0:00 Smack had me watching Bachelor and I feel like I like it more than her now. And and then she also got me watching Baby Reindeer, which is a freaking Baby Reindeer is good. Baby Reindeer. I love that chick. What's Baby Reindeer? That's my ideal woman. Welcome back everybody to a pivot episode of the Careful Boys. In our actual last video, which may not be uploaded in order, we talked about what is something that we want to get our ladies into. Yeah. Really to selfishly satisfy our own lifestyle. But what do you think our ladies would want us to get into to better their lifestyles? There's so many things. Really? Tidying. That was one. That's Gio's hobby. Tidying. No, she I cleaning more for sure. Like, you know, when you come over to our house, the pantry. Yeah. It looksing sick. It really looks like
0:51 somebody with freaking ADD autism like went off on that. She wishes I could maintain that. M. But I think everywhere I go it's like a raccoon. So like things are justed up all over the place. So I feel like in her brain it's like why can't everything just be like perfect the way I line it all out. But that's not my style. Yeah. Bart lacks a trail of pots and pans. Okay. What about you? You just said a million things. Yeah. Cleaning. Cleaning is one. But is that a hobby or something that she wants you like an a genuine interest? like a like a lifestyle habit. Well, I mean, we can go with those for sure, too, cuz then I got a lot. One thing she did she did want um putting the toilet seat down. And I did this one was like she she wanted to get good at roller skating. So, then like to make it
1:42 a thing where it would be fun for both of us. Then I started to try to get really good, too. So, we would go to like the rink and then the park and we would just like work on skating ████ like a lot. Like, we would go every week to Moonlight by your old place. Yeah. Did you need to practice on your own at all or you always practice with her? Not just with her. Yeah. Just cuz she would practice a lot. Oh. Yeah. We would go to um we would go to the park a lot and then um and then Yeah. to the rink like once a week. We would be like at our dance sessions at night and she would have her roll skates in the other room just practicing. Yeah. So like the the dance sessions that I do weekly, she'll just like bring her skates. What does she like p there like certain moves she's trying to do? Like Yeah. I like you know like the um you know those like groove skating kind of thing where you're in place but you're just like what ushers ████ Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. Like ushers people. Yeah. She wants to do more of that. And then I was trying to learn more of the stuff that's like
2:33 moving around just so like it's more like fun for me cuz I suck at the groove ████ Yeah. Groove is hard. Yeah. That was one thing that that actually like that she consciously wanted to like do more and I got into it for her. Can you go backwards? Yeah. Moonwalk with the roller skates. It doesn't look that good, but yeah, I can do it. Dang. Okay, less examples where you actually delivered. What's something that she wants you to get into that you haven't got into yet? That she wants me to do? Well, like it's not like she explicitly said it, but like you could I feel like maybe knitting. Holy ████ I feel like she she's been crocheting and knitting a lot and I think it's very cool, but I don't pick it up and try it. But I think it'd be kind of funny if I did. I could see her like like think like she would never say that, but I could see her
3:23 thinking like, "Oh, that'd be so fun if we were both doing this at the same time." I heard knitting is a fun activity. I heard it's fun, too. I could also see you like uh one day just like opening up the closet and you knit like an entire just like the LA Marathon when he just like it would be funny if I just ran 24 miles or whatever. That's a dangerous thing like cuz I'm I'm very addictive when it comes to like I get addicted to like new activities. So, like if you if you get me into something new, I will just like do it to its death kind of thing. Like skating, I was doing that a lot. Like I was skating a ton. I didn't even have an initial interest in it. I think we were both just like this is getting expensive. Oh, going there. Yeah. We were just paying like cuz you you got to pay to go to the rink and then uh and then like we would we wanted to skate in the park, but the park's dangerous. Like little pebbles and sticks and stuff. No, it was just like just homeless people. Okay, never mind. Like that was the same park that I was like there was a guy like
4:14 with a machete just like chilling. They have those in Vegas too. I hear those n. I told the guy I told the there was like a dude standing outside his business and I was like hey don't go over there's a guy with a knife and then the guy was like yeah he lives right there like he lives in the trailer next to the park and I was like great okay we can't come here. And then we would try to go to like tennis courts and stuff and it just everywhere's dangerous. So we're like it's kind of sucks to have this hobby here. LA River. You could roll around the LA River. Yeah. Yeah, cuz there's no homeless. Yeah, we got to check in with whoever runs that block. Yeah, love the lifestyle here. It's way better than Vegas, by the way. Did she tell you about the skating or did you just go, "Oh, you're getting into it. I'll Yeah, she told me about it." Okay. Another thing that we that I got into was watching the show she likes. Like what? That's hard for me. I'm trying to do that sometimes and I'm like for some reason she's like into really trash.
5:05 What's the show that she likes? Just like it's all like the like reality trash, bro. It paid off for me, dude. I love that ████ now. I'm afraid I'll like it, but like there's something about me that's like still like You don't like 90day Fiance? 90day Fiance is a masterpiece. Which one's the worst one that she watches? Yeah. Which one that you were like, "Ah, this isn't good." Like like Cake Boss and ████ For some reason, I just like Boss. Can't start getting like like even like a Temptation Island. Yeah. Oh, yeah. You don't like it? I I don't even start. There's There's something about it that I'm like I don't even want to try. You don't ever just sit down and just make fun of everybody. Fun. Like, who the ████ is this? Like Mononttoya. Yeah, Mononttoya is my guy though, dude. I like I I mean, I know that that's like an easy entry point. Like I could pro I probably could enjoy it knowing my
5:55 personality. Smack had me watching Bachelor and I feel like I like it more than her now. And And then she also got me watching Baby Reindeer, which is a freaking Baby Reindeer is good. Baby reindeer. I love that chick. Where's Baby Reindeer? That's my ideal woman. you would like that. It's just an amazing true story that really happened to this guy and then he ended up make producing like a show about it and he plays himself in it and it's freaking brilliant. It's crazy. I saw it. It's a wild show. It's a wild show. All right, that's that'll be 2025. I got to get into these ████ TV shows and did she ask you like why don't you just watch this with Cuz when she puts it on, she never explicitly asks me. You just go do something else when she I guess you don't have to do it then. Yeah. I just think it's like Well, I think you know what the hard thing is? Okay, this is this is my therapy that I'm also starting to realize. It's that if she like willingly got into ████ that I was
6:46 into that I know that she wasn't into. And for me, I'm not saying like come watch like Vikings with me or something like that. Just some random like otherworld ████ that I kind of randomly like. I might be like, "What? You haven't seen this classic?" You know, it's just like some pop culture ████ that I'm like, "You got to at least watch this to understand something about who I am as a human." Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. But then it's like, no, she's not going to sit down and like watch like Godfather 2 with me. You know what I mean? So it's like, okay, well, I'm not going to watch Storage Wars with Keep trying though, cuz they will eventually. They will eventually. You know what's a good hack though? Like, and this is what I did to Smack. She would never watch Good Fellows with me, but she would go to a um a rooftop cinema where they're showing Good Fellows. Oh, that's a good one. That's a good one. That's fair. That's cool. Because that's girly of an activity. It's like it's a date romantic thing. They have like little cute popcorn things. It's like it has everything
7:36 girls want and then you get to get your Can you watch Good Fellas on it? I think we did that with Breakfast at Tiffany's. You got Yeah. Yeah. You got to you got to meet in the middle with it. Yeah, you do have to. But like I think again therapeutic. I'm not saying I'm right for it. I'm just saying I'm probably realizing that a part of me is like, "All right, well, you don't want to get into my There's a debt there of like then it's like what am I doing? Go and then I'm like and then I'm trying to compare things like Martin Scorsesei to like Temptation Island, Godfather 2." Yeah. What if she's like, "You don't want to watch The Bachelor. This is who I am. It's a piece of who I am. This is what I like. It's help me develop. 2025. Let me get into it. Let me let me be the bigger man." You might end up liking it. I think you will like it. I think you'll come around. I'm sure I am. Honestly, I probably I probably would. I just need to like, you know, I need to take the leap of faith. I think so, too. And I
8:26 need to be a better person. Or at least just try. Cuz if you don't like it, ████ it. Just don't, you know? Yeah. Just storm out. slam a doorf like baby she can't leave I watched all 10 shine you better watch Pulp Fiction right now dude that's a good that's a good compromise you know I remember at first I tried to make like especially for Pulp Fiction I've tried to make Tiff watch Pulp Fiction before she's like I want to watch it and there was this one day where I just kept trying I was like hey watch this movie with me we sat down I made her watch it at her mom's house and she's like wow that movie is really good Oh, so it's like eventually they'll turn the corner. And I was like, "F███ yeah, dude. Let's watch it again with subtitles this time. You can't convince them to like all you got to do, trust me, this long dialogue is is paid off. Just don't go on TikTok right now. Just
9:16 watch this one part." I felt bad. I thought you were going to say she was like, "Why is it out of order?" Cuz most people would say that. Wait, did he have sex with that guy? Oh my god. You know your grandfather he uh but yeah that I will do that. Good. That's nice. Yeah. You have to make the first move a lot a lot. You don't want to talk about your girl. Oh yeah. She's a secret. I will say that a so far. Talk about your boyfriend then. I'm right here. Oh yeah. No. Don't say that. Don't say that. That's not funny. I don't know. A lot of stuff that I like is a lot of the stuff that So she likes anime. Other likes to Yeah, she watches some anime. She likes grilled cheese sandwiches. She likes art stuff. I like art stuff. She reads manga sometimes, but not like all the time cuz I don't read it all the time either. Let me guess. She lives in Canada. You never see her. No, I'm just kidding. I know
10:06 she I know she's real. I know she's real. Yo, crazy. She doesn't have a social security. Yeah. No, I know she's real. You have to give her money every month. No, that's cool, man. I don't know. Like the stuff that I like, like for example, dance. Like she can dance, but it's not like her main thing. Does she like dance videos? Yeah. So for me it's like edit videos. No, but like a lot of the stuff that I do that I would want my partner to be interested in, if they already are, it's like cool. I don't That's great. I don't even have to worry about like, oh, what what am I into that I really want them to be into? I never had a That was the last video topic. This one's about Yeah, exactly. Which is the other way around. It's like there's nothing that she's into that I'm not into already. She only likes Paris by Night. Just wait. Just wait. There'll be something that Well, also like just to put it in context, it's like we just
10:56 started dating. So who like it's hard to tell. Everything's like what's huh? You ain't got baggage yet. Does she Does she hate one of your favorite animes by chance or vice versa? No, not at all. One of her favorite anime is something that you kind of think is like mid. Yeah. Um, no, not really. So you guys are like we're we're like you're like solo leveling is not even that good. We're figuring it out. So all they do is write a name in a book. That's it. That's stupid. Wow. Oh, hey. She's obviously posting you. Dang. You better be posting her, bro. Come on, dog. Don't be doing that. Let me see. Let me see. Let me see a picture of them. Let me see. Oh, it's a collab post. Dang, they went social. Oh, I think I like this. They're official. Dang. Wait, how long has it been? They're social media savvy. We got together on September 11th.
11:47 Don't look at me for That's crazy. I'm not even joking either. You got to get his blessing. That's what said September 11th. And I heard uh it was at New York and it really happened. Yeah. In New York. In New York. And it really happened. Wait, what's something that she does that you don't do at all? Like what's her what's an interest that she's got that you It's hard to tell cuz she's into art. I mean, I guess she's a painter, right? She does that um for like commissions and like she works. You draw, but I know how to paint, but I'm just not as good. But the thing is, it's like I'm interested in that, too. If she were to want me to paint, I'm like, I'm down, you know? Yeah. I feel like Ken could get interested into anything. For real. You don't want to just like one day just show. She She shows up. There's like an easel and canvas. There's like your butt naked. There's like flowers everywhere and you're just She wants you naked
12:37 stool. You're sitting on a stool and you got all the right paint colors for your pale ass and then it's just me or her painting me. Yeah, that's the assumption. While you're naked, your penis naked. ████ it, dude. Wow. But she paints you in a Vietkong uniform. That's even better. Why'd you put clothes on me? And you don't know until she turns it. She paints you with clothes. He puts clothes on. Why am I on a scooter? Why do I have to be naked? It's for her. But he painted me with clothes. He's got the heater on so I can stay big as possible. Oh my god. Yeah, that's hilarious. I can't think of anything really cuz it's it's too fresh, you know? So, I'm just kind of enjoying it and like discovering like, all right, what are we not like? You know, you'll find out something later for sure. Yeah. So, if
13:27 you guys like make it to your anniversary, like are you going to commemorate or celebrate? Like, what are we what are we doing on 91? What do you do? I don't know. You go to ground zero. It's our anniversary. Like, it wasn't even on purpose. It just we were just talk. We were just happening to have a conversation and this was Oh, Tatiana. Yeah, we were already seeing each other in person cuz it's long distance but we we Oh, it is long distance. Oh, damn. Hello. Hello. Perfect. Every time you guys, how you doing? Have a seat. Oh my god. Oh, wait. Are the camera? Finish the video. Finish the video. Have a seat though. Have a seat. Come sit down. We're finishing C's dulging his love life. I'll see you in here. I'll see. I'll see you. Okay. Hey, chime in though. Chime in. Say some comments. You don't want to be the studio audience.
14:18 Okay. And then just heckle. Heckle. Hey, pull up the orange chair. Pull up the orange chair. Sit right here. ████ Okay. Oh my god. So many instructions. Ken is telling us about his new girlfriend. You have a new girlfriend? I do. They started dating on 911. Yep. In New York. So, you're destined for success. Yeah. We'll never forget it, you know. I don't know what that I don't I don't really Yeah, we met on Instagram. Does that mean like you live in the DMs? I did. Hell yeah. That's right, brother. The post was it was a post of me at a Quest Halloween party like 2 years ago. So it was cuz of me. Wow. Ryan gets credit. Wow. You hooked them up, stupid ████ So So she she so she saw that post and like liked it. I think we
15:08 followed each other and then I was like, "Oh, who's this?" And then I started seeing her post stuff. So, I would like respond to like stories and stuff, but then What would you say? How would you respond? Like, I forgot. Lol. Lol. Lol. I just put like, "Oh my god, you're so hot. Can I like talk to you? Shut up. Will you please respond to me? Please." And then she'd be like, "IG with a keyboard is crazy." Like, no, that's my phone. This is what I how I type on IG. I go like that. But no. Are you in love with somebody else? on the out rib is crazy. Like, yo, are you single? Are you single? That's what I said. No. Um, I don't know. We just had good conversations. I was like, this is tight. I like having I like it's like the first level is like, okay, I really like talking to this person. Let's just see what happens. And then because to me, it's like, well, she doesn't even live in this state. Like, I'm not even going to pursue it right now. I'm just going to talk cuz that's what I enjoy
15:58 doing, you know? And then I like what I'm going to buy a plane ticket right now. You like color purple? I'm right there. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Is it too early to say I love you? Yeah. Is it too early? If it is, I don't love you yet. And then you look at each other, you're like, what are we doing here? Look at us. Some people come out the gate now. I did get a DM the other day that says, "Are you gay or we together?" What? What did you say? What' you say? Nothing. We Nothing. I'm not responding. Come on. You got to say, you got to clap back and post on your story. Doesn't matter. What if I actually fall in love? That' be so crazy. That's how we met. Yeah, that's a good one. How did you breach from becoming casually like chatting to like something romantic? Just time, dude. After a year of just a year, talking and having good conversations. And the thing is like with my current
16:49 lifestyle, I'm like traveling. I'm I'm trying to run this business. I'm trying to do so many things and deleting footage and like it's it's like if she if she were to live here, especially straight face like that. If I'm trying to like date someone, that would mean taking me away from those things, right? Which at the time I was like, I can't sacrifice this. Yeah, he needs to prioritize deleting footage. So, so the pace the pacing was like perfect. It's like I got just enough time screen time with her and then it's good. Cool. It starts building up slowly, right? And then second year comes by, I'm like, you know what? We should just like see each other, hang out in person to see what that's like, right? Because So you initiated it. Yeah. And then we just met in a different state just like as a neutral ground. New York City in September of That's what Rhode Island's for. Yeah. We
17:39 stayed at We stayed at her friend's house cuz her friend's really cool. And then that means she's East Coast. Yeah. She's East Coast. I'm obviously West Coast. And then Damn. Yeah. We met and it's like cool. And then we didn't like make it official or anything. And we're like, "Okay, we enjoyed our time together. Let's just see where it goes." And that's why you were out of town. When did you guys doggy style? Huh? Day one. Day one. Day one. Yo, Kim, you're my guy, bro. You're my guy. He's going to edit this. He'll take it out. No, I'm going to put Yeah. I don't know. He'll missionary. No, I don't know. when you got make love. That's really tied to you, man. You just kind of know like when you get along with someone, it's like, okay, cool. I could see this happening and I can see it reoccurring. Let's just see how it goes. And then and that's just been the
18:29 mindset. It's not been like, oh, I have a goal to get someone. It's just like, let's just see how it goes. Casual's always the best. Seems like timing worked out for you both. Yeah. But now we're just doggy styling all day, you know? Don't say that, dude. Sick, dude. Come on. It's pretty sick, dude. I Bro, you kind of changed. I don't know if I like it. He lost his virginity, dude. It's a big deal. I finally lost it. I know. He loses his virginity. He gets a perm. Like, so hardcore. That's so sweet. His doggy style virgin still married anymore. Yeah. I have never done doggy style until vintage. I like that. Do you feel different now that you've lost it? Uh-huh. Yeah. Honestly, I'm a changed man, dude. I'm a man though. Are you guys still long distance? Yeah, for sure. But but the cool thing is he said, "F███ yeah." Yeah. But the cool thing is with the current trajectory that we're
19:20 going right now, long distance is aok. Okay. It works good for both of you guys. Yeah. Because cuz we got to get I got to make sure every day we got to get at least one doggy style in. So that would mean like if if I were Good luck, brother. Good luck keeping them. Move the schedule around. Yeah. cuz I don't want after 15 years. Let me tell you, I'm currently setting up my own personal life to make room for that. Oh, that's sweet. That's good. Yeah, he's clearing up his schedule for the doctor. Clearing clearing up the folder for He's getting physically prepared for it. Yeah, he's clearing up his desktop, too. Good for you, Cam. Hey, we're happy for you, Cam. Daily doggies. ████ yeah, man. Don't delete this video. Hey, you win. I win, brother. That's two.
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