0:00 [Music] welcome back to careful boys today we are surveying looking through the internet digging through the files trying to determine who is in fact the a-hole oh love these I love these is it a a that's correct no that's asking am I am I a t m i d a yeah nailed it all right so my boyfriend won't clean up after himself or at all get him out of here my boyfriend male 22 I female 22 blow him up for 22 4 and a/2 years moved together moved in together last August the biggest challenge has been cleaning I like having a clean organized space while he grew up in a household where cleaning wasn't a priority yeah you should suck them off then yeah oh that's
0:50 sick advice that actually would help that would help his mom did the cleaning but she didn't do much due to being overwhelmed before moving in we agreed on a chore chart to split responsibilities evenly we also decided to rotate chores weekly and alter alternate doing dishes every day a few months in I noticed he wasn't doing his chores so I made a change we agreed that if one person skips their chores they're responsible for them until they're done and then we resume the original schedule this change was after several talks about the importance of a clean space for my mental health despite understanding and agreeing to these changes he still doesn't follow through he uses my thorough blankets and towels if doesn't clean them he leaves wet towels around the bathroom for weeks I've even bought separate towels and dishes for myself but he still doesn't treat my things with respect when the shared towels and dishes I provide run out he asks to use mine promising to clean them afterward he never does now
1:40 it's February the mess is unbearable piles of trash dirty dishes spoiled food laundry everywhere we had multiple conversations situation hasn't improved what should I do am I for getting upset about this no he's cuz he's not putting her in her place and being like y woman what the why aren't you clean doing your work this is your job this is your clean action yo that's kind of funny cuz that's how you be direct you got to be direct in a in a relationship you communicate yo he he's too he's being too passive aggressive cuz in his mind he's like I'm not cleaning this up that's your job that's what he's doing right instead of being like ████ it's your ████ job that's a real man that's a real man and then you ████ put your feet on the table and then you say give me a beer yeah make me a sandwich yeah oh I'll take a sandwich too up so ████ glad though that I am
2:30 not in a relationship where we have to fight over chores cuz I've seen that ████ go down so hard so many times and I'm like if you're ████ if you can't if you just can't feel chill in your own home like what the ████ like I've seen couples where like they both blame each other but they both ████ make a mess but they're blind to their own mess and then they look at like what the ████ is this and I'm like ████ I see the ████ CL you made and you're blaming him for that and he's like looking at all these dishes or whatever and it's like but you made this ████ fing laundry ████ all over I'm like you guys are ████ horrible dude you're just like you're like the United States watching Israel and Gaza yeah and you're like cease fire please you both are ████ ████ up daddy chill yeah what the hell was even that uh yeah I mean you're not being considerate right like you have to be considerate to your cuz she says it
3:21 affects her mental ████ well especially if they had a plan at the beginning right if they sit down and they say hey these are the organized rules of engagement this is how we have to clean him not doing any of it is disrespectful what I don't get though is it's pretty straightforward why the ████ does she have to make a m ████ that's what I'm saying because there's hidden ████ when people do this ████ there's always the things that they like that could self-incriminate them in this process right so they remove all that ████ and they clearly make a one-sided argument where you're like yeah clearly you're great you know what I ████ ask Reddit and guess what the reviews are in 100% I'm right you're wrong and they're like oh but you conveniently missed out all this other ████ ████ well that's like going to therapy same ████ I think she just wants to copy this link and send it to her man after well let me ask you this cuz really what I thought was
4:11 interesting about this is should she leave him over this yep you think so no she should first suck him off and he goes that was so good right and he goes well you're never getting that again peace you dirty ████ Deuces I think at age 22 absolutely there's they have ████ so much time to find someone that's cleaner or she hits him with the ultimatum like hey if you don't get this ████ together then we're going on the television the ultimatum yeah and I will make my decision on live TV I do feel like the ultimatum at that age too you're still working out how to be an adult so like but that's kind of adult to be like yo this is our schedule this is what we're sticking to having all these rules and ████ because I feel like at least they have that but if this dude can't even follow those simple instructions balls out though and then he's like oh look
5:02 you just hire a maid yeah then what you do but then these ████ always want you to clean for the maid there's no point in getting that's true that's true we had clean before they get him why do you get a maid if you have to clean for them no point getting a ████ maid dude ma ma steals though oh yeah that's that's a whole new problem maid steal what happened with the maid stealing we we had a maid come in um paid her 500 cuz such last minute so we said hey 500 we got a big ass house or what no we don't your apartment's pretty big okay well it's it's spacious but it's like at the you know our our child we got relieved from the hospital and say hey you're coming you guys get to go tomorrow so we're like hey just in case let's in like just deep clean everything we left a watch on top of the kitchen table my wife's uh dad's watch and then
5:53 she stole the Hanukkah candles too not the Hanukkah candles but look you know two ladies came in deep cleaned everything Hey where's our watch cuz we clearly put it on the kitchen table but they probably assumed that we would not remember or we would just start saying oh I don't know we lost it gone was it a G-Shock no was it a s in watch I don't know what kind of watch CIO what was their answer to like where it was they they either wouldn't answer a week later they said we don't know or anything but we for sure left it on the kitchen dad's watch is a rough one yeah that's a sad one Prett sad and he's easy into watches and the the the drle spinner too he I think they took a couple toilet papers too bro toilet papers know what the Dre was they're like I don't know I don't know what did they take any yamaka hats
6:44 weird dice we're not Orthodox we're not Orthodox they take any [Music] foreskin took mines ████ is this worth leaving them for I think they're both just like need to grow up anyway so yeah they should just both if you're making a post for something like this dumb both yall need to do something else how do you guys handle like cleaning like like work how did you guys work that out as a couple it's just so Nikki Mak made a system and then I just follow that system it's great what's the system it's like um like everything in our place has a place cuz when we first moved in together we didn't have a place for everything yet cuz we were mixing stuff so once she like organized everything and like everything has a place it's so easy to maintain that see look at that system you agree upon it you do it it's all easy it's all it's easy peasy yeah and
7:34 like dishes wise we both kind of just trade off naturally it's like oh dishes look a little rough I'll take care of that like I I see it clearly boom no problem or she'll do the same thing is there things that like only she does and in things that only you do and it's just sucks my dick that's my dog and it's not going to suck itself that's my Gody right there I can get close I won't do it though I'm not going to do it but you do you split everything up or is it just some ████ that you guys you just don't do ever think of what oh I vacuumed the stairs cuz it's too heavy for that oh I do kitty litter too cuz you're the ████ man yeah I'm the s██████ I'll take out the trash I'm the trash I feel like that's kind of like the guy Unwritten guy dirty yeah but when we got together I was like I'm not doing no kitty L are your ████ cats ████ I kind of was like kind of I kind of
8:24 actually was like that honestly I kind of was like that too and then my tune changed yeah my tune changed quick once you start getting regularly laid you're like oh yeah this is worth it the the comments are right man you guys are a bunch of simps 100% yeah but at least we stay with our girls that way yeah I'm with my girl dude it's funny because it's your she's your wife how you a s the best but but I dude my wife's back is bad right so her doing litter made yeah is yeah cuz I ████ it up no cuz I there's no way I'm her do literally my dog H man Nick's the best part but squatting over the litter and all that ████ N I always wonder how other couples work this ████ out because like I think people that keep tabs of each other just be like I ████ watched it three times and then you only watch it one time this
9:14 week I think like that's easy straight that's some other underlying ████ that's like you're keeping tabs and you think you're doing more work than the other person and you're like score you're in trouble yeah the scoreboard is the same ████ team dude there's not two two different scores it's one score yeah it's the team score I don't think so we we would we would like we would we keep tab as a joke but we never took it too seriously you know what I'm saying ████ did that ████ three times dude look at her like come on me last night last night TI did the same thing to me where she was like she was trying to keep keep tabs on me and we do it as a joke yeah yeah and then she but at first I got serious for a second I was like oh okay she was like I just I folded your laundry and I put it away for you I don't know if I'm putting in the right places and I'm like no you're good thank you for doing that and
10:04 she's like I should send you a bill and I was like oh yeah I was you should send me a bill huh she's like yep and I was like what can I bill you for and she goes everything else I was like okay cuz if you said something I was about to I was about to get in your face this close dude I got a list ████ I got a list I was sent her the video of us talking about coffee cups oh DD oh my God yo that is so funny hey does your girl leave a teacups in the ████ uh sink all the time to be honest we're we're both we're both like that so but I like to clean right away but I I would usually like to just I was just like I'm going just ████ do it yeah does she leave teacups or does she leave cups full of cement my question girls always they never finish their drink and then they always leave their ████ cups around the house and there's a ring of coffee stains on all
10:54 the coffee and if there's a tea bag the tea bag is like an ancient Egyptian tool petrified wood all dried up he has to dust it before he chips it off yo why is that yeah dude it's like the teabag the teabag part is very true but at the end of the day I don't care as much you're just like whatever just ████ it's just funny to ████ ████ about it with your Bo I'll FaceTime her I'll FaceTime her about it and I'm like steaming dude I'm like the only thing I I I complain about is maybe laundry I'm like babe come on you're close you know it's been here for a week we can we can clean it up or just hang it yeah it's okay I'll hang it for you but I don't like dealing with the stringy stringy oh yeah that we have to do another one here we go am I the ████ for opening and using a 2008 Lego Star Wars set I got for my birthday that cost
11:44 my friend a couple hundred I had it my birthday about a month ago and I was flabbergasted seeing the Lego Star Wars 2008 Republic Gunship fully boxed my friend didn't even mention an exact amount just that he spent a lot to get one since I've always been a Star Wars fan and he saw someone selling it and then he knew it was worth it especially since we're since while he's not rich he's a little better off than I am monetarily I didn't really care about actually getting anything or at least not something that expensive since I had never gotten a gift that expensive before but I really thanked him and hugged him which I usually don't out of awkwardness but I really appreciated it anyway a couple days ago when he visited he now saw it was sitting on my shelf with all the Minifigures by it and he seemed kind of shocked almost disappointed he said stuff like that loses its value if unboxed oh no and you're not supposed to open rare things oh no yeah he's ████ he
12:35 should have sucked them off's answer for everything but I but I find Value in actually using things there it is right there I know that that thing is over 15 years old now but I've never understood the mentality that if I could just look at the boxes or I never understood that mentality if I just look at boxes and stores or on the computer they aren't worth anything to me if I can't actually use it so I open and use everything get no matter of the price yeah like you should be using your harder I like him I like that it makes total sense because if the value to you is actually playing with it or building it then you should do that and then it loses value but it's worth something loose anyway Lego people are crazy dude well then get two sets yeah for yourself for homie should have told him though like hey bro don't open this box but what's the point of giving something to someone you gave him a box like exactly
13:26 to display yeah that's it I mean you you gave him a point of Pride too you said what it's a point of Pride too like you get to say this is something you have oh yeah exactly but in in his mind he's saying that his friend is like you ruined it right so that's his mentality unless unless he specifically gives it and goes I got a deal on this I think you can upsell it because I monetarily do a little bit better than you remember that remember how I do that maybe the the thing that would surprise me too is if we were both ████ 40 and I gave a Lego thing to a friend because we're old and we collect ████ and then he opens it to play with it at our ages yeah then I would be like are you ████ kidding I would have got you to yeah yeah yeah first of all though I haven't enjoyed playing with Legos since I was a kid and then I just started playing with Legos again and it's really fun say building building Legos aru Fun adult Legos though cuz like there's a
14:16 difference okay first of all I couldn't afford Rivendell that's $499 but I want that one from ring but you usually you usually reach an age where you are primarily a collector right yeah I want to get the old pirate set that I got the pirate set was sick with the sales on they still have them dude they still have them but the old on they're so expensive that's what I'm saying new one came out but the old one's on eBay ████ they have like 11 characters and ████ the whole ████ Fellowship of the r where you put this that's why I don't have nowhere to put and then I can imagine my ████ cats just n yeah F they ████ like that man look at this ████ dude rivendale brother IM in the Box I ████ geek out how much is that worth box though 500 busck have you guys given a gift to any of your friends and later you seen it
15:06 like ████ sitting around doing nothing and collecting dust and you're just like ████ you you son of a ████ I ████ hate you so much I ask for it back I'm like if you're not going to use it I'll take it back that's good for you I got my buddy um signed picture of Daryl strawberry Daryl strawberry yeah before a or after no when he was on the on the um the Mets oh okay no way yeah and he's there with Doc what's his name Doc Martin not Doc Martin Doc Martin doc what's his brownc riversc Riv Doc Rivers and he and uh so it's signed by both of those cats sick and he just has it sitting on his ████ desk never going to hang it up in his probably his whole life what up ████ piece of ████ right it's funny because the this Lego it's the Lego 6399 airport shuttle monreal it's on eBay right now new in box or not new in box but just with the Box
15:56 $10,000 I even if I had never opened this as a kid right the value of playing with it as a child is well exceeds the monetary value of today's Worth to me completely disagree you leave it in the box if you bought it 10 grand I think yeah 10 grand that was the stupidest thing you ████ that kid kid needs to go outside with an imagination you can't buy the feeling today for ████ though dude imagine you're a kid though and you got that box yeah that's imagine not opening it and and play with that as a child y That's crazy you're buying ████ now to feel like a child and you're not even close that's true that's true that's like getting the Ninja Turtle van and not being able to exactly dude you got to open it $10,000 makes me feel like a that that feeling is only it's a limited time offer $10,000 right now I'm going to ████ do childish things if I get $10,000 right now it'll be $450 in a
16:47 week cuz the Colts baby let's go baby yeah I paid that first buy more ammo I think you can end the video yeah that's a good butt leave it in leave it in [Music]
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