah I'm not going to see you again tomorrow there's nothing wrong with it there was nothing wrong with him he was really nice good looking tall whatever what was his stats was he a white guy white guy was in the Army I believe oh cool body no powerlifter to bodybuilding now oh sweet feel like that wrong dang so she doesn't have a good idea of American dating cuz her sample size is small no the other one was worse why was it worse there was one in la la is tough how did that go it was before I saw it I think it was a few days before I saw you so I was alone in La um for a
6:51 bit swiped with this guy it was the timelines all over the place I saw him a few times and it was going really really well and he used to someone that was in Melbourne as well so he did long distance whatever and I'm like okay we're vibing we're we saw each other and then saw each other again the next day and then like we plan to um do more things before I fly out to Vegas yeah so I went to see a metal band sorder to Prevail on my own that was my original plan anyway cuz I love it and then because I'm going alone he was like I'm going to come with you so got a ticket everything he messaged me um so this would have been the Third day I would have seen him messaged um me like an hour before he's going to pick me up saying hey I'm going to like pick you up whatever he never came oh maybe he got in a car accident and died that's what I
7:43 thought that's crazy no so day after I I was like ████ it whatever I didn't care cuz I was going to go alone anyway so I took the Uber there whatever I did my own thing doesn't matter um then I did message him cuz I was like okay I'm going to give benefit of the doubt like maybe something bad actually happened in case may he's dead hopefully lost his l or something or both or wish he ████ did now but no he pretty much just messaged back saying hey like I had a really full- on day I'm so sorry that I was out of character like I'm truly truly sorry that's ████ for me I know that's ████ ████ like I've been single enough maybe maybe he thought standing you up was the most metal thing he could do damn how romantic not even his type of music literally got the ticket paid like I'm going to come with you even more romantic he like dropped me off at my
8:34 Airbnb and everything and like he was being such a man carrying my luggage cool he opened like the car door like the most basic basic but no slam itous guys in Australia don't do that that's run I think guys here don't do that either yeah but he was like he didn't let me like touch the car door he'll open it he'll do everything took my luggage in he checked my to make sure it's all good are American guys more sh sh is though or is it just out it seems to be at the startop and then oh and then big drop off huh did he check your Airbnb specifically checking the bedroom and stuff and trying to give some hints no what is that unfortunately he sat on the bed and was like this is a nice bed that that's pretty funny were sleep very bouncy surpris cuz he he like um he check the fridge the bathroom you open like the cupboards just to make
9:25 sure everything looks there's no ████ hiding in there there before he left wow did you find if anything was missing when he left nothing your passport your passport is gone that guy's weird he like invested so much go on that's what I'm saying you ████ boys that's what ████ boy is doing I've gone through so many of them heed he just level he wanted to get to a certain level from what I know he's not that busy but did he hint that he wanted to take it to a certain level or is he just like after cabinets no other moves who the ████ is like yeah let me go in here check these cabinets and stuff let me let's just say I stayed at ke the night before oh you did yeah so oh and that was the last night that you guys were together no she's saying that he hit it and quit it that's what she saying oh we
10:16 still together next day code breeder good job yeah no we're still together next day then he did all that stuff and he took me to his friends Shabu Shabu plays his friend came and picked up picked us up and went to the gym did he lay down cousin was there and like he held my hand in front of them all like wow she's like oh you like ghost you're like being introduced to the family and ████ that's crazy maybe he's just La bipolar yeah yeah la bipolar I've heard of that like my friends have been to La that like they've had the same thing happen to them really yeah la sucks well I mean like everyone has a girlfriend every month in La too so he might have a wife and kids how does it differ from like uh oh okay how does different from dating in Australia is this experience like so same but not so like zero to ████ 100 oh so it's kind of like a
11:06 compacted version 4 100 to ████ zero right like I wasn't looking to date anyway it's not like it's like why you even set it up like that like it could have been even more chill why make it too romantic and then drop off like we clearly vibed had fun conversation flow like this like it was funny went to gym together I went to eat and hung out like I'm not looking for a husband like you know like maybe that's what he wanted maybe he wanted to marry you we made it very clear like clearly guys say that ████ all the time he wanted to marry cuz in their head he's probably like yeah I could ████ change her mind you know are you are you just looking for friends I was while I was here but now I'm like whatever how many more days are you going to be out here for I'm flying out tonight I think you I've been here for like 4 weeks he knows a lot of Fitness guys maybe you get one more day weeks a long time I've been here since
11:56 yeah well like Hawaii first but then yeah oh yeah do you see the difference in the different states yes yeah very different huh you do you see the difference between here and San Diego yes yes even that's probably like a start even just driving there the scenery changes there's more Greenery down there like it is a bit different where where have you been and then can you rank those cities in terms of uh just either Vibe or people that you I feel like I've just been going to like really high tourist spots that's okay what's your favorite High tourist spot that you've been to so far great question Nick I think Wy yeah I would say that's probably really fun W was really fun I was with my family and friends too like was my cousin's wedding so like I love every bit of it and how long were you out there like a week and a half and you didn't get to date anybody there no swipes in I wasn't
12:46 swiping in Hawaii no Hawaii swipes okay I wasn't there's a lot of Fitness people there oh yeah everybody's super it's a very fit place you're either extremely obese or really fake but a lot of whites though not a lot of whites yeah they're still there depending on where you go don't even worry about R the cities it's not even you can just glaze over what he is is the is the dating culture in Australia in here different you feel like is it like are people more like sexually open or more open to like casual dating over there or you think it's more of still here I I don't think I've dated enough here to really to know so far it's the same ████ it's like the work thing as well like there's a lot of guys now in Melbourne that becoming more feminine and they're open about it and blood emotions like there's no masculine guys at all terrible yeah
13:37 there's no masculine God like I've been told by guys on dating apps to like calm down calm down calm down cuz I talk like this yeah and they think I'm too manly I'm too masculine I'm too overpowering or like um my jokes are too much or you know my memes are a meme page like ████ she's a good meme curator ████ up ████ um some guys think it's too much Dam did you call him a little ████ ████ I just I just got him I don't know man that's weird I'm kind of glad that well for one I'm like I'm really glad that I'm not a part of that anymore cuz it's such the dating world yeah but then I look at the competition and I will I'll ████ clean up dude it's going to be so easy ████ prove it dude clean up right now yeah it does seem like the simple things are missing so it's a pretty easy I kind of feel
14:27 like girls now are like so ████ thirsty for like getting that getting hit on and like they don't get that anymore like they're like way more forward I feel like than our generation they get bored cuz like every guy I got guys in my not saying I'm the prettiest person but there are guys my DM's calling me like really pretty Gorgeous I'll take you out ding you whatever um and a lot of girls get used to it so they're looking for the next compliment the next one up to feel even better I want to feel even better so people like fish for it yeah yeah but then guys are now stepping back I only know like 10 vocabulary words guys step back and they're like well like why can't they open the door for me like why like oh I've got I've seen stuff wow guys have put on their
15:17 profiles on their dating apps like is that pretty attractive to you ████ no so I'm old school with dating and I'm at that point where like I'm 30 next year and if I don't get a partner or can start a family like I've already told myself like it is what it is I am content with being single and like not having kids if that's what's going to be because I'm not going to lower my standards now and change who I am like this is who I am you're going to get this that's what I hear from a lot of women like in their 30s and early like late 20s right now is that the Quality quality of guys out there are um a lot different and they're like not um taking the lead in a lot of ways or just there's no I pure effort there there's like a lack of effort or whatever it is and then the guys that can get women they're like there's like multiple women just throwing themselves at them so it's
16:08 dispensable they'll like well I can ████ you I can ████ you I don't care cuz it's so easy to just swipe like Instagram is the dating app practically yeah everything's a dating app what's not everything is a dating I think we need to bring bullying back a little more ████ you know like during our days if someone is like man how come like they don't just open the door for me oh dude someone would just be like Oh I'm sorry I won't say something stupid like that again oh ████ I was wrong I can't believe I said that it's it's ████ true yeah I guess so and I think about like my best friend's son who just turned one and about even I think about he future literally I'm like ████ man like the dating world now you're really able to entertain and marinate and stupid thought whereas before it would get corrected Marin it you correct it right away you could justify you find
16:59 someone would sock you before you acted all those things that's true or they call you a mean word they go I won't say that again you know they call you FW or RW or something well well golly Nick I didn't know that offended you sorry I'll just keep my mouth shut yeah bullying is the antidote to a lot of things that go overboard I hate to say it but it's true cuz I got bullied into being a little bit more of a decent person I think so too I could bully so hard face to face bullying can't be online bullying no has to be real bul bullings even real bullying yeah real it be cheating that's cheating that's not fair it can't be death threats it can't be like death stuff but then just be like a punch in the head it can't be like releasing nudes or anything that's not no like the good oldfashioned good bullying yeah it's good old days like a wedgie or some ████ in front of your friends yeah we
17:49 will like meet you down the station oo that sounds like a date so like we have train station no you don't want to be in D train station we have certain train stations um um that goes like towards the city or whatever and some a lot more dingy than others like if someone says frankon station 12:00 p.m. all oh that's like a fight meet spot yeah like a station like a train station is always fight me or the car park or the school car park car park I remember those days yes I cack cack cack it was always the park for us Park yeah meet you at the park yeah meet you at the recreational center isn't that funny how it's a place where there's children just playing on the monkey bars and you see guys just ████ throwing down that's rough but i' rather that two people just get it on everyone's stepping back no one jumps in and just
18:40 get herone done with that's so true yeah Aloha just squash it cuz yeah and then right when the dude gets knocked down then they stop yeah that's nice and and then they squash their beef they pick the other guy back up like yo man mean I know you didn't mean you seen those clips of Hawaii dudes doing that where they scrap and then one guy's down and then he helps them up and then they hug it out have you seen the ones now was it New York maybe New York there a video of two guys and they're like doing this to each other ████ you ████ white like this on the street two white guys crossing the street just REM bloody ████ you bloody just that that is each yeah but if if right after it one of them like was like ████ and then they hug that'd be kind of sick how do you lose that fight I don't know but they just like walking away from each other just like that's all so when it comes down to
19:30 summing up your American Experience of dating would you recommend it to an Australian friend or you just be like save yourself yeah save yourself no it's no I think it's La probably you probably find a decent guy you did choose hard mode right off Montana San Jose why Alman I'm pretty sure there's some decent like gym guys out in Salt Lake City that you can probably meet you know like mhm I really think it depends you like white guys right yeah Salt Lake City Salt Lake City is like hot white guys Central oh yeah the gym culture there's insane do they like Asians I'm pretty sure they do find a white community that doesn't yeah yeah white dudes love Asians Asian women are like the epitome of their their but they can't get that so then they go second
20:20 best no the reason why I asked is because I've been with like Aussie guys in Melbourne yeah um being with me or them being with me or taking me taking me on a date it's like a once off thing huh for them so it's like experience yeah it's like an experience they felt like they was someone like exotic and then all those seriously no they just like oh my God like I've always had a fantasy about Asians or they've never had Asian girlfriends or whatever so like I was always that kind of like experiment for them to have fun and it's like I dated this girl because all of them now have like white wives white wives or white like farmer girlfriends Farm like I'm talking like Countryside like Aussie like those I you guys call them wab they'll be dating someone like that like that we call them that doesn't even
21:11 brush their hair I'm like it's a big jump like from me to that like tattoos and everything so for them it's like you're really exotic you're like try out once cool down out and settle down because they them in a relationship still messages me Dam I could like I could screenshot and like ████ up their what do they say what do they be what do they say it could be a selfie or whatever or sometimes Snapchat and it'll be like a comment where you should not be saying that if you have a misss like what would they say be like she she don't do things that you do pretty no yeah they've said stuff like that or like just reacting to my selfies like oh you're looking really good you're really hot blah blah blah like how you been I'm like you have a girlfriend they're like yeah you're right sorry are you sure he doesn't sound like that though you don't do
22:02 things that she do please come back she don't even brush her hair
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