0:00 like the guys really love to hang out with me because I don't know like I'm just that girl that gets along with them and we just talk about all the favorite things like you guys I really love playing college sports sportsall sports ball like [Music] football do you guys are you familiar with the term uh a pck me yes yeah can we explain let's explain that it's like that golden retriever wait let's have one of the guys explain that yeah I like that pick me girl if you know what it is let me let me explain the um the official definition tell me if this is even correct um for girls it's a girl who seeks male validation by indirectly or directly insinuating that she is not like the other girls yeah that's really what it is and and it's being like is
0:50 that a good putting other girls down in front of guys and being like not being a girls girl yeah you're not being a girl girl exactly pretty much a girl just trying to be one of the boys yeah but like in a douchy way yeah cuz you can be a you can be one of the boys you be a bro but you're like you're literally talking about being putting other girls down you're putting other girls down I think is the defining you're not a girls girl like I don't really have any girlfriends you're so silly stop it it's like she'll oh my God oh my God like I really like watching football but like none of my girlfriends really like doing this I must just be the only one who does oh oh like oh I'm that girl pick me like the guys they love to hang out with me because I don't know like I'm just that girl that gets along with them and we just talk about all the favorite things
1:40 like you guys I really love playing college sports sports sportsball like football they don't make sense yeah and it's usually in this manner too it's usually the girl saying so nonch like saying it about herself no's ever saying it about sheane she's advertising her own stats and nobody ask like it's so weird that I like to play video games so often like I don't know why my friends don't want to play video games with me yeah or like and then saying something negative about like women like I'd be like oh yeah it's so weird whenever girls have like wavy hair I mean like who does that who spends that much time on their hair why on you why she like you got that's just a ████ I know a straight up ████ like right like I I could never spend that
2:31 much time I just roll out a bed and put and put a hat on but like you look really cute though you took time today I just I just don't do that I would never wear that though exactly but it works for you I guess I think it's always some like ass backwards backhanded I've always heard like girls be like oh she's such a Pik me but then I don't end up knowing the person they're talking about so I don't know what the traits are it's also weird when girls say that too cuz it's like are is that a Pik me thing to do maybe usually it's the the Pikmin girls who are saying that's a Pikmin girl yeah cuz you because they're trying to deflect and make you feel think that they're oh that's hard to keep track of ████ also I hate this phrase this lingo is so dumb it's so dumb I hate it but I'm just using it because of the definition it's a topic you don't think it but it's never in my vernacular no golden retriever girl wow vernacular golden retriever sounds easier to understand
3:22 you saying dab vernacular yeah that's a big ass word it's a good world of the day toilet paper again I I can't just say vocabulary cuz got to double down on it he gave you props for your vo dud hey I gave you props that was a big okay so for guys this is what a pick me guy is I didn't know this either Pig me guy oh I didn't know Pig me guy was a thing I guess it's real it says it's oh no this is so real a pig me guy is a type of guy that emotionally manipulates Girls by using self-deprecating language in hopes that the girl contradicts them so they'll say uh they'll mention how ugly they are and wait for the girl to disagree and if the girl says no you're not ugly then that's his time to like pressure you must want ████ like love bombing in Reverse I guess I thought now I'm getting confused because like the Pik me girl version is usually girl versus girl this is like Guy versus girl
4:14 this is just sounds like manipulation I think that that's wrong false yeah might be yeah false I've never heard of it but I've never heard of it it would be like talk like talking ████ about something that a guy to put him down it's like pecking it's almost like wow it's like your best guy friend is yourfriend he's like oh what Ted Fred it's like talking down like like that's how I think right or like or like a exaggerated version of peacocking like in an indirect way I thought it was like a guy who's like who makes it known that he's like Pro feminist or whatever like he makes try try to make it known that he's like a feminist that's how that's what I thought those are always the worst guys like I'm an ally I'm like I don't trust you to be around me when I'm drunk so I thought he was already for that for those fake allly yeah it's called creeps losers I'm an ally like
5:07 what shut up it's like what are three things you did this week to support the women in your community yeah no no I just think of the allies and like the wars I thought those were the good guys I know yeah that okay maybe it's not inversely like it's not exactly like I I think it's who's also coming up with these are you on Urban Dictionary like it's just it's just Society itself and like these groups of people who are who are changing the the definition of what it is there like there's people love to do that now there too many sources there's too many sources we had like magazines it was good do you know any guys who are who strike you as being a pck me guy whatever that is yes what what are their traits What do they do oh yeah it would definitely be like um just trying to make themselves look to be more
5:58 unique by putting down I glass blow I freaking yeah not glass blowing probably necessarily but stuff like being like I'm not like the other guys sort of thing it's like what I think even saying that sentence is already like you're not doing well if you consider it to be like oh like wow I can't I don't remember last time I drove uh manual transmission like oh hey no that makes it's just like oh yeah baby I drive automatic too like I don't know I don't know are you trying to I I'm confused about the definition can't WRA my head around are you trying to put down the men or you trying to get the woman to want you maybe more less of a man try to make that person less of a man or like uh like kind of in the stun industry there are people
6:49 where there are people where there are people where they'll be like oh don't pay oh I can do this I can do that he doesn't know how to do that I'm I do this for a living I've been doing maybe like so they're hustling over other people you're at Home Depot and the guy's like it's okay I got this boss and just like grabs you I just think there's other definitions for that like emasculating you know what you know what it sounds like I just don't think it's this pck me this I don't know I think there's just unique definitions to the actual execution of the action it sounds like for guys that it's just a dude whose sole reason for saying something is to be picked and it's not because of the thing he saying like like you were saying if what are what's your angle why are you talking about manual transmissions this way then it's because of a way to like show you a trait without looking like obvious about it
7:39 exactly maybe that's what p is man's and say that you're like you're unique and unlike everybody else but it's that's like you're running a a campaign GoFundMe a GoFundMe to play Devil's Advocate I think people read into this ████ way too much it's like maybe worry about yourself yeah maybe that yeah therapy's cool therapy is cool therapy because I mean it's not like people just started doing this so what was how would we call people in the past that were like cuz we all know people that don't even say anything unless they're saying it to like present something they've done you know what I mean they don't even like they're not interested in speaking unless it's about like hey I want to get some of my traits in this conversation they're just waiting for their turn to speak sort of thing but what do we used to call that rude I think yeah
8:30 just ████ dork ████ not you but then like if you if you're trying to avoid being this let's say that uh let's say you're trying to avoid being a Pik me guy right you two how I on a on a first date or on something how do you talk about yourself at all first date are you oh no you ask questions you don't talk about yourself at all the if you're on like one of those dating shows I don't know I usually don't talk about myself on first dates I usually ask wait you just wait to be asked huh yeah I usually ask questions and I wait to be asked it just go what's new and they're like nothing how about you everything we lame out next leave what you been up to what what's new what's new what you been what's been going on so your main thing really just to conversationally to like
9:21 be the one asking questions yeah conversational wizard I don't think any of us would ever been like yo I ████ do this I ████ do that as ████ I'm ████ sick you know what I'm saying like funny there's so many guys that do speak that way that's a br to me my assumption was always that girls don't like it when guys talk about themselves too much oh see I like to listen and let you rant because somehow you're going to let something slip that I'm going to listen to here and I'm going to pay attention cuz it looks like I'm not and I'm floopy and smoking my pen but in all reality I can hear everything like if you have something you think I'm not paying attention but in all out I heard it all yeah yeah so no let you talk cuz you're going to say something I haven't been in the dating World in a minute so I don't know you're in the dating world right now aren't you single come on baby single but I haven't been dating like you haven't been dating at all I've recently just opened up to the idea of like actually dating and
10:12 people yeah oh you sure like yes cuz I got out of my relationship 2020 and then basically from 2020 to maybe 2020 2020 that seems like a long time ago that's a whole High School person's ████ life away is all whole High School person's life that's like a un of time I also wow it's High School your high school career you know how you said was it recent but for me it felt like Co was last year oh dude I still feel like 1980 was 20 years ago my s███'s ████ up 1970 was only 30 years ago okay I will die on this ledge it was 30 years ago refuse yeah it hurts everything hurts everything hurts I sprained my foot the other day when I was just laying in bed yeah it hurts
11:02 like somebody was telling me like oh yeah if Back to the Future were made today that he would just be going to the '90s and I like had heartburn I said that to you heartburn you had to take a thumbs yeah I had to take a thumbs I was like oh my God because when what you said to me it hurts yeah it resp actually for word by word I have I have receipts I had real pains cuz I was like damn that's sad to think that it's I'm also sad by how much the world hasn't changed compared to like 19 55 to 85 in the movie I'm like dude it wouldn't look like you went anywhere in some places no yeah it's very go to Texas everything's still old just said that about all of Texas no no not all of Texas but like the the Hood part of Texas or gets more specific actually yeah actually go to go to Mojave or the valley it's just ████ old out there
11:54 like armadillos for days just houses broken down water DRS everywhere you're like what the ████ mhm tum you said you're now open to dating what was the did something change why you decided that is it a conscious effort uh I just didn't think I was in the right mind space to be dating honestly like I got out of the relationship Loki ████ me up for like 2 years damn uh sorry man no talk no I'm I'm good I'm good love but then like [Laughter] also try harder dude no I'm joking uh what nothing no but I'll say like I don't I for some reason I just feel like the dating pool in AR in Phoenix specifically wasn't all that I don't know if you guys ever been there but it's really big on hookup hook hookup culture really bigger than La yeah I I
12:45 would say so wow why cuz it's meaning like just ████ yeah cuz like if you know anything about like Phoenix or like Scot though it's like all you do all every weekend is party and it's the the same people and it's the same people like you it's a big but for some reason everybody knows everybody and everybody's dated everybody yeah exactly that's why being in Arizona like I was never really interested in dating anybody and for some reason I feel like girls back home weren't even like interested in me usually when I go out of Arizona I I see that girls are a little bit more open to meeting me and talking to me and stuff like that I don't know why but oh when I went to here versus Arizona yeah I feel like girls here are more open to actually talking oh interesting AR probably because you everybody already knows you in Ariz cuz everybody knows each other and also too a lot of professional athletes go through Arizona so a lot of girls feel like they have a chance
13:35 with and the colleges I like them sending their High hope there's a funky standard yeah one of 10 yeah okay well how was your experience here dating like in LA uh I haven't I honestly haven't even been dating but I like I met a honestly a couple girls who were like more my type as opposed to like being back home what's your Ty man freaking uh ifbb Pros like ████ anime cosplay no just a little bit more playful honestly oh that's like a that's like a weightlifting division isn't it isn't it like like bodybuilding are those the bodybuilders that are allowed to use Trend and stuff I had no idea I'm not I'm not too deep ins like bodybuilding I mean I work at the gym I'm not too into bodying you don't like the girls picking you up and no I'm I no I like I like I like I
14:26 like feminine women that's sound like the dentist thing that's sucking she's curling him yeah yeah yeah exactly you know what I'm talking about you probably do meet a lot of like Fitness girls no I do for sure is that in your type yeah I I like I like a girl who works out but like they still have I like a girl who's still feminine who still has like their feminine qualities to them too okay yeah I like that what do you like Asian girls so before moving to before moving here I like that reaction the W before moving here like I was I never really had interest in Asian girls but then I moved here and then they're like everywhere and it was just like it kind of opened up like a whole new like world for me cuz you're you're half Japanese I'm half Japanese Japanese but like I I never really thought about dating Asian girls until moving damn you never thought about it not really got some catching up to do yeah I got I got a lot of catch it was it's funny cuz like I always uh compared to that scene in Russ
15:16 r i when they open oh honestly that scene is is based on true stories is it really stupid yeah no that's but like not to offend any I hope that doesn't offend anybody but like over sexual over sexual out of everything we say here like I don't like what said there'll be at least one yeah yeah but no I us I've usually been I've always been attracted to black girls and now Asian girls which is both my hat have you ever dated another blazian no honestly no what's weird about it too though is like every time I meet a blazian person it's kind of like this weird thing cuz you never meet you don't meet a lot of them so it's like like it's kind of weird like I don't I don't really know how to explain there can only be one youy have this you lowy have this weird beef with them it becomes
16:06 Highlander you do low key you do lowkey have like a like a weird like it's like uh this is kind of weird like it's like are you like my cousin like cuz you don't see anybody else like that so it's like when you meet him it's like there could only be one wow I wonder what that's like that's interesting can only be one like I I could I could acknowledge that there's like good-looking bling girls but it's like at the same time it's like yeah like you are kind of like a a family it's like it's weird Oh weird I never knew that would be a problem for like I mean don't get me wrong no cuz I think a lot of Asian people have that yeah oh really I mean I've heard it a lot like some of my Asian girlfriends have said that they can't like they try to date an Asian guy like once yeah she's like I feel like he's my brother it's a common like like he doesn't even look like your brother but and I think like that comes from like family issues and stuff that like just makes you feel paternally like like there's a weird uh incompatibility off
16:58 the bat yeah you I find it weird when it's when you're full Asian though like you're full Asian you find dating other full Asian people that's weird what you mean that's weird that's weird no no no like yeah he's against it I think it's weird that they find it like it's I think it's weird too they find I think it's weird too but I think like some of them just can't help it like I understand like they just have a weird like that's why I think it comes from how you're raised or something references it's okay yeah yes definitely it could have been just parents messing it up for you oh for sure yeah or the just the culturally thing that you disagree with growing up you know you're just like what you don't have to date your own kind the ████ is this gang yeah you're like what is this gang ████ I don't want to be in a gang like that nah break the ice you know you want to break the circle you want to break the moo JoJo you know yeah that's a good
17:48 way of putting it yeah I feel you bro yeah yeah interesting well you guys have seen uh Ria's IG in the start of this video if you want to hit on him he's single give it your best shot bro show your you know his type you know his type ready to date let's go I'm shy dude I'm so sh hey you know what see you quest Halloween we'll fix that hey
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