0:00 I think I have a fear of quitting things I don't know why really I don't want to start things that I I feel like I won't be able to give time to dude you got to quit the fear of quitting things man shut your ass up [Music] but welcome back to another episode of careful boys today we're going to talk about how much we hate our wives yeah I'll do that one we did that already okay we're going to talk about things that we have learned from each other oh so much okay specific things that we've learned B is the most disciplined motherfcker I've ever met in my entire life I've never yeah I don't even think I'm disciplined dude when I think of discipline I think of this guy me too he's the most scheduled guy you don't think you're disciplined guy who got in the best shape of his life at such a late age guy who eats for for 7 and a half minutes and it's on his schedule
0:51 dude that's pretty good you guys saw me eat aing cheese pizza when it comes in I have like zero but having that balance also anytime cheese pizza shows up you have to that's discipline I learned balance from you as well you're a man of code yeah you learned balance from the nutrition wise cuz oh really yeah absolutely dude this guy knows how to dial it in when it when it matters when it counts and I think that's a cool trait he's very scheduled increase your standards he means well like Jeffrey dmer means well yeah he's like I think I'm doing good things for the for the world he said B it backfires he's like I even made human bone soup that's how not wasteful I am put it in the fridge that's what you're supposed to do he used every part yeah
1:42 he me me so well he's eco-friendly exactly what a bummer I think you have probably a lot of really visible qualities that are good to yeah dude absolutely th% obvious good things you know that's what Jill's mom said too what did she say it's like you know what I learned a lot of discipline like what that's funny you don't see it eating up the Chila Kila she made like the other morning yeah but then I've seen well it's because your standards are high but it's still inspirational for people that can't he eats the chili killes and he's up at 5:30 in the ████ morning the cold working out and then some days volume up when it counts the most some days we're eating ████ Sonora town this guy's microwaving just the whitest chicken breast I've ever seen ketchup washing it of all season yeah this looks good you guys like he's in a Mr Beast
2:33 video that's what I heard that's pretty good man yeah well thank you that counts that matter but he's still doing that Phantom tax on all your chips and ████ yeah but that's you know that's the balance that's what the balance his balance is he's going to schedule out his cheating a fact cuz it's like you know it's even harder to take a bite and then just to leave it I think it's it's also really clear to learn about I guess like financial goals through you without without you purposely teaching it Bart is the most scheduled impulsive guy I know how's that yeah the balance the balance because he does do interesting funny wacky things that are like I know I'm be impulsive next Thursday yeah see he scheduled it he worked it in the for I have to say this too real quick we do a lot of bits about Anthony and like Anthony this Anthony that I do
3:24 want to say genuinely here we go [Laughter] oh bye Steve get the ████ out of here dude what do you think he was going to say Ken I think he was going to say like he really cares about Anthony yeah he was going to say how much he learned how cool the dance Community is through Anthony I don't think he was going to say that dude that's pretty funny if he were to say that that's definitely not something how cool the dance Community is through Anthony what hey Anthony what do you think he would have said about you Ken that was the gayest answer ever dude that's exactly what Steve would say curling 25 that's pretty strong if he's doing that that's not gay D I'm pretty strong curls for the girls you never heard that he's doing 25 lbs anthy what do you think Steve would have said about you about me yeah what he
4:15 learned from learn from you he learned that uh at the end of the day he's so petty that guys like me fuel him to do more because if everybody was just cool all the time and there was no issue he would have no no fire to build off of he needs guys like me I think Steve would have said that he needs me and he'll never admit it on camera cuz he's a ████ oh okay but he needs me and you know what I need him you guys are like Coke and peps you you guys are Coke and Pepsi you need into the gang for sure I ████ need them yeah you it's not a big deal guys you're Sprite in seven up plus we're the only guys that drink together so if I wasn't here yep who would he drink with be so bored all the time yeah he was sad got nobody to rip on yeah he doesn't
5:05 like when you're not here nobody to drink with nobody to ████ dive into crypto with and lose money with all the time cuz definitely if there's one thing I've learned from Steve straight up actual even though this sounds like a joke I will survive no matter how much money I lose wow that's cool that's actually a really big one how come cuz I've only lost money with Steve and he's still here insurmountable including even this run right now I was like I was like Dude crypto's down are you making the same trades as he is yeah I'm only doing them because of him cuz isn't he up all the time dude literally koogi is dying so hard right now everything's down right now I asked him I was like you want to do an OTR about crypto he's like no no no no dude it hurts too bad it's bad luck oh okay so you won't talk about it because at the end of the day but it's not realized losses if you don't sell true I'll tell
5:55 you what it feels like losses I know what you mean yeah but it's okay because we're in it together right Joe that's nice yeah you know something I learned about from you what which is you're going to hate uh I think Nick is a really good example of like someone who's truly actually humble what the you know what I mean he's so humble that he hates attention well cuz you know some people are like they're trying to be humble to like not be cocky I think that's what it looks like when someone really is act act not humble go I don't know D I was wearing a gold chain earlier can I tell you something st's watch can I tell you something to piggy back off that to make you feel really uncomfortable yeah so I know what you're talking about cuz the first and foremost thing he can
6:47 whoop everyone of our asses dude what the why do you always lead with that he tried to kick his ass it didn't work but but but but wait a second but you never ever feel that ever you never feel threatened ever and then also on top of that on top of that the other thing that I learned from him is um I like even though I feel like for Nick his view of himself he has a lot of noise in his head right he's like ████ I like I get in my own way I have anxiety I'm thinking about this whatever is that what you sound like no all the time but on the outside what I see him accomplish it's like uh like him getting like like a black belt for example him building his gym business all that stuff yeah as much noise as he encounters he will start something and finish it and that's
7:37 something I've had a hard time doing for a long long long long long long time but for him he's like if I cuz I'm like a white belt in 20 things for him he's like I start I finish I start I finish and that's something I really really admire about you you stick it you stick it yeah he got black belt even quit a lot along the way but even like with but you got a black bar that doesn't make any sense with Tiff though right like even with Tiff it's like we started and we're finishing together it's not like try five things he does It's Like A to Z A to Z A to Z and that's very admirable in my opinion that's true thank you I appreciate that he sticks with stuff I think I have a fear of quitting things I don't know why really and I don't want to start things I don't want to start things that I I feel like I won't be able to give time dude you got to quit the fear of quitting things man shut
8:28 your ass up but but honestly like you know what's ████ lame is like you know they they have like motivational quotes anytime the subject is something like that I'm like oh my God that's so true about I need to learn how to let go and try new things and not be worried about you know like all that ████ you know what seemingly shallow what I learned from Nick especially because like I've had the privilege the privilege of going to lionhardt Jiu-Jitsu and training at the gym with them he gives when he gives me pointers on like workout stuff it's seems basic but it's the whole like concept of like you know if uh a dude's hungry if you give him a fish you know he's going to be hungry the next day but if you teach him to fish he'll never be hungry another day in his life type ████ he gives me simple stuff that like changes the way I do things forever and I feel like that's
9:19 how Nick is he's a simple man that gives you forever things so you're never going to go back to the gym cuz you already got all the knowledge right no but the Gym's still like free when I go with him so forever forever knowledge yeah you got the forever knowledge I just like bang for your dude Nick simple but it's a forever thing that's how he is I would I would also like to talk about Nick dude what the ████ go ahead Steve oh yeah so I was at the gym what was it like a month ago I don't remember yeah and like I do like the way you teach as well because like I feel very safe and I feel like you're not going to just punch me in the face even though you've done it maybe once even I ████ yeah dude I'm clenching my fist right now thinking about I'm hard right now thinking about it what up guys thank you for watching us for so long if you like what we do please support our patreon Joe tell them what we have to offer so every week you get two videos one never
10:10 released director's cut and another one too hot for YouTube patreon only every freaking week you get that and you get access to our Discord where you can come chat with us and ask us questions that become episodes here cuz we're going to answer them and we're going to take it seriously and we want to give you the responses that you want so come stay stay connected with us join our patreon click the description below for full details like when he's training it it's very when he turns on his professionalism I really like that cuz here he's he's like a little different you know he's like funny he's like not you know not as professional I ████ around okay yeah and then so but then when you're in the gym it's like oh ████ this is real Nick he's not trying to make me laugh even though you know you you you're just funny either way just cuz I look funny I look like a monkey to you but like I feel like you're like trying to like teach me to like one day
11:00 surpass you type of wow you know what I mean like you're really like important like everything you you're telling me is like very important even though it's like Basics I really like that thank you yeah once again I just like to you know bang for your buck yeah see one so and also too it makes it easier for me to teach cuz I don't have to repeat it again I go okay this is the ████ basis we're not going to talk about that again and then we'll move on you know so you better ████ remember what I told you dude I remember dude it's also cool cuz you have you you know you have a really very great uh ability for attention what the ████ are you talking about you remember a lot of ████ I I honestly feel like I don't you do dude thank what do you just say he said something about [Laughter]
11:53 like like you're really good at remembering like stupid references from stuff like if I made a joke like 2 years ago really like you're still like remembering dumb ████ like it's easy to build Next Level humor with you because you're good at like call backs thank you that's what it's but not only that like I can make a joke about something that I saw in '94 that I don't even know if you saw it I have confidence you're going to know what I'm talking about yeah that's weird I don't know why I think I used to to watch a lot of TV as a kid almost too much that's what it really is so he remembers the oneliner yeah you talk about books I'm like what talking about what book you read those things oh yeah it's it's pretty cool no thank you thank you Ryan who has something else they learned about someone think you can that's not the promt who has something else say learn
12:43 about is that what I thought it was I think the prop was yeah what did you learn from yeah it is it is it is I was just trying to ████ with yeah yeah when I I was like ████ you've known you've known Joe a really long time I think I've talked about it before but I learned uh a lot about um being open-minded in terms of like this is what you can do when you start reading books about like Japan no like mostly mostly about like finances in a way where like how do you how do you think differently than how you're thinking right now because I used to think about like oh all I got to do is get a job and just do the same thing for the rest of my life and I'll just make money and whatever but then he showed me like a
13:34 couple of books where it was like oh no actually you could do this this and that and I'm like from then on it just like snowballed and I started reading other books and other books and it just like basically changed the way I think about stuff so that that's what that's huge yeah super huge did did he play a pretty good role in like you becoming an entrepreneur with your own life yeah because well we had a lot of conversations about this because I was still dancing a lot at the time and I didn't know if I should go back to school or whatever weren't you like 20 I was like 21 or something like that you were pretty young at yeah and then we had this talk I remember we were in like the kitchen or something and you were talking about how like yeah like we're just kind of doing this YouTube thing because it just kind of took off and so we're not really doing the traditional like get a job or anything either so I was like okay cool I have somebody to look up to in that regard so I was like
14:25 okay ████ it I'm just going to keep pursuing dance and the entertainment stuff so that's literally why I just kept pushing for that and never went back to like just getting a normal job but yeah now you're giving people normal jobs for real you got your own business yeah yeah you know you know want my favorite thing that I probably learned from Joe is uh you can literally do anything you want in life and this ████ does anything he wants for real for real anything without compromising your code you know what I mean b code like Joe's got a Cod got a code and he can he can work with anyone anywhere at any time doing anything and not compromise his code and
15:16 that's like ████ actually rare for real that's interesting you even think I have a code you know you have a code you can even joke about not having a code that's part of the code right there that's the joke about it and still stick to it that's crazy what's crazy is so I've known J for a long time that code has also existed far before any of the whole JK stuff so like I've seen Joe be the exact same person with like hardcore thugs but also in that world wannabes are like ████ right no one wants to hang out with them but then not everyone's a ████ gangster and Joe will still be himself and just as like in any other group in circle we ever crossed paths with and he's always been who he is and he can get along with anyone without sacrificing his code which pretty crazy I'm not a cold
16:08 switching ████ you know just cuz a bunch of black people's around me I'm not like yo yo homie yo you did though it' be way cooler that' be kind of sick Urban Joe Urban Joe no what I'm saying brother you guys know what I'm talking about yeah yeah yeah yeah I agree for sure yeah for show I don't know what this code is but okay yeah that is true I think you are really good example of like someone that's happy to be honest mhm oh really I think so that's interesting yeah dude I am well I think I'm a normal human being and I experience you think you're a normal human well I experience normal human emotions of like depression and sadness
16:58 and Mis misy and pain and suffering and it goes up and down but do you think you're human though cuz this morning when I pulled up I saw you next to the dumpster going like this the he's getting his Vitamin D I think next to the dumpster like your Japanese ancestors picking rice fields and then stopping for the wi my my uncles do that they do that all the time I think I am what humans wish they had is the lack of inhibitions but they are worried of how they're judged and looked upon and for me I'm more like I act it to me it's like having tourettes if I don't express and do it I feel anxious and weird yeah but also don't care about like a I just feel like a lot of this stuff it's going to people are going to die and forget no one's going to remember you and so like
17:48 a lot of the things that people put so much weight on I think that's delusional and crazy cuz that is the definition of delusion is you're afraid of things that don't even exist but in your imagination you think someone's judging you someone's talking ████ someone's doing this but it's all in your head and I'm like why is what I do not crazy but that's crazy you know and that's not crazy I don't know dude I think that's why we get along because I think the same thing too A lot of people but you probably just don't express crazy ████ like I do so you're just like chill me me like expressing myself is through my arts and like just through my like weirdness but um I do see that pattern in most people where they like create this fantasy world in their head but the reality is like you could do whatever you want like you don't have to stick to the rules that people just made up yeah
18:40 so yeah yeah well what did you learn Ryan I didn't hear ████ from you yeah ████ from you yeah talk to him like that can come in in Hot D can he don't care man he has no shame I hear ████ from you hey shove a little hey take his hat off and throw on the floor coming in I got smoked man what the ████ do you have to say what have you learned about what have you learned from Ryan C oh me yeah I learned I learned about Community from Ryan no one builds Community more than Ryan dude that's insane I learned the importance of just treating people as human beings true matter like how
19:30 strange they may be if you're in like a group setting everyone just be cool and then that's how you start your little you know and you interact with people I really like that that you do that that that's what I learned Ryan's very thoughtful I think I remember one time we were after a shoot with barbell and then we kind of use the front office as our home base like the front office of the gym even though like like kind of like Barra like ████ corporate or whatever is separate from the gym but we're all hanging out there and then our team went to go eat like the guys like our media team Ryan went up by himself and then uh he order like two more burgers or whatever and I was like I'm Ryan how ordering two more Burgers we finish eating he oh I'm going to grab it for the the gym staff that was there and I was like I think that's my job I didn't think about it until I went home and I
20:20 was like wait I think that's my job in my mind I'm so autistic I was like JY team was not part of shoot only me team was part of shoot you don't get burgers processed well because I'm so like cuz I'm I'm so like you know like I'm in my own head about like things and then the fact that you out of your own money bought Burgers to bring back to the gym just because we're all hanging out together I was like man that's why people like Ryan dude I get burgers yeah I give Burgers I be giving out Burgers CU you think about people the white is dude could talk to anybody and chop it up with anybody body and then just you know build instant yeah build instant Rapport it's pretty crazy cuz you you're also very thoughtful in the way of like you remember a lot about everybody that
21:10 comes through here everybody knows you from something your reputation is also very strong I think wow in the dance Community especially this guy too y i Nam drop this guy everywhere people get creamy and you lose credit right yeah right wait back to Ryan back to Ryan hey you know what's crazy about Ryan though Ryan's one of the only guys that I know in my entire life I mean this who's capable of doing great things who actually gives zero ████ about the credit of it because the joy is doing the thing great he's a true artister Ryan's the True Love of the Game that's one big thing that I I I actually told Hannah that it's it's so funny I don't envy people at all but I do Envy Ryan wa because I think he hates you dude I think well he hates you this is the funny thing is like you this is
22:02 probably not true and I'm making this up but um I imagine you and smack your life is that you guys don't do anything you don't want to do and you per you do art you do creative you execute everything that you want to and I think I appear as that person but I carry on a Iceberg of ████ ████ to execute what I want to execute okay so for me it's like to do what I want to do there's like the it's you only see the tip but then there's all of this ████ work that I don't want to ████ do but I'm doing yeah yeah but in your case it looks like you're doing the bulk of your life is around music it's around art and you're you're living in a cool place and it's like you're not making any sacrifices and everything is 100% toward the craft that you want to do yeah we do
22:53 try to like that is it is true we try to like do that as much as and I love that because in my mind that was never a reality I was I was always thinking that things need to be a like a sacrifice or like you want to execute this but you want to make x amount of dollars so you got to balance it so I'm not completely doing all the things I want to I'm doing things that I can achieve yeah yeah oh okay do you feel like you have a lot of struggles even though you're kind of doing what everything that you've always wanted to do I think like well I've always thought like struggles are pretty like funny to me oh like I think me and smack are good at seeing the humor and even dealing with ████ you know like when yeah like when stuff gets so ridiculously hard or like difficult or or or disaster after disaster happens it's we still can laugh at it cuz it's
23:44 like almost like tragically funny you know something I did to cheer G's mom up the other day she's going through like the hardest time obviously right cuz like out of everyone in the family who's experienced the loss that's the hardest one and I don't know why but I was one of my my impulsive moments I saw this uh video of a pig that was scratching its ass on a rock and I don't know why sometimes it's just impulsive and she was like having one of her sad moments and I was like hey Mom I was I recorded you in the kitchen last night and then she she say and all you just see is this ████ pig's ass like and then she looks at me she was like oh she started laughing just a lighten the mood yeah dude yeah that's that's a good
24:34 title bro that's needed that's need man it was the fattest pig ass ever calling her she calling her a pig and ████ and then apparently I found out in like Latino culture you never want to compare animals I mean humans to animals a big thing Latino culture meanwhile in the Chinese Zodiac everybody's an animal Filipino guys like oh thank you for that ████ I think it's funny cuz it's like an that like how much time we spend with each other and talking you're going to take qualities from each other no matter what you do you know and you know how they say you're like the total sum of five people closest to you spend most time I do really believe it man like I true I don't I can kind of see it like if I'm when I'm with people that are miserable and ████ I start thinking miserable I start like being cuz then if they're complaining all day you complain with
25:24 them yeah and then everything you see is just negative ████ every day yeah that's what one thing I appreciate from everyone here nobody is like a what is that I don't know what you call it but you know there's people that that just like think everything bad happens to them and they just go like see here we go again yeah we're not ████ we weak mind pessimists yeah yeah yeah yeah and they just think they attract disaster and they're just like that's never been Perpetual victims yeah Perpetual victim mentality yeah I don't think nobody here has that but everybody here does have ████ happened to them but the perspective is keep happening yeah it's going to keep happening yeah yeah no I think yeah like everyone's off camera going through crazy ████ ████ sometimes but yeah it's because we learn how to take accountability for the stuff we that's what I think matters a lot too
26:15 cuz some people don't have that and so they just blame blame blame blame blame I've learned that from all of you guys in different ways that like oh man like this happened but I'm going to fix it or take care of it or work on it like it's never like yeah for so typical look at this like nobody's ever had that attitude that's true cuz I think over the years we've all talked to each other about issues that's been going on in our lives like off camera and I do think that what I do like about you guys and why I don't I take pride in this group is none of you guys are little ████ and I know that there'll be a solution and an action and something that you will overcome it's like no matter how crazy it is it's like I know you guys are going to ████ pull through and it will bent about it but it's like something happens whereas like I've had friends in the past where I'm like man
27:06 you're a ████ loser I want to help you but you don't want to help yourself everybody's here supporting you but you don't do ████ for yourself and after a while you're like I can't have you around like trauma dumping people or like they just complain all day and they don't ████ do anything and everybody wants to be there for them but they don't even take that so it's like dude after a while I don't know if I can have that in my circle yeah I'm just glad that when we have deep conversation like this Steve's not here so we can actually finish thoughts oh my God
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