0:00 I think that's the furthest I've gotten I've only gotten as far as yelling I can't imagine you yelling dude exactly like I can't I I can't even imagine you going come and get [Laughter] [Music] it uh when you ask AI uh let's say that you're you're just a guy asking AI why is my wife yelling at me oh yeah it'll answer you with things like oh you maybe because you need to listen more you need to be more sensitive you have to be you have to have more empathy maybe cuz you didn't do the dish like you said you would yeah like good advice for for men to like be more receptive but then if you're a female asking it why is my husband yelling at me it'll give you a number for like a hotline to like call for oh my God
0:50 that's what do you guys think about that that's weird I think it makes perfect sense I think it makes perfect sense I think it makes sense but also um isn't it like equal like the harassment on both sides like theoretically and like the data shows that men are also just as equally harassed and bombarded in that way just as women are yeah but we call those guys ████ yeah I'm not saying it's like Ultra Justified I'm just saying I think it makes sense in the context of like our society it's so funny when guys get abused by their wives that no one that they don't report it it's because it's so funny it's so funny stoping logical though too and then yeah and then the way there's no evidence and the women do it so smart they'll be like oops you burned your whole arm because I boiled water and poured it on the side of you
1:40 that's an accident oops it be it would be funny if you ask AI That's AI for that you ask AI for women and it's like here's a hotline for like domestic abuse you ask AI for guys and it's like there's a bunch of just like therapists that you can contact you know what I mean dud I mean if you if you actually look up a bunch of domestic calls in general it's all dude dudes that are screaming but they're all actually crazy ass dudes that's why I think like the the the statistics back it up yeah I think it's more you're at risk if you're a woman versus a more General like hey you can do the hotline and maybe you can like work on whatever but for the guy same thing like work on yourself but here's a hotline in case you're getting like what how come it doesn't do it for both because I think inherently it's looking at actual stats and it knows that that's ████ or it's just scared that women are going to
2:31 ████ be like this AI is gaslighting me or AI knows smarter dudes won't be like that and more childish and you know dangerous dudes are the ones yelling and being more aggressive therefore here is the I know I've heard of some pretty psycho girls oh yeah are yelling aggressive it's just like statistically I think it's more of those dudes because when I look up body cam every time I eat food at home police body cam it's all domestic domestic calls are all usually crazy dudes yeah yeah Gang Related that's usually who you see out in the wild too yeah and then look at look at the street like beating up their girlfriends and screaming and ████ like right when a girl's like yelling at her boyfriend or whatever it's usually
3:21 because you know he ████ up and didn't rent the car on the trip that he said he would and he just you know he ████ up yeah like oh wait you didn't bring that how can you bring how can you not bring that and then he's like a child being being ████ braided you know you know it's kind of scary too is like if you guys have ever seen in public a couple like fight usually when it's like a girl Angry with a guy she's like yelling to embarrass him and get attention but then if you've ever seen a guy quietly strong arm his like wife that s███'s creepy cuz he's not trying to show he's aware of it so that means he has like like the plans right like do would they get home like it's that that's like scary and then if a guy is like yelling publicly loud like people are going to intervene exactly yeah but you don't hardly see that very much you don't
4:11 really see I don't have much confidence in people to intervene these days that's true I mean I honestly wouldn't for who would most people wouldn't like that's the I think about that like if I'm walking down the street and like something were to happen and I'm looking at who's around me I'm like none of these ████ are going to do anything I'm kind of like yeah they wouldn't do anything at the yelling but they'd be aware because the second it goes beyond that something has to happen yeah sure but like I think physically most people aren't getting involved but but you know why I'm heartless I've been wondering this actually nine out of 10 times the girls have so much Stockholm syndrome that they'll turn on you yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah that's what I'm scared of too yeah for trying to help yeah but also I'm scared of getting charges pressed by both of them yeah but if you ████ this guy up too for trying to set him straight yeah he's going to go home and
5:01 ████ her up even harder cuz now he feels like a little ████ that you ████ up yeah because you're you're like it's like you're taking it in on your own like me is to tell on them that's the man thing to do honestly you do have to rap people out when that s███'s happening because it's not your place to like the smart dudes actually record everything yeah but they're going to be like why didn't you do anything why did you just stand there and record you record with your friend's phone no no you record like you have post on your friend's account but check didn't you have something like that happen Ryan time girl there was a girl screaming and ████ that I was dating yeah yeah that happened but then but then luckily we were there yeah she tried to say that I like that I um like hit her but then people were watching and like I was right outside I watched everything happened Ryan was just trying to calm him down and two random people were like yo what the hell's going on to Ryan I
5:51 think and I was just like oh hell no this is what happened they're like oh ████ they all it was my ex she got super drunk at a party and then she was just like freaking out on me and then um she was just stumbling around and ████ and then I think she actually had the memory of like like she told people that I HIIT her women who lie about that stuff is but I think I think she actually believed it because like she just remembers falling to the ground and she thought that I like did that and I was like what that's another dangerous thing too is people that are so delusional I was looking at her like this but then like then like a year later she like like apologized it was like over a year she was like oh ████ I was just she was conscious after you bounced back from your career it didn't luckily like like simu saying there were enough people to
6:42 have seen it that they were just like what like she said that's what she said that's another layer that people don't talk about is like so there are the malicious type that will falsify ████ right but there's also the delusional types that are so ████ nuts that they have their own of memories they'll testify in court that like and they believe they believe and I mean both genders there's delusional ████ right but like I think people tend to believe females believe all women yeah which I think is fair to a degree just because like so many of them are telling the truth and most people are like yeah right but a lot a lot of the times like look at what happened to Jimmy if he didn't have the receipts with yeah you got to have receipts you Witnesses yeah you you need more ████ he almost got completely canc just based off on an accusation dude that's lame man that's
7:34 lame that they that they that he was harassing and not you know letting them go away from the interview and all this stuff and it's like how many of those things happen where people are clout chasing or they're just so delusional that they start rewriting their own what happened and then they twist it and they go you know what I think I was harassed I think when it comes to like being under the influence too it's really difficult M yeah how do you remember stuff if you're like ████ up mhm yeah it's really hard especially when you're the sober person and you're trying to tell that person like no it's fine but in most cases though when a guy's yelling in a relationship it kind of leads to a physical place like when he's like when he's losing his ████ not like an argument like I think guys can come off scarier like during an argument if he's like yelling at you but then like
8:24 there's a difference between a guy that's like frustrated and he's trying to get a point across versus you're gonna you're gonna die right now do you think it do you think it um it's a hint if like a guy's breaking stuff yeah I think that's a good prec or punching the wall actually well to me from personal experience like that's always like the last straw and that's what's like in the sense I'm not saying I'm drunk but like that'll like kind of sober the situation for me because like cuz like when you physically go somewhere else it's cuz you know you're not going to physically go to the person oh so then you're like I need to something else and then when it happens and you break something you're like I've gone too far now you ever do that thing where you're looking at the thing that you're you're still angry you pick up your computer like not this you're like I want to but not this
9:14 I agree with you on that one I punched a couple holes but punched a pillow how about that no walls and doors but I think the key is that it helps you realize what's happening oh 100% actually there dudes that don't even reach that first and only time I put like a hole in a wall I remember afterwards like I wasn't even mad anymore at the situation I was more upset like man now I got to pay for the wall you know what I mean it just takes you out of that and yeah that's while I'm repairing the wall I'm like ████ idiot I'm like dude what the is this I did that at my ex's house when I was 17 at her family's like house when when we were arguing and I had to buy the patch and like like the first time you do it you just feel so ████ embarrassed and her dad was just like watching me patch the hole that's like that's like the learning curve that you kind of like need for yourself too today's video is
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10:55 500 million in cancel subscriptions saving member from up to $740 a year when using all of the apps features so stop wasting money on things you don't use cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to Rocket money.com sloff theer that's rocket money.com sloff theer rocket.com offthe reccord I had an ex who took the uh picture frame and it was glass was covering glass and he just smashed it over his knee and all the glass fell on the carpet and I was just like and I was the one cleaning it up oh that's bad and I was like this is a wrap we're done here I was hoping that you going say he like went like this and his head came through I be like that s███'s
11:45 impressive I'm serious just back and forth like a cartoon that's so impressive yeah I think that's the key it's like because I was so embarrassed I was like I don't want to be doing stupid ████ like this yeah well it just shows like a lack of like emotional maturity at that point it's it's not often but anytime an argument escalates so far that I get to the point of yelling like yelling is literally the line at which like I'll like yell and then I'll walk away from the argument cuz then then it's like cuz then you acknowledge you're like oh ████ it's emotional it's not like a conversation anymore I think that's the furthest I've gotten I've only gotone as far as yelling I can't imagine you yelling dude exactly like I can't I can't even imagine you going come and get it I can't even imagine that like if you
12:37 worked at the P like the pike or something or dude dud I rarely yell man even in arguments like even I cuz I recognize that I get heated and I'm like ████ I don't need to raise my voice cuz I grew up with watching my parents argue and so I know what not to do from that and so when I had my relationships every time we argue I I feel myself wanting to yell and then I go hey let me just go for a walk like I need to walk it off so I have a super hot take right and I want to know I want to know I want to know what your guys's opinion is on this cuz for me and this is from a female's perspective I can't call her out but we have a lot of conversations on this because it's just fascinating the perspective it's very like taboo and then she goes you know she goes I think some ████ do need to get smacked up I kind of agree with that see and coming from a female I think it's crazy I kind
13:29 of agree with there's some women who they're putting their on people again and again and again and again to the point where it's just like the the provocation there's no consequences for her actions I'm not saying like beat her to death but like I think like a slap across the face might help see I heard the same thing so it's not like it's not like losing control but like restraining the ████ restraining like the 1950s get a hold of yourself ████ yeah yeah exactly is there like a good number ratio is like 10 slaps to one it's like you're just getting hit like 10 times and you're just like an exchange rate okay yeah the the currency in this climate Forex so like for me it is a hot take though because on the I thought I thought it was a non-negotiable I thought you just never
14:19 ever put a hand you're defending yourself is different cuz what if they had a ████ weapon yeah well it it's not even toward that like like her argument was that some ████ need to get checked because they're they're out of control they're like maybe mentally abusive or they're just like pushing this guy to his limits and then she goes like I'll push back on on my agreement with you um cuz I'm pushing back on myself um even if you were to do that with somebody like that because it's like last you know scenario right I still don't think it will get through to her oh I see it's like a kid like when you cuz you know how kids get like smacked by their parents cuz they have no clue that she needs help like she needs like
15:10 years and years and years of like church because kids are really emotional too and if you tell them with words they're not going to listen until you go and then go oh I need to stop so here's here's another interesting take right that coming from a woman's perspective that was shocking to me okay not mine so she said that maybe certain women wouldn't have left this man if he just smacked her once for some respect wa that's interesting how that again so so so for example right there are people that we know close to us where she like they've left they've cheated they've like and she goes yeah that guy's been beaten down to the point where she does not respect him anymore he doesn't put his foot down he just needs to leave he's a he a
16:00 yeah passive he's passive and then she's like she's like once but that but that girl's like yelling down at him slapping him and cheating on him yeah but that's toxic too she's the problem yeah that's toxic why are you still there just so so the thing is why would you want to have to smack someone into respecting you that's not yeah that's almost like finding the dysfunction and like maintaining it yeah yeah yeah yeah you're not progressing like he don't he don't need to respect toxic like exactly yeah that's though I understand the concept but like that's coming from a like you're literally being like okay let me put my mind in like evil real quick it's like right but it's like it's like uh if you could time travel or something and then you you or like you go through a dimension where you didn't break up with someone and they're like why what was different you me in the face why would you want to St it's like what that's why
16:51 we worked out because I socked you right exactly those guys don't end up knowing that though that's why they're in that position of in the best case scenario they don't ever need to find that out either cuz they're just with the right person who's not ████ like treating them like but we're talking about if we're talking about going back in time stuff that's the same as being like oh dude if I went back in time and I socked her we'd be together like well if I went back in time and I like won the lottery she'd still want to be with me too we're talking about those couples that fight all the time and they stay together forever oh dude I know some they're doing things that are bad to each other and then they thrive on it but that's because they like that yeah that that would be the couple there got to be that thing in the movie where it's like he finally slaps back there's a moment of tension and then they just start making up ████ like restraining her and then all ends up in a doggy style
17:41 all I think it's so that where the guy's not Manning up to anything he's passive he's not and then she's just like at this point where she has no respect for him anymore as a man and she's just like I want you to stand up for yourself but they just just need to leave the relationship that's that's a that's a yeah that's legit cuz you should never resort to it right but then I I'm like I was trying to get into that head space of like where well well but some people are still living in that time where they haven't you know adapted to the new ████ you do end up meeting people that you're like I'm not going to hit you but I know damn sure the next dude is probably not going to take this cuz I I I I for me it's like you should always control yourself and never hit anyone right but her perspective was like I think the perspective comes from her talking about
18:34 her female family members that are ruthless toward guys and she goes and then she has good men in her family that are like getting pushed over by certain females on the flip side she understands it too she's like sometimes these ████ need to be restrained and I'm all like wow that is such a hot take that I never really heard before cuz it Doesn't Even enter my mind it's nonnegotiable you just don't hit women you don't yeah I mean that that's an easy non-negotiable to keep it just simplifies just don't hit anybody right right Nuance I think the Nuance is that that have you ever seen these examples before of abusive women or women that are so like like they provoke and poke to the point where it's like they you're poking the bear too much D the smack that's actually so common more than we
19:25 think where you see these couples where the the guy is so spin and like defeated and doesn't even try and he just lets anything happen to him yeah dude in a perfect world yeah nobody wants to beat up anybody but then that's not the world we live in that's the crazy part you know so what do you do yeah Steve was always talking about beating you up it's like War too it's like nobody wants to fight nobody wants to fight and I did it publicly do it do it now yeah but K some some people do want to go to war yeah exactly in their own relationship which ethnicity are you talking about Japanese you know no you know like when the war popped off there's literally legit volunteers going exactly they want to fight the thrill just to be saying like yeah I went to ████ you
20:15 know I mean there's guys like that now imagine that in a relationship like they want to fight for each other in a weird way where they're hurting each other that's psychologically just so toxic actually there's a saying about some people can bring out the worst in you right yes and then some people will say no you should always be in charge of your own emotions no matter how you feel right so when I when we talk about this it's like you should never blame your partner for making you angry you made yourself angry but then her take on that was like some ████ can push you push a man to his limits so hard that it brings out the worst in him and that's the truth cuz it's a two-way street right and I'm like yeah but he goes it's not so much that that worse is being being taken it's just his patience is tested to the point where other combinations and relationships won't
21:06 test them to that point and if it's not an ongoing behavioral trait that you see this person in for all relationships then that was such a bad combination that it did push him to his limits MH it's like it's understanding the the concept and knowing that like you can understand why doesn't make it right but also I think there's accountability on both sides his side for continuously allowing himself to be in a position to be pushed and pushed and pushed and pushed like at this point you need to make a decision and take accountability for the fact that you have not made a decision for yeah yeah and then for her side it's like I mean yeah what do you expect like you're getting somebody to a point of just no return there is going to be a cause and effect to the situation whether you know people are
21:56 going to argue whether it's right or it's wrong but it's the understanding of the situation I think both need to be held accountable for the situation that makes sense like stop showing up to the chopping block if that's that's all yeah absolutely if you're being tested beyond your limit correct yeah so raise your hand if you think women should get beat Ken can you insert a clip of a time that Sten was going like this so raise your hand if you think women should get beat hell yeah he
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