0:00 happy holidays and a good merry new year and we've been working on the ideal ugly Christmas sweater and as you can see we're still prototyping yeah mine's a little too small and his is a little too big right now what you can't do is pre-order November 4th to November 8th is our pre-order window and as we make these we will post more progress picks cuz it will be high quality heavy knit it won't look ghetto as as this nope but we're trying our best okay get it right now secure your place before we like sorry we don't have any more sweaters for you I meant the villains and Gaston followed around with me like for the park like half the day he's he's gon yeah you know the from beauty the Beast he's like the cocky guy oh I think he said Governor gas on Governor gas on bro he got to go what
0:52 you mean nowhere near got go he's a character at [Music] welcome back to very special episode of careful boys I am here today with Colleen and we got Ria over there what's upia hi everyone with subin and on this side we have old friends of mine Aon and Jess ladies in the house all right since we got three versus three today we're going to do a bunch of like guys versus girls topics cuz we're going down it wasn't meant to be competitive but that would be pretty cool yeah but first let's let's do some a little bit of catching up with suban how's uh being a dad tiring man that's nothing that thousand yard stare uh nothing too much man just same old same old baby you know tired you got
1:42 to wake up every day feed him cute very adorable same story same story it sounds like it's getting more fun though y it's cool I'm not going to lie you know what it is it's like even though like it's tiring and everything and you hold him you're just like so s s you know you chew on his ears and it's all good chew on his ears he's not even mad anymore that's your trick to getting him to stop crying like a like a puppy like you chew on the ear you chew on puppy no you know when you like chew on his kids ears they're just and they just like and they're just adorable they're just adorable you make any B that's gangster soft when you just hold the baby it don't matter that's the trick it's nice it's cute and he tricks the if it's crying like uncontrollably is there
2:32 tricks that you've learned yeah you just tricks you've learned put them in his you put him on the bed on his stomach cuz it's nicer on his stomach and you close the door and walk away I'm just kidding don't do that you do not do that close the door and walk away very very involved father I'm very involved I'm focused on his training but well done man you're the only one in here with kids and you're also probably I think the youngest out of all of us right I guess or maybe Ricky how old are you I'm 29 I turned 30 in a couple months he's older the math the processing for your modem yeah you're older you're older you want kids now Ria I do want kids but I know I'm like nowhere near ready for it so what is ready what is ready for kids
3:22 like financially like I I know there's no way I could fin he he says no you convinced me I'll start next week let's go no you can't you can't you can't say that's the thing right me and Sasha was like that too we're like let's be financially ready and do do whoop do ████ like you're never going to be financially ra you could be you could be 100K and you you're going to you're going to treat your kid to like a 100K Lifestyle by the time the 100K doesn't come back around it's not even going to be 100K lifestyle no more it just it's just whatever you're at it would be nice to have a certain amount of money for security but I do know a lot of people who end up having kids who found a big enough reason why which is their kids to make more money yeah so that's the thing like for some reason you're not pulling like the numbers you want but when you do have a kid because
4:12 you have so much time with him you have so much time to think by yourself so you're just going to be focusing on how to build and what what's next and pushing your ████ you know what I mean but there's no Financial like ready ready but obviously yeah you should be ready financially I wasn't there's no ready but you should be ready I'm going be honest I wasn't ready but but it ████ worked out that's the crazy thing no matter what it makes it just happens life is just like oh you got a kid let me Bless you that's what happens I feel like if I if I'm keeping it real I'm still not convinced I'm I'm going to chill out where this ████ guy look at look at a load of this guy keeping it real I'm I'm going wait a little bit but yeah you're right no I do I do want kids but no if you like your free time don't do it fre you're talking him out of it basically what you're doing what's um what's your
5:03 what's your life been like since you moved here from Arizona cuz that's not too long ago you got here yeah I moved here from Arizona about 2 years ago um the first year was pretty slow for me like it was really me just trying to get my foot IND door and it wasn't until I started working at barbell uh beginning of year 2 where I started really meeting people and like uh you know so started collaborating so yeah right now it's just me just kind of like establish establishing myself into like this space you know working helping out with social media and stuff like that yeah uh but it's been cool I met a lot of people uh you know a lot thanks to you too cuz you you bring me along yeah so I really appreciate that but yeah it's been it's been interesting like it's the uh the last year I felt like my life has like started moving forward cuz there was like a couple years where like I wasn't meeting people I wasn't doing anything with my life so it's nice to finally have like the ball rolling on on that uh
5:53 cuz I didn't really have like the typical college experience stuff like that meeting people like my friends did so like right now I feel like I'm kind of like in my college experience in my own you're in your brat era yeah exactly so yeah I'm like going to events and stuff like that yeah what tell tell us tell us what that means ladies we're too old for that the BR brat summer is like below it's that uh it's that Carpenter girl what's her name no it's not brat Karen Carpenter Karen Carpenter no it's it's Saina and it's the brat Summer She's the Charlie XX oh yeah brat Sumer yeah I know I feel so far away from that age wise I still don't understand we called brats for a different reason I don't know I like to think it's fall it's called Halloween summer now I don't really I didn't
6:43 really celebrate brat summer I don't think you're already a brat kind of I can't remember exactly but did both of you guys move to California from different states yeah yeah Washington yeah I'm from Michigan oh yeah yeah and do you feel like year one living in La was good or bad it's good and my whole family was back there I'm like you guys know you can leave right like you don't have to stay here it's it's cold all the time you pay premium pricing for premium weather out here and then you can always just go back but yeah no I was always moving here so I was just kind of they had a lot of time to prepare what about like the people that you met did you ever like he know the stereotype is that when you moved to LA everybody's fake everybody's like did that did that happen yeah like you meet them but I feel like you can like we through the ████ yeah you know he just takes you a second did you guys date your first
7:34 year here in La I moved out here with somebody oh you did you brought a ████ Michigan guy here how dare you we drove out in my 98 Isuzu Rodeo I didn't have power steering there was rust hole through the floor I was like get me out of Michigan um yeah I drove across country lived with Carrie in a studio apartment with him it obviously did not work out we broke up after like a couple of months I got I got him a job at Saddle Ranch though so we all worked at Saddle so Saddle Ranch is the how we met together that's the bar restaurant where that's how I first initially like was hanging out with them cuz I lived really close to it you traa bond for Life yeah we trauma by but what was wait so what happened to that guy he just like went back he's doing like acting stuff I think oh he's still here he yeah I got
8:25 him a cat once cuz I really wanted another cat so it's like only part I really miss about you got him a cat yeah to cope no cuz I wanted another one working out but here free cat with every breakup oh I that's actually nice you should get on that oh I would like that that'd be a great way to get like to get cats homes it's like if you want to break up with someone you have to give them it's like cultural you have to go to the pound always wanted culture so like we need to see other people here's a cat if you leave you have to leave the cat in your spot the rule no that's really that's cool that uh that you brought a guy here and left them here yeah I was like why wait why did you break up anyway two months oh I he was cheating on me oh my good that's not a deal bre
9:15 though it was like really nerdy ████ though like I know I was like uh I was just kind of over it at that point you know when you're like not upset you're just like uh and I didn't break up with them right away I like waited till I was mad and then I was just like you can leave like I know that you cheated on he's like oh I wouldn't never I was like I saw your text like you were doing some weird ass like he was saying he was Wolverine and some girls Jean Gray and I was like pick better characters first of all and yeah he was like driving my car he was literally a scrub so dressing up in the costumes were it I don't know about that but I'll how you know you're over it cheating with with a girl in Michigan no he met a girl at Saddle Ranch the police I got him a job he's already moving fast damn yeah I was like you don't have a car what are you doing like yeah yeah
10:07 this how did you find out I saw on his phone I went through his phone he had you know when the Android you know when the Android had like the design law you figured it out he had like dirty hands or something and you could see like you could see the Star of David I'm just like oh it's like the S symbol you draw when you're a kid oh like I'm like oh my God damn and it's like okay apparently I wasn't really in I didn't cry what's it like going through a dude's phone what other stuff did you find besides that in that time it wasn't that interesting um he didn't have a good lot of gigabytes his plan was not great it's like Boo mobile or something um only took her two minutes to go through the whole like well might as well throw this away but
10:57 so it was in his texts like yeah was his text what did the text specifically say it was like it was just like weird like kind of sexting being like Oh yeah you're just like Wolverine you big strong I was like what the ████ is this nerdy ass ████ and then and then he was like yeah Jean Gray are so like strong and I was like this is weird so they were like Marvel text roleplay flirting I don't feel bad even saying it's Marvel weird thing to get into it's like two separate entities it's like it's like Marvel and Harry Potter do better better Yu but yeah he hit me he owed me a lot of money so I I got it though oh that's nice yeah oh I always get when did he pay when did he pay you back um so I started talking to
11:49 this other guy and I told him what happened I was like will you just come with me to go and pick it up and it's like this guy's kind of a little ████ anyway so I ended up making him do a payment plan with me I charged him interest I made like an amateurz show interest too ████ yeah ████ that guy yeah yeah I know my mom taught me well um but yeah I got it uh and yeah I have no idea what he was doing I don't really care but the payments are done yeah exactly he like check that off continue conversation why do you ow you money because he didn't have a job for a while he cried when I got a job he cried when you got a job my mom was really embarrassing wait he cried when you got a job he's like I thought I going a job first and I was like oh my God I wish you would have gotten a job first funny
12:40 reaction you're making Michigan dudes look bad right now you know what now that I'm thinking about it there was more to it than that too it wasn't just that that was the thing that made me end it I found out that he never broke up with the girl that he was dating before me and he said that he was going oh my God god wow okay he this was crazy she hit me up on Facebook and she's like hey just so you know like we never broke up and I was like uh what what are you talking about and she's like sent me like like screenshots and like pictures of like notes and I was like you know what the Math's math and and he said that he was going to Vegas to like help winterize his parents attic from racco I was like I need I need lies that are that elaborate yeah yeah that's that's a believable lie though
13:31 unbelievable never going to hear that he's like yeah the service is weird up there I was like all right what's schol I don't really like that's fine I'm doing my own thing anyway and turns out he went to see her in like uh Washington or something and yeah I was just like going and hanging out with her yeah winterized attic I'm stuck on that so cool I'm putting that one in the bank I might I might need to use that one but not in the summer he falsified documents like an acceptance letter to Michigan state law school so his parents thought he was going to law school falsified falsified like an accept acceptance letter to Michigan State that's like effort yeah oh so his family was like congratulating him over fake ████ cuz they didn't he didn't want to deal with him he's like he like Leo from Catch Me If You Can that's what I was just thinking what a cool guy very interesting very elaborate
14:23 yeah that's the lowbudget film whole life was a lie yeah sounds exhausting he he hit me up like it might be less energy to really winterize something right thinking the I was like really extreme raccoon oh yeah he's an actor there you go yeah he's method that's all he's basically just performing like what role yeah just getting ready for his like main role he h he hit me up like he hit me up a little bit ago like like probably a year ago and was like yeah I love to catch up and I was like I what's your life like so I was thinking about it and then I was like actually like I'm don't really have time and then so I just stopped I was like yeah sure whatever and just ended up just stopped responding to him entirely but he's like how's your mom I was like why she doesn't like you he's like do you still have all my comic books I was like yeah why why do you
15:15 have them they're my mom's D that's what he was trying to get at he he really wants his comic he just wants Comics I was like that's tax but you can have your CDs back like yeah they're obsolete yeah I'll keep puddle of Mud but what was uh your what was your first dating experience in La when you moved here oh um I think I met him at a Red Robin party during Halloween I I worked at Red Robin oh worked at Red roben I thought that's like code for like a no no no not even code for anything I thought yeah I thought it was an artist like a burger party no I thought it was like a rapper i' never heard of something yeah I think it was like it was like a friend's like coworker party oh cool and then he also worked at Red Robin or just like he also worked at Red Robin I think he was just finishing but it's pretty much like
16:05 across the room and then yeah he did the same thing where yeah until like he wasn't oh he did the same Wolverine thing yeah but but more like more I mean probably she could have been a Wolverine I don't know she was blonde and sweet oh you caught him the same almost the same way well it was more like I like just kind of bluntly ass and I was like you should probably break up with me if you want to cheat dang and then it was like a month later and I was like heard oh no wait you got you caught him with reverse psychology is that what you did I don't know if I really caught him I feel like it was like he was also very fun and lame like he he was leaving in a spot it wasn't really good his roommate was kind of like out there it was a Jew a Jew imagine that's deal breaker oh God no no actually he was Jewish but I
16:58 like actually he was Jewish all right that meant nothing to me whatsoever I didn't care but no he his roommate was weird so he needed a place to live he was trying to live with friends it like fell through so me being nice I was in a house and I was like you can come and move in here oh you oh and then he moved in and within like a month I was like this is not so a month of dating and then he's living no no no it was like eight months of like dating yeah and then it was like he moved in for a month and it just was too small of a spot and too many people in like a house oh and then yeah and then he was starting to hang out with like his best friend very often and I was like was a guy that was a girl oh he had a girl best I'm not I'm not really a super jealous person unless you give me a reason to be because I have so many guy friends um well it was more like he would come home and his like whole energy would be different or it like he
17:51 just had sex kind of energy yeah but like I didn't think he ever really did it just was that like feeling of it I was like oh you want to laugh with her more than you want laugh with me this just doesn't sound fun when you said that like oh like if you want to end things end things did he just break up with you or it was like a it was like a week later and he was and he like came home from like some game wait like a week like on the dot I don't know he like put his calendar all I got to say is I remember going to the Jonas Brothers concert the day before he broke up with me and I went to Disneyland I was I was sad at Disneyland yeah cuz my mom was calling me and she was like he knew you had all these plans he couldn't wait till after Disney I was like Mom that's what you're concerned about with I just got broken up with and you're asking about Disneyland what's the best ride to cry on in Disneyland oh yeah that's a Space Mountain cuz they
18:41 just go oh oh your tears they wipe your tears tears they wipe your tears away go on the people behind you or or Splash nothing because then you're wet and and you're like not water it's really I thought you can see Buzz Light yours freaking ████ you man Al yours would be the drawing one the animation SC hate that drawing so bad at drawing that every time I am so bad at it and she loves it so much she's so bad and she we just I go because she loves it and I know it you guys been to that in Califoria Adventure you it's like a drawing class yeah and you everyone in the class learns to draw a dizy character and right away yeah it's so easy you end up like wow I really made Scrooge McDuck okay but yours is yours is mine is like the ████ did I just do
19:31 but we had Disney passes so we would go like every couple mon before Co we had a rule like if you could do groceries you weren't at work and you weren't on site you could go to Disneyland and it was so easy to go to Disneyland every time I was like Aaron this is the only thing I want to do over here it's really important to me just because she was so bad at it she would made fun we put it on our fridge cuz like my our fridge is CH put them next it be like you know like your mom used to do yeah like this the best thing is is trying not to laugh when you see other kids ████ up and they just it looks like ████ and you look it's so hard not to laugh have you seen those Instagram videos where it's it's a guy in those drawing classes but he's actually a really good artist but he draws a completely different figurine oh but it's like a really good one but it's it's like a it's like a comedy figurine or something like he he makes a
20:21 whole thing out of it and like so he videotapes the class and he like pans down to his and it's like two minions kissing or something like the heck that's hot yeah oh that makes me sad that you went to Disneyland while crying after a breakup honestly it was probably the best thing I could have done was to go to Disneyland after a break like Fast therapy like fast as soon as I walked in the park I was like I don't give a ████ and then I meant Gast that doesn't hurt you when they go any single Riders no not at all any couples no because I like I met the villains and Gaston followed around with me like for the park like half the day he's he's on yeah you know the from beauty the Beast he's like the cocky guy but like his character like he's he's he's the one with bell oh I think he said governor gason governor gason like she's like it was okay cuz gas bro he got to go what
21:12 you mean nowhere near H got go he's a character at D I'm like who is this your character isn't this ████ should be working why is he disne ████ you thinking of Gavin Nome no that's Nome is the mayor g k is the uh it might be vice versa actually I got it da he's the da he's the guy that's he's the guy that's letting everybody out yeah he's there G on but he has to be a character
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